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Manvotional

Manvotional: Robert Service’s “The Quitter”

by Brett

Right now I’m heading into my very last law school finals. It’s been a long 3 years and with the end finally in sight, it can be hard to stay focused and motivated. But I think about my old football days, and how the fourth quarter was the most important part of the game. It’s [...]

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Manvotional: Selection from the Meditations of Marcus Aurelius

by Brett

This week’s Manvotional comes from the Roman philosopher Marcus Aurelius. In his Meditations, Aurelius gives a description of his adoptive father. According to AoM reader Brian, who submitted this manvotional, it’s a worthy selection “both because it is a show of respect and affection for his father and because he outlines what it means to [...]

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Manvotional: Reveille

by Brett

I think we all have gone trough periods of our lives where we feel like we’re stuck in neutral.  Sometimes too much stress and pressure or just too much laziness can push us into a rut that seems impossible to get out of. The hardest part of getting out of a rut for me is [...]

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Manvotional: The Man in The Arena by Theodore Roosevelt

by Brett & Kate McKay

If you’ve been reading AoM for awhile, you’ll know that we’re big, big fans of Theodore Roosevelt. TR’s life shows us that hard work, tenacity, and a desire to do the right thing can get you far in life. In the most memorable section of his “Citizenship in a Republic” speech, Roosevelt captured his life [...]

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Manvotional: Playing the Game

by Brett & Kate McKay

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I ran across this poem by an anonymous author the other day. I think it sums up nicely how a man should approach life: play fair, don’t whine when things don’t go your way, and bust your butt in everything you do. Play the game of life well, and you’ll be a success.

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Manvotional: True and False Manliness

by Brett

While we often think that the difficulty in defining manliness is a modern problem, if one looks through books of the the early 20th and 19th century, you will find that authors of that period also had a hard time nailing down exactly what manliness meant. Manliness is one of those [...]

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Christmas Eve Manvotional: The Night of Oranges

by Brett & Kate McKay

This following essay appeared in the New York Times in 1995. As a young man, I remember it making a deep impression on me for reasons I couldn’t then quite articulate, and I cut it out and have saved it ever since. To a time in which the holidays have often become overly-commercialized and stripped [...]

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Manvotional: Boys Wanted

by Brett & Kate McKay

I found this poem in a book on public speaking from 1900. While it was written for young boys, it’s just as applicable to young men. Hard work, dedication, and resiliency are all qualities we should try to develop in our sons and in ourselves.

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Manvotional: A Father’s Advice From Hamlet

by Brett & Kate McKay

William Shakespeare’s words speak across generations and cultures. In this scene, Polonius gives a bit of fatherly advice to his son Laertes before he heads off to France. While all the advice is good, the best doesn’t come until the end- “To thine own self be true.” Be a man of honor and integrity. Live [...]

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Manvotional: Lord Chesterfield on the Art of Gentlemanly Conversation

by Brett & Kate McKay

Phillip Stranhope, better known as Lord Chesterfield, was a British statesman and and man of letters. While his son was attending Westminster School, Lord Chesterfield wrote a series of letters giving advice to his on becoming a man and, more importantly, a gentleman. In this letter dated October 16, 1747, Lord Chesterfield counsels his son [...]

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Manvotional: The American Boy by Theodore Roosevelt

by Brett & Kate McKay

In a speech, Roosevelt extolled the manly virtues that every boy and man should develop: hard work, courage, and a disposition to do good. The lack of men of character in the world today makes this speech relevant even today. As fathers or mentors, let us seek to raise up a generation of boys like [...]

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Manvotional: Of Studies by Francis Bacon

by Brett & Kate McKay

Every man should value lifelong learning. Sadly, many men today have put the things of the mind on the back burner. Learning is often viewed as “nerdy” or “not manly.” Hogwash! Many of history’s manliest men were some of its smartest, and they greatly valued the pursuit of knowledge. Teddy Roosevelt devoured thousands of books [...]

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Manvotional #5: “Invictus” by William Ernest Henley

by Brett & Kate McKay

We all face challenges in our lives. What separates men of character from spineless wieners is the way they face those challenges. In the poem “Invictus,” British poet William Ernest Henley describes how a man should respond to challenges. “Invictus” is Latin for “unconquerable.” Every man should have an unconquerable spirit. When life kicks you [...]

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Manvotional: Albert Jeremiah Beveridge’s The Young Man and the World

by Brett & Kate McKay

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We’ve written before on the importance of spending time with Mother Nature. The modern man’s life with all it’s stress, expectations, and constraints can suffocate your man spirit and extinguish your vim and vigor. In this excerpt from Albert Jeremiah Beveridge’s The Young Man and the World, we’re reminded how Nature can help [...]

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Manvotional #3: Adversity Molds the Great Man

by Brett & Kate McKay

It is in times of turmoil and strife that true manliness is shown. A life without adversity makes a man weak, dull, and effeminate. In his essay, On Providence, the Roman philosopher Seneca discuses the importance of adversity in shaping a man’s life. According to Seneca, it is only through adversity that the Great Man [...]

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