Letter Writing

We’ve discussed the benefits of rediscovering the lost art of letter writing before, so suffice it to say that writing letters in your spare time can be a very satisfying hobby. You can get into the cool tools of letter writing like fine stationery and fountain pens. Fire off a bunch of letters to friends and family. At least one will write you back and you can begin a lifetime correspondence with them. Or make your letter writing really count by using a program like Pen Pals for Soldiers. Soldiers love to receive mail, so take the time to write these brave men an encouraging note. Also take a look at something like the Bridge of Hope Nursing Home Pen Pal Program. Give a lonely senior citizen something to look forward to in their mail slot.
Martial Arts

There are a myriad of benefits to learning a martial art: gaining self-defense skills, building your discipline and focus, increasing your health, connecting with a manly tradition, and giving the warrior side of yourself an outlet. There are a ton of different martial arts out there-choosing one will come down to what you are personally looking for. Do a lot of research and shopping around to find the discipline and instructor that’s right for you. You may wish to go the MMA route and learn how to incorporate a variety of techniques into your fighting repertoire. And of course, boxing comes highly recommended. You can join with other martial artists in the AoM Community.
Hiking

Nothing beats a long hike to relax, get some fresh air, and rejuvenate your man spirit. What’s great about hiking is that in most cases it’s completely free. All you need is a pair of sturdy shoes or boots and a place to walk, be it some fields behind your house or a trail in a state park. Check out trails.com to find a hiking trail near you. There are always trails where you live, even in the flattest states-I should know- I’m from Oklahoma. You might just have to drive a little to get there.
Alcohol/Cigar/Pipe Smoking Connoisseur

You can walk into the store and grab whatever whisky you recognize or is cheapest. Or can you can become a bonafide whisky connoisseur, understanding why one whisky differs from another, where each brand comes from, and which you truly like. Things like whisky, beer, wine, cigars and pipe tobacco, can be things in which you become a true expert, a man who understands the subtleties that make each brand, each vintage unique. Not only can this heighten your pleasure in consuming such things, it can also help you meet others who share a similar interest and make you a desirable friend, the man who can mix the perfect martini and share his tips on the best cigar. Pick the thing that most calls to you and start reading books and blogs about it. Go down to the local tobacco shop and have the tobaccoist show you the ropes. And of course you need hands on study! Sip and smoke until you find the gems that leave you relaxed and smiling at the end of the day.
Photography

If you’ve always wanted to pick up an art, but don’t have the painter’s touch, try photography. With digital cameras and digital editing software becoming cheaper, photography as a hobby is more popular and accessible than ever. One benefit of photography as a hobby is that you can combine other interests with it. Love the outdoors? Snap some nature photos while on your hike. Are you an aficionado of classic diners? Take a picture of every diner you visit. A vibrant community of photographers exists online and many photo hobbyists have free sites dedicated to teaching photography. Check out Digital Photography School and Strobist to find out more info on how to get started with this hobby. And be sure to join the friendly and welcoming AoM PhotoGroup
Pool/Billiards

Every time I watch the The Hustler, I get the urge to walk into a smokey pool hall and become the master of the cue stick. Pool and billiards combines strategy, geometry, and oftentimes psychology in order to win. It’s also a great way to spend time and shoot the bull with your friends. If you can’t convince your wife that the game room won’t be complete without a pool table, try hitting up a pool hall or bowling alley to get your game on. A game costs a couple of bucks, more if you get hustled.
Mountaineering

If you’re into camping and hiking and are looking for a new challenge in the great outdoors, then look no further than mountaineering. Mountaineers, well, climb mountains. Why? Because it’s there of course! There are few things as satisfying in life as getting to the peak after a grueling climb, gazing out to a breathtaking view, and knowing that you just conquered the mountain. For some mountaineering tips, check out this good article by Adam Cook.
Cooking

We’ve said it again and again; every man should know how to cook. The benefits of knowing your way around a kitchen are legion-it gives you independence (no more relying on others to feed you), it saves you money over having to go out to eat or buy pre-packaged foods, it impresses the ladies, it helps you stay healthy (ever read the nutrition information for fast food?), and it’s just plain enjoyable. You’ve got to eat a few times every single dang day, so you might as well get some pleasure out of it. Plus it’s a cheap and accessible hobby to take up. You can get fancier foods and tools down the road, but with the basics already in your kitchen, some groceries, and a few cookbooks, you can send your HungryMan dinners packing.
Blacksmithing

If you think blacksmithing went extinct along with the horse and buggy, you’d be wrong. While very few men make their living these days by being a blacksmith, there are men who enjoy this craft as a hobby. For the cost of buying a nice camera to get into photography, you can take up this classic, manly and tradition-rich pursuit. Soon you’ll be building a fire in your forge and hammering away at a glowing piece of iron on your trusty anvil, just like Vulcan himself. See if a local blacksmith offers classes, as some do. Also check out this site for more info on what to expect from a class and this site to read about the experience of a middle-aged electrical engineer who took up blacksmithing as a hobby.
Flying

Some of history’s manliest men were those who conquered the skies- men like Charles Lindbergh, Chuck Yeager, and Wiley Post. You may not be setting any records, but you can still soar like an eagle. Of course, the biggest obstacle to taking up flying as a hobby is the cost. It’s expensive. Pilot lessons can run a couple thousand dollars and licensing is a few hundred. On top of that, you’ll need a plane. Some men combine their love of mechanical work with flying by building their own prop plane. But even so, you’ll need a place to store it, so you’ll probably have to pay a monthly rental feed for that as well. Despite the cost, many amateur pilots I know say it’s completely worth it just to feel that sense of pure freedom up in the air.
Magic

Every man should know at least a couple of good magic tricks to impress friends, woo ladies, and delight children. There are few hobbies as fun of the practice of magic; the pay off of having people beg you to reveal the secret will leave you with a lasting grin. Practicing a trick over and over again to make it absolutely smooth and seamless is the kind of work that doesn’t feel like work. And every man knows that the only kind of shopping that is fun is that which is done in a magic store. Finally, magic can become a new hobby for very cheap; all you really need to start is a good book of magic tricks and a deck of cards (a magic deck of cards never hurts either). You can keep working your way up to more and more complex tricks until you’re sawing your mother-in-law in half in the living room.
Learning a Foreign Language

There are few hobbies as unarguably useful as learning a foreign language. How many times have you been in a situation where you wished you could communicate with a server/student/parent/victim, but could not. And how much did you wish you could speak the native language the last time you traveled abroad? Learning a foreign language can be pretty difficult, but when you really think about it, the ability to speak two entirely different languages is pretty dang cool. Community colleges always offer language courses for a good price, or you can try an at-home method like Rosetta Stone. The key is to continually practice or you’ll never get better and retain what you’ve learned. Some libraries host weekly get togethers where people can come and practice speaking a foreign language with others. Watching movies and television and listening to music in the language you’re studying helps too.
Card Playing

From cribbage to poker to hearts, men like to play cards. The perfect social setting card playing creates-low key and relaxed but coupled with friendly competition-allows men to talk and hang out without it being forced. Get some cigars, have some guys over, and play for all the chips.
Blogging

Writing is a manly hobby in and of itself, of course. But blogging offers its own interesting twist on this timeless activity. A blog can be an outlet for sharing something you’re passionate and knowledgeable about with other people. You can meet people from all over the world that share your interest, and you can start great discussions and online friendships in that way. Or you can use your blog to update friends and family on the goings on in your life (moms love their kids’ blogs). Or you can use your blog as your personal journal, a permanent treasure trove of musings and photographs that you can look back on in the years to come. You can also use your blog to boost your professional career, network, and build your personal brand. No matter what reason you start a blog, it can also teach you a bit more tech savvy- how to upload pictures and videos, web design, online marketing and so on. It’s the kind of thing you may not understand the appeal of before you start, but becomes addicting once you get into it.
Paintball

Remember when you were a kid and you’d play war with your friends with imaginary grenades, bazookas, and bullets? Well, now that you’re a “big boy” you can play war, but this time with the experience of getting shot at with 100 mph paintballs. Trust me-it definitely adds to the excitement factor. Paintballing isn’t too expensive. For about $30 you can rent a gun, CO2 cartridge, safety mask, and enough ammo to last you most of the day at a paintball course. If you really get into paintballing you can always buy your own equipment and just pay for the cost of using a facility
Fencing

En garde! What do The Three Musketeers, Zorro, and Luke Skywalker have in common? Mad sword fighting skills, of course. A sport that has been around since ancient Greek and Roman times, this is a true gentleman’s pursuit. Take part in a tradition that the knights and lords of old were schooled in, a last vestige of proper dueling. Gain balance, coordination, flexibility and focus as you learn the ancient art of parrying with an opponent. There are three different types of weapons used in fencing-the foil, the sabre, and the épée. Each has a different weight and is used in conjunction with different rules. Do some research on what fencing is really like and watch a video of a match to understand what you are getting into; it is different than the movie version with the continual clashing of swords; much of it consists of bouncing around, carefully looking for an opening and an opportunity to thrust at the opponent.
Beer Brewing

It’s Saturday morning. Your favorite team is playing on College Game Day and you’ve invited your friends over. What sort of beverage will you provide? Sure, you could go to the grocery store and pick up a 12 pack of Miller High Life, but wouldn’t it be cooler, nay, even manlier, to offer a cold one that you brewed yourself? Well, you can once you get started with beer brewing as a hobby. Getting started with home brewing is cheap and easy. Trent at The Simple Dollar provides a step-by-step photo walk-through and cost breakdown of brewing your own beer. For $35 worth of ingredients and equipment Trent was able to brew seven six packs of beer. Not too shabby. Once you get familiar with the brewing process, you can start experimenting with the flavor of the beer and make your own limited edition beer that you can give as gifts to friends.
Drawing and Painting

Winston Churchill was an avid painter. He would spend hours in his garden or indoor studio painting while smoking his cigar. It was his way of keeping the black dog of depression at bay. He understood the healthy affect having a creative outlet can have on a man. Many men give up on art because they feel they have no inherent talent for it; this may be so, but classes and practice can make you a lot better. Drawing is the most accessible art to try. A few art pencils and a moleskine will keep you busy. Painting requires a bit more set up and cost depending on the type of painting you want to do. Watercolor painting is cheaper (and easier to clean up) than oil painting. Most hobby and art stores provide drawing and painting classes. If you’re too cheap for that, you can always watch the man with the greatest white-man fro in history, Mr. Bob Ross. He’ll teach you the Joys of Painting. That’s a happy little tree…
Amateur Astronomy

Space. The final frontier. While you might not be able to actually visit space, you can still get caught up in its awe and majesty right from your backyard. You’d be surprised what sorts of things you can see in space with a small telescope or even a pair of high powered binoculars. If you really want to see deep into space, you’ll need to get a high powered telescope which of course will set you back a thousand dollars or so. But the payoff may come when you spot something in your backyard observatory that even the big dogs at NASA haven’t caught; amateur astronomers have made several big discoveries. And remember that astronomy is more than just looking in a telescope; it’s also learning as much as you can about our wondrous universe from books, shows, and lectures.
Genealogy

Genealogy is a funny thing. It’s the kind of hobby that seems really boring from the outside. But once you get into it, it can totally grab hold of you and become something you love. The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree, but how do you know what kind of apple you are, if you don’t know from whence you fell? Every man should know and understand his roots. You’ll understand more about why you are the way you are, and why your parents are the way they are and their parents and so on. You’ll come to a greater appreciation of the people who made your existence possible. Once you start building your family tree, you’ll be amazed at the long lines that lead to you. You’re not just an isolated man; you come from a very real lineage, and your ancestors are all a part of you in some way. Start building your family tree by talking to relatives that may have already started on it and by searching free sites like Family Search.
Adventure Races

Looking for a bigger challenge than running a 5k? Has doing a marathon become too cliche? Check out the world of adventure racing. Adventure races last all day and incorporate a variety of activities; you may have to run/hike for 10 miles, paddle a kayak down a river for 10 miles, and then mountain bike through a forest for 20 miles. And along the way you have to stop at checkpoints which can only be found by using a map and a compass. Physical activity+the great outdoors+orienteering=very manly. Check out the United States Adventure Racing Association to find an event in your area.
Knitting

Knitting? Knitting?! The thing that your grandma adores and your great aunt uses to make you a scarf for Christmas? Yes, knitting. Far from the sissy activity that many think it to be, men invented knitting, and it’s time we reclaim our place in its history. Men were the first professional knitters, plying their trade in Europe during the 16th century. And sailors were the other original knitters. They would make fishing nets and sweaters to keep them warm. These days, knitting for men is making a comeback; it’s both useful and relaxing. My good friend Cameron learned to knit while on a mission in Bolivia ,and he was the only man in the knitting club at law school. And his manliness is unassailable. Be sure to watch this video about knitting and men and join your knitting brothers at Men Who Knit.
Computer Programming

What ham radio was in the 1950s, computer programming is today. While women are making advances in the area, coding has traditionally been a male pastime. Many men have made computer programming their living, but there are millions more who have day jobs but pound out code in their spare time just for kicks and giggles. These are the people who make silly online games, useful open source apps, and cool web projects. There’s a variety of code languages you can learn. Personally, I’m fond of web programming and have found W3Schools a great resource to learn PHP, SQL, and CSS completely for free.
Inspired to take up a new hobby? Remember, starting out is always the fun and exciting part. But getting good is never as easy as you think it will be. You’re going to hit bumps in the road. Don’t make your new hobby another things you drop by the wayside and let gather dust in your closet. Good luck!
What are some more manly hobbies? What’s your favorite hobby? What hobby do you want to explore? If you’re already experienced with one of the hobbies on this list, please offer your tips for those men who are just starting out. What things do they need to know? Share your thoughts with us in the comments.
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I wonder what girls do with themselves without hobbies. Too busy with school, work, socializing? aren’t those the reasons to take up a hobby, to get away from all that and destress? It’s pretty disappointing when you can talk passionately about your hobbies, and she’s just like “uh-huh.” Personally, I wouldn’t mind if a woman had hobbies she enjoys.
What about playing the piano? or any instrument for that matter? Or making, composing music? Anything more active than simply listening to it. Girls are usually pretty impressed when I tell them I make hip hop beats (and I know that’s definitely not a traditionally manly hobby.)
Playing the guitar! Woot! Get’s my vote.
these are not manly these are very homo spainiard
Can you please do a post on how to knit?
I’ve taken up restoring classic motorcycles, much simpler than cars, and riding classic motorcycles and newer cruisers. They are great hobbies, you can travel, take photographs, site see, camp, male bond, journal and blog about your experience.
I agree being in front of the TV all the time is such a waste. My favorite hobby on this list is reading. Just because I have been that kind of person who would only watch TV. But now I have find my new hobby which is reading books, magazines, newspapers, and the internet. Honestly I did not think that reading is a manly skill but now I know. I always fought that females read a lot more than males.
I’ve got two more for you guys. Fly tieing. and beer brewing.
what about knot tying?
You left out a very important one: Horseback riding. Sure, nowadays it seems to be the preserve of preteen girls on ponies, but for about five thousand years horsemanship was absolutely the definition of manliness. The manliest President of the past quarter-century put it perfectly: “There’s something about the outside of a horse that’s good for the inside of a man.”
Riding’s good exercise, it has loads of tradition, it builds confidence with authority and gentleness, it develops your posture, and it’s fun. Whether you dress cowboy-style or in English riding habit you look awesome. And remember: women never quite grow out of their preteen horse-mania…
where is “riding motorcycle”? not manly enough for you?
Great list! Out of the list, l do 9 of them with my favourite one being magic.
Great list. Simply because your hobby did not make the list… so what? The hobby does not make you manly, You doing it WELL makes it excellent. Do it with heart and intensity and it will be manly enough. I need to find me some knitting needles!
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At the ripe old age of 50, I took up the Great Highland Bagpipe. Never played a musical instrument before that. Never wore a kilt before either. Need a manly pass time? Try marching down the street with a band of pipers and drummers. A man in a kilt is a man and a half.
I was happy to see knitting on the list. I am 26, married with a soon to be 1year old boy. My grandmother taught me and my wife how to knit. It can be very relaxing and i like making hats, gloves and other things for family & friends.
Unless I am mistaken snowboarding isn’t in the list. I have just returned today from Banff, great people, good snow, spectacular scenery, fresh mountain air, lots of sun and plenty of fun. It surely deserves a place on the list doesn’t it? I certainly think so……there are a few pics on my blog if you want to see how it looks….
looks like you all left out RC Modeling.
This is an excellent post that has inspired me to invest time in interesting activities that lend vibrancy to my life. This is a website of quality and class, and I look forward to purchasing the book.
The list is very good. However, I’m a little disappointed that dancing made the list and singing did not. What about Crosby, Sinatra, Martin, etc… They were VERY manly. I don’t have anything against ballroom dancing, it just seems odd that Danny Kaye’s hobby would make the list and Bing Crosby’s wouldn’t.
Video games are one of my greatest creative outlets. I’ve created RPG games that take 10+ hours to complete (which are more like writing a book than anything…I’ve yet to find another medium that allows me to let my storytelling out successfully), a huge undertaking that takes about a year total. It even turns out to be a great bonding experience when I create one for my friends, full of inside jokes. I also compose music for my programming friend to use in his games.
Of course, gaming isn’t my only hobby, I partake in many listed above. I just think video games unjustly get a bad rap. I know it isn’t typical, but you can be a gamer and an outdoorsman at the same time. I live on a freakin’ farm!
Great article, but how about a War As a Man’s Hobby? Just kidding, I’m HAM-Radio addicted :-)
I’m really quite pleased to see magic on here! I make my living as a magician and love the idea of it being manly.
I do boxing, but i workout old school, with a family friend who trained chilean champs like Fredy Shura
We don’t use weight machines, only a mirror, gloves and mitts
Everyone should try it
Hi there. New to the site, but this is awesome. There are definitely a couple of hobbies I want to pick up here, but glad to see a bunch I’m already involved in.
My favourite hobby is 18th century Living History and Historical Trekking. It covers such a wide range of interests that there is something for everyone. It is great for involving families, and I think that is very important.
Regards, Le Loup.
I knit, but not with wool and needles – I make chainmail. Good article!
I started to collect stamps when I was 6yrs. I now have a remarkably large collection. Photography, Bloging, reading are my other hobbies.
as a machinist by profession i find it entertaining to build things from scratch…even if its a little 2$ trinket i could buy at walmart…..theres nothing quite as satisfying as starting with nothing and knowing you produced a product of the upmost quality…if you have the time to try them i do – gunsmithing, dectorative metalwork, …stainless steel coasters for your coffee table (what guy wouldnt like a set of those)…knife making, luthier work (fixing or building stringed instruments), even still enjoy a model car or airplane now and then
there’s nothing more manly than telling your wife you’re a “jack of all trades, master of none”…..
Daetan Huck mentioned Go above as a counterpart to chess, and I play both so I would agree. Go is fascinating. I try to play at least one game a day online, and while it may not be as popular over here as it is in China, Japan, and Korea, there are local go clubs you can visit for those interested.
For the U.S.: www. usgo .org/
If you want to play online, this is a friendly server: www. gokgs .com/
And the best resource online for go knowledge, although the layout is somewhat confusing is: senseis.xmp.net/
I encourage all that are interested in board games, and especially chess, to try going to a local go club and watching a game and having someone teach you the basics. The 19×19 board may seem daunting at first, but 9×9 and 13×13 are popular varieties, especially for those just starting out.
In the vein of collecting something physical, postcards are just as good as stamps. As it happens, the Metropolitan Postcard Club of NYC (www. metropostcard. com) is hosting their show this weekend. The sellers are international, and are always willing to take time out to educate those new to the game, and being able to take an afternoon/weekend to sort through a few million worldwide images and letters certainly takes the stress off the hurried pace of the work week. Having images from across the globe on display in your house also provides a great conversation starter.
My older brother was always into model rocketry and I thought it very manly of him. There’s nothing like meticulously assembling and painting your creation and then watch your hard earned money sail into the wild blue yonder and come down in an 80 year old oak tree. You must then become even more manly by risk life and limb climbing the tree. I always sat in a lawn chair sipping lemonade, it was fascinating.
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