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		<title>By: Mel</title>
		<link>http://artofmanliness.com/2009/10/25/on-manly-loyalty/comment-page-1/#comment-61050</link>
		<dc:creator>Mel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 16:27:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Awsome article on a virtue that is the king of all virtues in my opinion...my little input...be very aware of &quot;misplaced loyalty&quot;.  It can cost you your Mission, your Men, and your Command.  Believe me, I know.  So, just make sure you do a moral compass check with your other core values or personal code, against what it is your loyal to.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Awsome article on a virtue that is the king of all virtues in my opinion&#8230;my little input&#8230;be very aware of &#8220;misplaced loyalty&#8221;.  It can cost you your Mission, your Men, and your Command.  Believe me, I know.  So, just make sure you do a moral compass check with your other core values or personal code, against what it is your loyal to.</p>
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		<title>By: Rick</title>
		<link>http://artofmanliness.com/2009/10/25/on-manly-loyalty/comment-page-1/#comment-58532</link>
		<dc:creator>Rick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Nov 2009 08:32:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>While I do understand the idea expressed so often her that loyalty to ones employer or company is out dated and even in some cases detrimental.  I feel I must address this.  Yes the days of unwavering devotion to ones company seem to be at an end. However, WHY is this?   It is expressed by many that the reason for this is, that type of loyalty has so often been betrayed recently that our faith in such ideals is ruined.
While I do agree with this, I can not help but to feel that this is just a symptom of the larger problem.  As a Non Commissioned Officer in the United States Army I was taught by great men that loyalty worked two ways never one.  If you require loyalty from your men you must first give loyalty to them.  It is not a popularity contest.  I have seen loyalty of amazing proportion given to some of the hardest SOB&#039;s around. Why?  Because they were fair and honest with their men.  They required hard work and dedication, but they GAVE hard work and dedication.  These HARD men would not ask more than they would do themselves.

I have also seen men of character who worked for lesser men.  Who gave loyalty a faithful service. Never shirking from their responsibility, striving to do their best even when they knew they could get by with less.  These men taught me the true meaning of loyalty to ones self.  The idea that you do not need to be loyal to the company, because the company is not loyal to you, hurts you and those who work with you. It expresses a value to your children and friends and anyone who might admire or look up to you as a man, that is selfishness.  It propagates the &quot;whats in it for me&quot; mentality that is the cause of corporate disloyalty in the first place.  Employers have an obligation to their employees, corporations have an obligation to their shareholders, and the public in general, and the government, including the bureaucracy have an obligation to the people which they serve.

These ideals have been fading from our world.  This has not happened over night, it has been a gently erosion of a few grains at a time over the course of decades.  It&#039;s starts in the life of one man, the example that man sets not with words but by example, effects the future actions of many.  This grows exponentially and spreads like a disease.  

I say that loyalty to ones employer is best shown by simply being an honest man.  Work to the best of your ability when you are at work.  Do the best job you can do always. Never shortcut anything. Give the time, and skills you are paid for to your job.  Take pride in your work not matter what it is.  This to is loyalty to yourself and your family.  If you must leave your current employer for a better wage, or greater opportunity, that is not disloyalty if you know that you gave the best while employed by them.  Loyalty shown to an employer in deed and action will instill loyalty in future generations.  Those who come after us will be the new CEO&#039;s and leaders of the world.  What they learn early will be the litmus that they measure their future decisions against. 



Loyalty in the work place boils down to:



Keeping faith that you will perform 100% the work you are paid to do.



Keeping the secrets of the company to which you are priviliged.



Doing all things at work in the best interest of the company.  This sometimes includes whistle blowing.  Illegal or dangerous practices are never in the best interest of a company.



Do not talk ill of your employer to those outside of the company.  It hurts the company and you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>While I do understand the idea expressed so often her that loyalty to ones employer or company is out dated and even in some cases detrimental.  I feel I must address this.  Yes the days of unwavering devotion to ones company seem to be at an end. However, WHY is this?   It is expressed by many that the reason for this is, that type of loyalty has so often been betrayed recently that our faith in such ideals is ruined.<br />
While I do agree with this, I can not help but to feel that this is just a symptom of the larger problem.  As a Non Commissioned Officer in the United States Army I was taught by great men that loyalty worked two ways never one.  If you require loyalty from your men you must first give loyalty to them.  It is not a popularity contest.  I have seen loyalty of amazing proportion given to some of the hardest SOB&#8217;s around. Why?  Because they were fair and honest with their men.  They required hard work and dedication, but they GAVE hard work and dedication.  These HARD men would not ask more than they would do themselves.</p>
<p>I have also seen men of character who worked for lesser men.  Who gave loyalty a faithful service. Never shirking from their responsibility, striving to do their best even when they knew they could get by with less.  These men taught me the true meaning of loyalty to ones self.  The idea that you do not need to be loyal to the company, because the company is not loyal to you, hurts you and those who work with you. It expresses a value to your children and friends and anyone who might admire or look up to you as a man, that is selfishness.  It propagates the &#8220;whats in it for me&#8221; mentality that is the cause of corporate disloyalty in the first place.  Employers have an obligation to their employees, corporations have an obligation to their shareholders, and the public in general, and the government, including the bureaucracy have an obligation to the people which they serve.</p>
<p>These ideals have been fading from our world.  This has not happened over night, it has been a gently erosion of a few grains at a time over the course of decades.  It&#8217;s starts in the life of one man, the example that man sets not with words but by example, effects the future actions of many.  This grows exponentially and spreads like a disease.  </p>
<p>I say that loyalty to ones employer is best shown by simply being an honest man.  Work to the best of your ability when you are at work.  Do the best job you can do always. Never shortcut anything. Give the time, and skills you are paid for to your job.  Take pride in your work not matter what it is.  This to is loyalty to yourself and your family.  If you must leave your current employer for a better wage, or greater opportunity, that is not disloyalty if you know that you gave the best while employed by them.  Loyalty shown to an employer in deed and action will instill loyalty in future generations.  Those who come after us will be the new CEO&#8217;s and leaders of the world.  What they learn early will be the litmus that they measure their future decisions against. </p>
<p>Loyalty in the work place boils down to:</p>
<p>Keeping faith that you will perform 100% the work you are paid to do.</p>
<p>Keeping the secrets of the company to which you are priviliged.</p>
<p>Doing all things at work in the best interest of the company.  This sometimes includes whistle blowing.  Illegal or dangerous practices are never in the best interest of a company.</p>
<p>Do not talk ill of your employer to those outside of the company.  It hurts the company and you.</p>
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		<title>By: chris bartlett</title>
		<link>http://artofmanliness.com/2009/10/25/on-manly-loyalty/comment-page-1/#comment-58181</link>
		<dc:creator>chris bartlett</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 02:35:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just to clear a point  Dante put traitors in the lowest realm of hell because he was in exile from Florence and he felt his friends where the ones who turned on him. 

It doesn&#039;t take away from the message, just wanted to clarify.  please press on :)</description>
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<p>It doesn&#8217;t take away from the message, just wanted to clarify.  please press on :)</p>
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		<title>By: Caleb</title>
		<link>http://artofmanliness.com/2009/10/25/on-manly-loyalty/comment-page-1/#comment-57855</link>
		<dc:creator>Caleb</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Nov 2009 15:13:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i loved this article. Well written.  I appreciate reading the thought provoking perspectives and comments of other virtuous individuals.  Man on.   

Loyalty is a lifestyle.  It manifests itself in all the things that you do.  It becomes a measure of your integrity.  

I think your question about disloyalty also provides an answer.  A man has to justify being disloyal.  Justification is subjective.  You can justify just about anything, but if your justification flies in the face of honesty, integrity, courage, faithfulness, fortitude, strength, honor, respect, or any number of other adjectives that describe loyalty, then i think justification just becomes excuses.  Loyalty is a core, or an ideal, I don&#039;t know if it&#039;s possible to justify your disloyalty to anyone but yourself, as loyalty is a personal decision, executed under unique circumstances.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i loved this article. Well written.  I appreciate reading the thought provoking perspectives and comments of other virtuous individuals.  Man on.   </p>
<p>Loyalty is a lifestyle.  It manifests itself in all the things that you do.  It becomes a measure of your integrity.  </p>
<p>I think your question about disloyalty also provides an answer.  A man has to justify being disloyal.  Justification is subjective.  You can justify just about anything, but if your justification flies in the face of honesty, integrity, courage, faithfulness, fortitude, strength, honor, respect, or any number of other adjectives that describe loyalty, then i think justification just becomes excuses.  Loyalty is a core, or an ideal, I don&#8217;t know if it&#8217;s possible to justify your disloyalty to anyone but yourself, as loyalty is a personal decision, executed under unique circumstances.</p>
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		<title>By: Padraig</title>
		<link>http://artofmanliness.com/2009/10/25/on-manly-loyalty/comment-page-1/#comment-57732</link>
		<dc:creator>Padraig</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Nov 2009 02:33:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I consider myself a very loyal person. If I am a friend to someone they have my unwaivering loyalty until the decide to be disloyal to me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I consider myself a very loyal person. If I am a friend to someone they have my unwaivering loyalty until the decide to be disloyal to me.</p>
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