

Editor’s note: This is a guest post from Jon at Armslist.com. Armslist.com is an online firearms marketplace that helps users find buyers and sellers in their local market and effect transactions in the simplest way possible.
Disclaimer: This article is aimed at helping those who are not sure where to start their research process. It is not a definitive guide to firearms purchases. Some of the information is generalized and all readers should conduct further research before making any decision.
Nearly every American man has heard the story of the shootout at the OK Corral. Wyatt Earp and his cohorts confronted a group of outlaw cowboys and emerged victorious. While much myth and mystery surrounds the circumstances of this encounter, a few things are very clear. Wyatt Earp was proficient with his Colt Peacemaker and Doc Holiday with the shotgun. While much has changed since the days of the Wild West, both the handgun and the shotgun remain top choices for clearing out ruffians who are encroaching on your territory.
A man has always been the king of his castle and protector of his domain. When things go bump in the night, it’s your job to check on things. What should you grab when you head downstairs? Today we’ll the discuss the best guns for home defense as well as some of the pros and cons of each.
Training
Gun safety training is essential for every man.
Before you even think about purchasing a gun, it is imperative that you are trained on how to properly use it. Remember: guns are a weapon. With the right to bear arms comes the heavy responsibility of handling them with the precaution and respect they deserve.
Moreover, a gun in the hands of man who doesn’t know what he’s doing with it is a liability to him and to his family. Regardless of what you purchase, you should frequent the firing range, take a firearms course, and attend or even partake in shooting events. All of these tasks will help you to learn to properly handle firearms.
Here are some resources to check out to get started:
Appleseed Project, a grassroots marksmanship program: http://www.appleseedinfo.org/
IDPA, Defensive Pistol shooting: http://www.idpa.com/
The Best Guns for Home Defense
Pump Action Shotgun

Mossberg 500 – 12 Gauge Pump Shotgun
The general consensus in the firearms community is that the pump action shotgun is the top choice for home defense. They’re relatively easy to use and nearly impossible to break. More importantly, the sound of chambering a hot round into a pump action 12 gauge is sure to soil the britches of even the most hardened criminal.
The Mossberg 500 and the Remington 870 are extremely popular choices in this category. Both are proven to be extremely reliable for a reasonable price, beginning at around $200.
Ease of Use and Reliability
The pump action shotgun is a relatively simple weapon to use. Shotgun shells are loaded into the gun, and the pump action chambers a round. Pulling the trigger fires the chambered round. The next pump ejects the spent shell and loads another round into the chamber. These attributes contribute to the pump action shotgun’s reliability.
Effectiveness
Shotguns are most commonly used to fire a number of projectiles, anywhere from roughly nine pellets used in 00 buckshot up to hundreds of bb sized pellets in bird shot. At close range and with proper ammunition, shotguns can be extremely effective in defending you and your loved ones.
For more information on different types of shot and their ballistic qualities, refer to this article.
Verdict (out of 5)
Cost: 5
Ease of Use: 4
Reliability: 5
Effectiveness: 5
Bonus: (Sound of chambering a round)
Overall: 4.75
Revolver

Smith & Wesson 686 .357 Mag 4″, 6 round
The next best weapon for home defense is the revolver. Revolvers are the simplest and most reliable of hand guns. One of the major advantages of the revolver is its small size which allows for easy storage and access. Also, another benefit of the revolver is its price. You can find quality revolvers for as little as a few hundred dollars.
Ease of Use & Reliability
Revolvers are produced in double action and single action varieties. Single action revolvers require the user to pull back the hammer manually before firing the gun. Most modern revolvers offer double action operation which alleviates the need to pull back the hammer before firing the weapon. While there are advantages to using a single-action revolver, the double-action revolver is the superior choice for home defense because of its ease of use. When an intruder has entered your home, you don’t want to have to think about cocking a gun.
Because of it’s simple design, the revolver is an extremely reliable weapon. Unlike semi-automatic weapons, it is nearly impossible for a revolver to jam. If there is a round in the cylinder of a double-action revolver, pulling the trigger will fire the gun. Simple as that. This simplicity is an important factor for use in already stressful situations.
One drawback on revolvers, or any handgun for that matter, is the skill required to properly and effectively operate them. Don’t be fooled by your hours of playing Duck Hunt. Hitting a target, even if it’s just a few feet away, is deceptively difficult.
Effectiveness
Handguns are produced in a number of different calibers and the stopping power is dependent upon which round is used. Common choices are .38 Special (also available in a slightly stronger “+P” variety), .357 Magnum, .44 Magnum, and .45 Long Colt. One advantage to buying a .357 revolver is that the owner can use .38 special, .38 special +P, or .357 magnum rounds as the gun accepts and safely fires all of them. (Conversely, a .38 revolver cannot fire .357 magnum.)
It’s important to consider that larger caliber revolvers may be more difficult to fire accurately in quick succession. Unfortunately, smaller caliber revolvers may lack the stopping power necessary to quickly incapacitate an attacker.
- Further reading about stopping power.
- Further reading about wound ballistics studies.
- Further reading about .357 Magnum and .38 Special +P
Visual comparison of common handgun cartridges. Left to right:

1) 3 inch 12 ga magnum shotgun shell
2) AA battery (for size comparison)
3) .454 Casull
4) .45 Winchester Magnum
5) .44 Remington Magnum
6) .357 Magnum
7) .38 Special
.45 ACP
9) .38 Super
10) 9 mm Luger
11) .32 ACP
12) .22 LR
Verdict
Cost:4
Ease of Use: 3
Reliability: 5
Effectiveness: 3
Overall: 3.75
Semi-Automatic pistols

Every AoM reader has seen these in movies and TV shows. They’re also the guns that most police officers carry. While semi-automatic pistols might be good for cops, they’re not a good choice for one’s first firearm purchase, at least not when home defense is the primary use. We’ll go into why that is further below.
Two iconic semi-automatic pistols are the 1911 variants and polymer pistols such as Glocks. The 1911 has seen action through two world wars and is still in use by US Special Operations and FBI HRT. Glocks have been heralded for their ease of use and reliability and have seen much use in law enforcement. Quality semi-automatic pistols can cost as little as a few hundred or as much as a few thousand.
Ease of Use and Reliability
The operation of a semi-automatic handgun is more complicated than a revolver. An operator must become familiar with operating slide-stops and safeties, loading magazines, chambering rounds and clearing jams. The additional actions involved make it less than ideal for those unfamiliar with hand guns. This, combined with the skill required to accurately shoot a handgun, means that semi-automatic handguns are the least user friendly of the choices mentioned.
Because rounds are automatically loaded and the design is more complex, semi-automatic weapons are also more prone to jamming failures than revolvers.
Because of the semi-automatic handgun’s lower reliability and more complicated operation, first time purchasers should probably consider a shotgun or a revolver.
Effectiveness
As with revolvers, effectiveness varies drastically with caliber. There are many different calibers for semi-automatic handguns. The most common are .380 ACP, 9mm, .357 Sig, .40 S&W, and .45 ACP. The 9mm is perhaps the most popular caliber, in use by military and law enforcement around the world. The .40 S&W was created by the FBI to allow for additional stopping power over the 9mm. The 45 ACP came about during the development of the 1911.
- Further reading about stopping power.
- Further reading about wound ballistics studies.
Verdict
Cost: 3
Ease of Use: 2
Reliability: 3
Effectiveness: 3
Overall: 2.75
Conclusion
This article is aimed at providing a starting place for those that lack prior knowledge of and experience with firearms. Again, proper education, training, and practice are essential when deciding to purchase a gun.
For another take on what weapons are the best for home defense, see Primer Magazine’s article: Hero Training: Best Weapons for Home Defense.
What are your thoughts on the best guns for home defense? Do you prefer a baseball bat over a gun? Let us know in the comments.


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I always was a big fan of your blog. But an article about firearms? Are you freaking kidding me? Your blog is directed towards insecure men who want to feel more masculine again and you basically imply that they should buy firearms to boost their manly self esteem? Whats next? An article about cigarettes because the Marlboro cowboy is really manly?
Hey man, you have a certain responsibility with this blog because many people are reading it. Many men and boys take it very seriously. Do you want to have blood on your hands if an idiot reads your blog buys a gun and then hurts somebody?. Everyday, 8 children and teens in the U.S. die of gun violence. Please be a bit more thoughtful next time before you advertise something “manly” like firearms.
Sorry I cannot calm down. What were you thinking???
Must agree that this post left me feeling really uncomfortable. Don’t forget that this blog is readable internationally, and in many countries, such as mine, obtaining firearms like these is nearly impossible – Thank Goodness!
I was starting to enjoy the latest articles and liking your blog again, but this post showed an almost gratuitous slant towards owning a firearm. I am not a gun hater – I used to competition shoot centre fire rifles in my younger days, but this post left me feeling really uneasy.
Why have a gun in your home at all?
If you have a gun you’re far more likely to get shot, and where I live having most of these in your home would in most cases be completely illegal (if you’re a farmer you can get a shotgun, but if you fire it at someone you’re going straight to jail, no matter what the other person was doing).
I’m not sure I like this blog so much any more, please write less about the best way to kill or threaten people.
“Some of the information is generalized and all readers should conduct further research before making any decision.”
You neglected to mention one important option: do not own a gun
I’m one of those internationals and have to admit I’m shocked to find this article on your site. What were you thinking? I’m off to remove myself from the RSS feed.
The best weapon for home defense is a phone. If bad people try to get in: call the cops. The biggest bonus for the phone is that your kids can’t pick it up and blow their brains across the wall with it.
This article is appropriate in taste as far as this blog is concerned, as it provides a good examination of beginner firearms, as well as stressing the need to learn to use them properly. Any man interested in providing his family with additional protection could do far worse than following the advice posted here.
@Jimmy- to implicate The Art of Manliness with the murder of children seems a bit far fetched in terms of the articles content. I’m not entirely sure your comments have real relevance when you consider the article is about responsible weapon purchase, and use.
The comparison to cigarettes is also a bit out there…
@Drew- You say you are not a “gun hater”, but you say thank goodness its is almost impossible to obtain one in your country. Seems a bit conflicting to me.
@Tom- Statistically it is shown that if you have no experience using a firearm it is more of a hazard to own one. However if a person knows how to handle a gun, the opposite becomes true.
I would also have liked to have seen information on proper Firearm storage. A high shelf just doesn’t suffice, in terms of accessibility, and safety.
Aside from that, Bravo! Good start.
Have to second the above criticisms, though I know the culture of firearms is different in the US. I’m sure that your excellent blog gets plenty of readers in the UK so this is at best irrelevant and at worst a bit uneasy for us over this side of the pond. I’m not sure that you’re going to be any safer if you have a gun in your house – surely it makes it more likely that any intruder is going to shoot you first if he sees a gun, and as mentioned above the legal ramifications are not straightforward if you have to use it. But anyway, it’s not part of the culture of manliness over here so it’s not getting big thumbs up for me.
I’m not that I’m saying that US gun control laws are wrong – it’s your country, you have the right to determine your laws. But it is a bit chilling for us to read things like this over our cornflakes. Articles about cleaning your revolver, how weapons worked in famous battles, or articles about competitive sports shooting, sure, but when you talk about guns for domestic civilian use against other people, then I think that crosses a line in some cultures, even if it is self-defence.
Obviously manliness is different for everyone, but clearly domestic gun ownership is controversial even in parts of the US, and even though some European countries have high ownership rates it’s not really part of the culture, or certainly thought not be be “less manly” if you don’t own a gun.
Great blog otherwise Brett, probably my favourite on the internet. Keep up the good work and I understand that sometimes some articles I’m not going to agree with, but I think to maximise your audience and readership worldwide then articles like this are counterproductive. Don’t let the other posts discourage you too much – not everyone is going to be happy with everything and it is only one post out of many.
One of the proudest days of my life was the day my father entrusted my with the defense of his home and my family by informing me where I could find several of the loaded guns he kept, and making them accessible to me. It’s not about “killing people”. It’s about defense of your home and your family. Especially your family. And that is one of the manliest things there is. On that day, my father saw me as responsible and trustworthy enough to use his guns only when necessary, make the decision to use it or not, and to guard him and/or my sisters when he couldn’t. In short, he saw me as a man, and I have lived up to that trust. I never needed to use them, and I am thankful for that. But had it been necessary. I could and would have.
That said, the article does leave a bit to be desired, but does not deserve the criticism it has received. Teach your children responsibility, and you needn’t fear that they will hurt themselves with your guns. Lock them away until that point, and permit them access only when you feel they are ready.
@ Morgan- I knew guns were illegal in England, but I didn’t take into consideration the view a different culture would take on the matter. Your reply has definite value in that it drew my attention to the differences in what our cultures find acceptable.
I have been guilty of saying it sucks for them(England) not to be able to carry firearms, not even considering you very well wouldn’t want to.
I was not trying to be aggressive, but the conclusions people seem to be drawing on this subject were upsetting to me. No one wants to see a child die, and every man inherently wants to protect his family.
I am frankly amazed at the closed-mindedness of the previous commenters. In parts of the world (not just the USA), firearms are an important part of people’s lives. Personally, I have been a firearms user since I was quite young, along with many of my friends from school. All of us were taught proper gun handling and did not do stupid things with them … as a matter of fact, after I was allowed to handle real guns, I was not allowed to point any weapon (even a toy one) at anything that I did not want to shoot.
Also, I have one major pet peeve that I have developed as a historian … unreferenced facts and figures … where did you get your facts about the 8 children? According to the CDC’s figures*, in 2006 there were 1,593 children between aged 0 and 17 killed by firearms, which provides an average of just over 4 per day. So, where are your other 4 children per day? Just to compare, 4,301 children of the same ages were killed in motor vehicle incidents (nearly 12 per day). My purpose with this refutation is not to argue with you but to question the ‘evidence’ that you cite for your argument. Too many people make too many grand statements online without REAL support!
* To double check the figures, go here – http://webapp.cdc.gov/sasweb/ncipc/mortrate10_sy.html
@ Patrick – Sure. And I understand that the culture is different in the US. Not better, not worse, just different. And that might well be manly for there, but I think not so elsewhere, and as this isn’t “the art of US Manliness”, we should look to common ground and examples from all cultures, which has previously been covered so well (love the mentions of Rugby in the sports sections
).
I don’t have a family – not really at that age though I guess closing in (I’m in my mid 20s), but I’d personally be terrified that no matter what precautions I’d take that the inherently dangerous nature of having firearms in your house outweighed the good effects of being able to protect your family. But then again, our burglars don’t tend to be armed with guns either, so I don’t want to say that it’s a bad idea if you’re in the US. It just comes across as a bit chilling for those of us without the gun culture. I’m personally of the opinion sure there are other and better ways and means to protect your family, but I’m not going to preach the gospel of non-gun ownership if other men feel differently. I respect that decision, and the motives behind it.
I can kind of sense that this post is going to create a lot of arguments through the course of the day (it’s about 10am here in UK time so I guess most of the US is still a-bed), but I don’t want it to descend to that level, because it’ll be nasty and personal, unproductive and just downright undignified. I think we all just agree to disagree, and have it noted that this blog has readers around the world and that we should look to common aspects of manliness as much as possible on the blog, chalk this one up to experience, and move on to common ground.
You never know when an apocalypse (whether personal or global) might be right around the corner. Just in case is a good enough reason for me to own a gun. It doesn’t augment or compromise my manhood. It gives me one more possible way to protect my family. I’ll do everything I can and learn everything possible to meet this end because it would be irresponsible for me not explore every option. Gun ownership may not be for everyone but it doesn’t hurt anyone to be familar with the basics. Good post.
Thanks for this great post, I think it was written in an informative and educational matter. In Canada gun control is a hot topic and you can only use handguns at the firing range while hunting equipment at the range or hunting only. We have quite a few more controls which on a whole I’m satisfied with. While I don’t own a gun and am not currently planning on owning one this article and it’s links gave me information that I deem to be “part of the art of manliness”.
We’re not talking about perfume or body scrubs here gents, we’re talking about generally masculine objects and like it or not weapons are a part of this. I would change my mind if every article became a gun article, but I don’t see this blog going there.
cheers
The emotional reaction to an inanimate object that many people have is comical to me. The statistics cited portray an emotional, irrational, and unrealistic paradigm. For instance due to the high frequency of iatrogenic deaths in the U.S. you are hundreds of times more likely to die at the hands of a doctor than a law abiding gun owner (Or an unlawful gun owner for that matter). You are also more likely to die by drowning than by firearm. Get your priorities straight. The second paragraph of the article very clearly states that training is the most important aspect to embark upon before owning a firearm. It may not be explained in that paragraph but the most important parts of that training will be safety rules, proper handling, and proper storage. How many of you get into a thousand pound vehicle and believe it is more dangerous than a firearm? Vehicles kill more people than accidental and intentional gun deaths every year. Nowhere in this article did anyone try to convince or persuade anyone to purchase a firearm. In fact the disclaimer preceding the article was quite adequate. As for the cultural differences, yes, we Americans tend to be a self reliant bunch. In my life I was brought up by men that taught me to “do it your damn self”. That is a manly attribute that many in modern society seem to lack. I have been trained in the military and in police training to handle firearms. I can tell you there is little difference between a police officer and a “civilian” when it come to protecting your loved ones or yourself when there isn’t a police officer nearby to do it for you. Remember when seconds count the police are only minutes away.
The emotional reaction to an inanimate object that many people have is comical to me. The statistics cited portray an emotional, irrational, and unrealistic paradigm. For instance due to the high frequency of iatrogenic deaths in the U.S. you are hundreds of times more likely to die at the hands of a doctor than a law abiding gun owner (Or an unlawful gun owner for that matter). You are also more likely to die by drowning than by firearm. Get your priorities straight. The second paragraph of the article very clearly states that training is the most important aspect to embark upon before owning a firearm. It may not be explained in that paragraph but the most important parts of that training will be safety rules, proper handling, and proper storage. How many of you get into a thousand pound vehicle and believe it is more dangerous than a firearm? Vehicles kill more people than accidental and intentional gun deaths every year. Nowhere in this article did anyone try to convince or persuade anyone to purchase a firearm. In fact the disclaimer preceding the article was quite adequate. As for the cultural differences, yes, we Americans tend to be a self reliant bunch. In my life I was brought up by men that taught me to “do it your damn self”. That is a manly attribute that many in modern society seem to lack. I have been trained in the military and in police training to handle firearms. I can tell you there is little difference between a police officer and a “civilian” when it come to protecting your loved ones or yourself when there isn’t a police officer nearby to do it for you. Remember when seconds count the police are only minutes away.
Oops…forgot to say great post! Looking forward to your next one.
What Robert said. Levitt has a good discussion of the relative risks of firearm ownership in his book Freakonomics.
I’m also from the UK, so don’t assume anti-gun hysteria is universal over here.
Best method of Home defense? don´t move to a place where paranoia and stone-age behaviour rule…
in all seriousness, the article is well written, the undertone is frightening (intended? maybe…)
But in many cultures outside of the US, guns are considered surrogates of manliness, not its enhancement…
Oh man, you guys really get me going:
First I want to make myself clear that I know that no one of you wants to see a child die. And I do recognize that many guys handle their firearms properly. I know that guns don’t kill people, people kill people. Here in Switzerland almost every man has a gun (we all have to do military service and take our assault rifle home) and the number of incidents is relative low.
Buuuuuuut….
@Thad: Ok, so let’s assume that your statistic is right. Thank god, “only” 4 children per day are dying. Aren’t that 4 children too many?
The question remains: Why do children and teens die everyday of gun violence? Because people make mistakes or are not thoughtful or are simply criminal. On every 100 responsible weapon owners there is probably one unresponsible weapon owner (or more). You have to take that into account. And giving those people the idea that they should buy firearms is in my eyes not helping.
And let’s take a look on how the blog entry is written. The article is written by a firearms salesman. He cannot have a neutral view. He mentions the responsible use of a weapon and training only two times, basically in one small paragraph.
I owned and shot an assault rifle myself. Therefore I know what a powerful instrument a gun is. You have to be really careful with it. A real responsible gun owner should mention that. But nothing much of this is described in the article, nothing about the dangers of weapons, nothing about the proper handling. In my eyes the article is merely an infomercial about firearms. I think this was a bit cheap.
And the argument about “protecting your familiy”: Can anyone give me reliable numbers on how many crimes were prevented because the man of the family used his gun? Did anyone of you fellows ever protect his familiy with a gun (no, not you police guy)? These are not entire rethorical questions, but I am really sure that at least here in Europe, the numbers are very very low.
At the moment this article dropped into my inbox, my forefinger was instantly moving to the delete-button. *argh*, spammers, i thought, but wait … its from AoM! … what?!?
There is no way i can establish any relation from firearms to a modern understanding about the art of manliness.
If you take the irrational emotion out of the equation a gun is just a tool. It can do nothing without the volition of man. When a man chooses a tool to drive a nail he could use a wrench or a rock. However the best tool is a hammer. Why? Because it was designed to drive a nail. If a man chooses a tool to protect his family, a firearm is a great tool. The cultural aversions and irrational anthropopathism are based on ignorance and assumption. Put those aside and look at it rationally. It’s just a tool. There is no reason to be afraid of any tool unless the man wielding that tool intends to do you harm.
First, my criticism. For the shotgun, I was suprised that there was no mention in the Con section about spray from buckshot. Nor was overpenetration discussed, though it may be on of the links.
In relation to the concern over whether this topic belongs on the blog or not. Of course it does. Right at the top it says, that if you decide to purchase, you had better be prepared for the responsibility that comes with that. If you are not comfortable with having firearms in your house, then dont buy one. As to the claim that your kids will shoot themselves in the head. Then you have failed as a parent. Your guns shouldn’t be within reach of those who are too young to operate and once they are old enough, they should be taught about guns. Blame shouldn’t be placed on the inanimate object, but rather on those who fail to take responsibilty and proper precautions.
“Manliness?” maybe not. I actually consider defense a universal responsibility.
I understand some of the objection to equating “manliness” to firearms, but there is the issue of responsibility. I live and work in a city with one of the highest murder rates per capita, and highest burglarly and assaults. Unless a police officer is parked outside my door when I call 911 I can’t reasonably expect them to prevent harm from coming to me. My protection is my responsibility. It’s not a matter of insecurity, it’s a matter of practicality and responsibility.
But as said before, the key to self defense isn’t in the tool, it’s in the TRAINING. There’s a reason houses with guns have more accidents… it’s because the people did something wrong. Professional raining is the key. Yes it is expensive, but these aren’t toys.
I really take objection to your placement of revolvers above semi autos. With pistol rounds the actual mortality rate is in the teens. ANY pistol bullet is inherently underpowered. a .22 can kill a man and a .44 mag to the chest might just cause him to shudder. It isn’t a caliber race, it’s about shot placement. See what the largest bullet you can shoot accurately is before you buy. You are shooting to stop them from hurting you. If, after six shots, they still find you a worthwhile target, you are in trouble. High capacity pistols suddenly become a worthy alternative. I also have to disagree that revolvers are more reliable. Certain pistols, Sig, Glock, xD, M&P, are extremely reliable. But stay away from gadgetude, or “I have to have this because I said so.” It’s all about what works FOR YOU. And most importantly, about finding a safety training course, and then a practical shooting course AFTER that.
You’ll also need a safe. Not a locker, a SAFE. So you’ve just quadrupled your ownership costs. Owning a firearm responsibly is an expensive proposition.
And no, I’m not a salesman.
@Patrick – ‘Not hating’ something and ‘not wanting’ something are not the same thing. For instance, I don’t hate chicken vindaloo but I don’t want it for dinner every night, and in fact can quite comfortably live without it in my life.
I am not going to debate death statistics or whether it is the guns or people that kill people as that could drag on for hours with both sides bringing up valid points.
What I was trying to say is that the overall tone of the blog was quite creepy for me, as I live in a culture where guns are simply NOT a part of everyday life. Not at all. To see the subject discussed here with the familiarity of baking cookies is actually quite disturbing to me.
To put it another way – if this was a cooking blog and you suddenly saw an article on how to best cook a dog, I am sure you would find that very distasteful (pardon the pun) whereas millions of people in certain Asian cultures would find that completely normal and wonder what the hell you are getting upset about.
The anti-gun Europeans having fits here need to lighten up a bit. Gun ownership is deeply ingrained in American history and culture and just because foreigners don’t understand that, it’s no reason to disparage it. The right to keep and bear arms is something we take very seriously. As de Tocqueville noted, Americans have a special concept of liberty and independence and, as we see things, keeping a weapon for self-defense is a matter of principle that is related to this. Why should the government tell law abiding citizens they can’t keep a gun? I would be more concerned with the multifarious nanny-state encroachments on every day life so evident across the pond than with loyal citizens owning a gun in the US.
Respectfully, when fear is the basis of an argument there can be no debate. “Fear is not logical and has no place among rational discussion. Comedy, on the other hand, has an honored place in argumentation for it levies the relief of tension among gentleman.”
“Nothing wrong with a little shooting as long as the right people get shot.”
–Dirty Harry
A well regulated militia being necessary to the security of a free State, the right of the People to keep and bear arms shall not be infringed…
–Second Amendment to the US Constitution
I’m sure if this article was about choosing the correct knife, or sword, or bow and arrow nobody would’ve even blinked… the shotgun is my personal weapon of choice for home defense… you don’t have to be an expert shooter to hit a target and if someone come’s a-knocking on my door at 11pm and I action that pump on the other side of the door they might think twice… (see below)..
Durham police seek three in home invasion
Durham, N.C. — Durham police are seeking three men after a home invasion Monday night at 2850 Courtney Creek Blvd., the Century Creek Apartments.
The suspects are believed to be driving a blue 1993 Mercury Grand Marquis with North Carolina license plate WPJ-2888.
Police identified one suspect by name. Harry Emmanuel Roberson, 19, of 2995 Crystal Lane in Lumberton, is wanted on charges of larceny of a motor vehicle and armed robbery.
Police described the other two suspects. The first man was black, about 5 feet, 7 inches tall, weighs 220 pounds and was wearing a black and gray hoodie and pants, police said. The second man was black, 5 feet, 11 inches tall with a skinny build and was wearing a red hat, red shirt and red pants, police said.
Anyone with information about the incident or the suspects’ whereabouts is asked to call Durham police at 919-560-4415 or Crime Stoppers at 919-683-1200.
This occured not far from where I live…
I’m a former gun owner myself and I don’t think this article gave very good advice.
For most men with average strength and nearly all females, the recoil (kick-back) of a .357 is too heavy and uncomfortable. I rather prefer 9mm handguns as opposed to heavier calibers. A 9mm bullet will still stop a criminal dead in his tracks but is less heavy on the recoil.
Guns? Guns?? Guns?!?!?!?! AoM, you’ve betrayed me!!!
Just kidding.
Politics aside, I think all readers need to realize that some information posted on this site is not provided because it is a way to increase your “manliness.” Some articles are just informative pieces targeting a male audience. While gun ownership in itself might not make you more manly, the information provided here is a good starter point for anyone considering owning a firearm for self defense.
After Katrina, even my most diehard anti-gun friends in New Orleans were buying guns. Never assume you will be protected by police when they are overwhelmed by an emergency or civil unrest, or as in New Orleans both.
I would also like to remark to US readers that it is very unfair to stereotype Europeans as being gun-haters living in nanny-states. I find it very patronizing to be told to lighten up a bit.
And for anyone remarking on my former gun owner statement: I’ve quit the gun ownership simply because maintaining and keeping them was too expensive. I can still buy any gun I want, except those used by the Belgian Army (like the Fabrique Nationale P90).
Of course, all this is a moot point, due to gun ownership being illegal in the USA unless you belong to a well-regulated militia, under the terms of the 2nd Amendment to our Constitution (some states have unconstitutional laws supposedly allowing gun ownership, but not state is perfect).
I grew up with weapons in the house, and am comfortalbe with the idea. I agree with the comment that most gun deaths involving kids are the fault of the parent…who here hasn’t heard a news report on a gun related shooting where the kids “found” the parents loaded weapon and killed themselves or one of their friends? I don’t think I have ever heard of a parent killing a family member while defending his home (although I am sure it’s happened).
Although I imagine it would be hard to dig out, I am sure there are statistics citing the number of times armed home owners have sucessfully defended themselves against home invasion with the proper use of a weapon. I just don’t think it gets reported very often, as it doesn’t tug at the heartstrings as much as learning another child accidentally killed him/herself.
I agree with the blog that revolvers are more reliable than automatics…and I have shot enough rounds through both types of weapons to know this for a fact…but the poster is right when he says if you fire 6 rounds and still have tragets you are in trouble, so I can see both sides to that argument. Also – revolvers have no safety switches on them…only a trigger guard will keep a revolver from being used accidentally.
Lastly…there is an anecdote that claims…”An armed society is a polite society”. I don’t actually subscribe to this, as there are certainly people in the world who should never be allowed to have a weapon. But…I truly believe that predators prey on the weak, and a burglar will think twice about entering a home where he knows an armed home owner may be waiting.
Kennesaw Georgia is a beautiful city. One of my kids went to college there, and we love the place. The city has a unique gun ordinance…where ownership of a gun and ammunition are “required”. Naturaly…there are conditions. The entire city is not armed. But many are. The crime rates there have dropped pretty drtamatically…credited, in part, to the law. Here is a link: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kennesaw,_Georgia
Scroll down to the Gun Law section
I’m shocked at all the anti gun comments. The article is a nice run down of your options for owing a gun for protection. The recommendation is dead on for the shotgun as the best choice.
Is it manly to own guns… not particularly. Is it manly to take the protection of your family serious enough to take on the responsibility of gun ownership….. damn straight. This all winds back to the principal of personal responsibility. I refuse to leave the protection of myself and my family to the police. Their main job is to figure out what happened and who did it. My responsibility is to stop them before they hurt me, my wife, or my children.
I’m not really interested in other countries opinions on guns. We have a Constitution that protects our rights and we refuse to live in a nanny state.
Thanks for the article, maybe it will help someone realize that they are responsible for there own protection. The police are a deterrence, and they are usually there after the fact.
**Training first, more training, then maybe a firearm.** Some good books on the subject are by Massad Ayoob: “In the Gravest Extreme: The Role of the Firearm in Personal Protection” and “The Truth About Self Protection”.
First it is proper mindset, and situational awarness. Then maybe a firearm. **You don’t have to own a firearm to have the proper awarness.**
I am glad you host articles by different people with different beliefs and that we are all “manly” enough to be courteous to respect others.
A man’s first responsibility is the protection of his family. If they are not safe all other concerns can wait and when seconds count the police are only minutes away (at best).
I have heard too many cases of crime victims either not being able to call for help or being killed before help arrived.
A responsible man will arm himself with the most effective weapon that the law allows, and if need be, with one that it doesn’t allow. The idea is to level the playing field with the predators, at the very least, and criminals are notorious for disobeying weapons laws.
I think the article was most appropriate, considering the fact there are still some countries in the world where the people haven’t completely given up their natural right to own & carry arms.
@ Bob Iger, the S&W 686 can be loaded with a .38 special or a .357 round. If recoil is a problem for people the .38 special is much lighter than the .357 and marginally lighter than the 9mm. However, most people with small hands will find a 686 hard to shoot well. I agree with you on the 9mm. It is an excellent round.
I live in a country that almost banned the use of handguns. They can’t be used for self defense. I own two, they are both legal, for target shooting and I find it unfortunate that even if my home was invaded by masked gun men all I can do is call the police and wait for them to get there, too late. It’s idiotic! The guns bans in my country have not saved anyone from crime and it has not made anyone safer. Look at the facts!
Brett , I congratulate on this article.
Nothing like a good post on guns to bring out the close-minded idiots…. the proper use of firearms is extraordinarily manly. What people forget, is that guns are tools and they serve a purpose (hunting, sport, and self defense). When used properly, they are very safe (except if you have top use a gun in self-defense–then it is obviously not safe for your attacker). Just remember, guns are essentially tools. That’s it.
Also, for everyone who claims guns are so dangerous, keep in mind that people who legally purchase guns very rarely use them to kill (outside of self defense). More people die from car accidents than from gun accidents.
Also, someone above me mentioned the example of Kennesaw, GA. That town enacted a piece of legislation requiring households to be armed (there were obviously restrictions for felons, mentall unstable, etc…). Crime dropped dramatically there. Afterall, if you were a criminal, would you want to break into a house if you knew that its owner was trained in firearm use and had a gun to shoot you with if you broke in?
As for all the British readers whinging on and on here…. I lived in your country for a while and I am glad I am back in the US. You have a fundamentally flawed view on guns. Your cops don’t even have guns! (And they drive around in ridiculous “jam sandwiches” too!).
I would’ve never expected the responses that this article has received, at least from what I imagined was the normal AOM reader. I bet Teddy Roosevelt had guns, and I bet he could outshoot Chuck Norris with them!
As an American, I know that gun ownership is common. I would go so far as to say it is “normal.” I’ve only shot a handgun one time, but I’ve shot rifles and shotguns many times. As a Boy Scout (a very manly thing for a kid to be involved in,) gun safety, maintenance, and shooting skills are taught at every summer camp.
Properly maintained and stored guns are safe, period. Leaving an old, loaded revolver under your pillow, on the other hand, is crazy.
In my opinion the ability to defend your home is the very definition of manliness. To that end I keep a Rueger 9mm handy and there is a Mossberg 500 in the closet. I understand (sort of) the attitude of the European commentors. They have been so slowly de-sensitized to guns and their neccesity over the last 50 years or so that it’s not wonder they found this post barbaric. I used to work with some guys from Denmark and they absolutely could not fathom why we wouldn’t prefer the hunting club model they have over there where you join a private club and your guns are kept there and only able to be used on their property. The attitude towards firearms is one of the most key cultural differences between ourselves and our western European cousins.
Back to the original subject of the article…
I prefer a handgun to a shotgun. If you get into a home-defense situation a shotgun can be a bit unwieldy. If a struggle ensues, it becomes almost useless whereas a handgun remains effective. I also worry about the lethality factor. Dick Cheney can testify to people walking away from shotgun blasts. Yes, it will hurt and yes in most cases you can seriously wound the intruder, but I prefer a bit more certainty. If you ARE going to use a shotgun though, a friend of mine on the police force says they load 2 slug rounds and then 3 rounds of 00 buckshot. That’s considered the best routine for shotgun use against humans.
OK, everyone, seriously: Stop bashing posts on this site just because you disagree with them. This is a blog. Blogs are designed to offer articles that appeal to segments of their population of readers (or potential readers). No single post can exhaustively appeal to everybody who happens upon it, so don’t be surprised when you run across an article that you don’t particularly care for.
There were some movies on the 100 Must-See Movie list posted recently that I didn’t find particularly manly. Moreover, movies are heavily censored or banned outright in some countries. *Gasp* Does that make that particular post controversial or (at the very least) a bit iffy? Maybe (in some people’s eyes), but others of us find movies extremely enjoyable.
If you don’t like this article, go find one on AoM that you think is really awesome (there is a wide variety to choose from, so this shouldn’t be too hard an assignment), and let those of us who responsibly enjoy firearms and firearms lore read and discuss this one.
This is the Internet; no one is forcing you to read about things you don’t like.
(And by the way, I thought this article was extremely well-written and informative).
you know what’s crazy? i’ve owned guns for years. and my gun has never “accidentally” gone off. it has never hurt or killed anyone. it’s as if the person holding the gun is responsible, not the gun itself. strange.
and the police are there to write reports and investigate after the fact. even if you figure a very low 2-minute response time, that’s at least two minutes with an intruder(s) in your home, with you and your family. now what? hope harsh language and a broom stick will scare them off?
I learned to shoot shortly after I could walk. I got my first BB gun when I was about 6 or 7 years old. As a child I qualified as a marksman in a local shooting league. I moved on to .22 rifles and 12-gauge shotgun (trap shooting). My favorites today are the M1 Garand for rifles and 1911 for pistols.
@Mike at The Big Stick: Cheney’s shotgun was loaded with bird shot when he negligently shot his companion. Any reasonably sized buckshot (#1, 00) at the ranges found inside of a dwelling will have more than adequate penetration and minimum spread. Slugs on the other hand would probably over penetrate and that’s one of the last things you want in a home defense situation. As for unwieldiness, an 18″ tactical barrel would solve a lot of that problem.
I too an a little suprised with the Anit-gun sentiment as well. I realize in certain foreign countries the belief that guns are ‘evil’ has been ingrained in the culture….but like another poster eloquently put: A gun is just a tool. It is neither good nor evil….that is left up to the user of the gun.
As far the content of the article itself:
1. I agree that the pump shotgun is the best for home defense. Simple to use, and great stopping power. I own a Mossberg 500 Crusader as well (slightly different variation of the above picture as it has a pistol grip making the total gun lenght short to along better movement in enclosed spaces and hallways).
2. I also have a Steyr 9mm semi-auto pistol as well I keep in a quick access safe downstairs in our living room (bought it for my wife for Valentine’s Day…lol…). We live down a private road where you can’t see the neighbor’s house’s through the trees, and with two young daughters, I wanted her to have something available if need be. The 9mm, while not having the stopping power of higher caliber guns, also doesn’t have the recoil.
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Hi…Im a reader from Mexico and I wouldnt like to see this kind of posts again, you were doing great, keep the killing out as much as possible.
Bravo AoM. Nice read.
Gentlemen. If the post offends, delete the post, or don’t open it. A couple of comments onte post itself. Very, very basic and condensed. The information is limited, and as one earlier comment says, the writer is a firearms saleman. For those who are interested, there is a multitude of information on appropriate self-defense arms, unarmed techniques, etc. For those who aren’t interested, a glance at and a pass-by of the post is the appropriate response. Brett’s done this before, putting a guest post up that’s proved controversial or even offensive to some AoM followers.
“Today we need a nation of minute men; citizens who are not only prepared to take up arms, but citizens who regard the preservation of freedom as a basic purpose of their daily life and who are willing to consciously work and sacrifice for that freedom. The cause of liberty, the cause of American, cannot succeed with any lesser effort.”
— John F. Kennedy
I knew it! As soon as I saw what the article was about, I expected the emotional extremists to rant about the evil of guns. There are not only appeals to emotion to bypass facts, bad comparisons and selectively citing “facts” that are accepted as true but are, in reality, downright spurious. http://tinyurl.com/olff94 Gun haters simply do not respond well to logic.
As for saying AoM is irresponsible for publishing this in the first place that’s ridiculous. If someone cuts himself because he’s been shaved with a straight razor, assaulted by his barber, got a skin rash because he was attempting to exude a “manly” smell, etc., we should be consistent and blame AoM for every mishap, not just with guns because someone decided to buy one because they read this article. Perspective and consistency, people!
David Cox had a comment about the “manly” movies article that was spot on. Not every article is for everyone, move along. (Sorry if I’m misunderstanding Mr. Cox, it’s my take.) This blog is not an instruction manual for the insecure that says, “Do all of these things and it will make you a REAL man”. It’s for information and entertainment. Take what you want, leave what you don’t. Cowboy up, fellows!
The best gun for home defense is a LOADED gun. In a perfect world we wouldn’t need to worry about guns or self defense. I live in the country and if someone were to break into my house, they could hurt or kill my family before law enforcement could be there. If someone tries to harm my wife or 2 young boys, I have a responsibility to do what I have to do in order to protect them.
I realize that this post does not apply to everyone, everywhere. I am not an advocate of illegal fire arms but I am an advocate of our rights to bear arms. I am also an advocate of proper gun training and safety.
In a nation where crime is outrageous and evil people are hurting innocent people everyday, we have the Constitutional right to bear arms and defend ourselves and our loved ones. I am sorry that some folks don’t agree. I guess we are supposed to lay down and just take whatever comes our way.
I still say, the best gun for home defense is a LOADED gun.
Agreeing with amazement at how hysterical anti gun owners get and how Europeans want to tell Americans how to run their country. Here is an article about fake statistics used officially for Canadian gun control http://xrl.in/2rc3
Any gun that is in your home should be kept unloaded and locked securely where children cannot gain access to it. On the home defense topic, that means you have to wake up, hear the intruder, politely ask him/her to give you a few minutes to go unlock your gun, and the ammunition then load it. Keeping a loaded gun readily accessible is a recipe for disaster with children or anyone else living with you. How about some night you come home late unexpectedly, and you find yourself with a gun pointed at you because somebody thought you were an attacker bumbling around in the house late at night…
I think it’s important to point out that AoM presented this article very responsibly. If you look, you’ll notice that going out and getting properly trained was stressed several times. While there was no mention of shotgun spray or storage, as has been pointed out, I think it’s worth noting that the article said repeatedly that a gun is more of a danger to the family if the user is untrained. I can’t agree more.
There’s no need for any anti-European bashing, or posturing between people who are pro-gun or anti-gun. This is an overview article that doesn’t at all promote going on a killing spree of other human beings; rather it’s a primer on home defense. What could be more manly than having the ability to successfully defend your loved ones at home? The comment about using the phone instead of a gun is well-made; but I think consideration should be made to use both in combination. What I think has been omitted from this discussion (perhaps not intentionally) is the fact that most people who commit home invasions aren’t rational, calm people who will give you time to dial 911. As someone who’s been involved professionally with public safety for a number of years, I can tell you that the percentage of break-ins in this country by addicts hopped up on meth looking for something that they can sell for their next fix has increased dramatically. These folks are dangerous. A MAN who wants to call himself that needs to have the tools and training available to him in order to make quick, life-saving decisions for himself and his family. The reality of life is that a firearm is a necessary tool, and I think that AoM has presented a good, responsible overview. I hope they follow up with more details.
Wow — I thought this blog was for discussion of manly topics.
I have to say, after reading the first set of comments, how surprised I am with the knee-jerk liberal responses.
“Do you want to have blood on your hands if an idiot reads your blog buys a gun and then hurts somebody” This, I have to say, is an idiotic comment. If someone promotes a car, do they have “blood on their hands”, if an inexperienced driver gets in a crash while behind the wheel of one? Come on — grow up.
“this post left me feeling really uncomfortable” Why? Guns are tools. If you are uncomfortable discussing them, I suggest you try and figure out why that is. (Hint: the liberal media which incessantly portrays guns as evil.)
“If you have a gun you’re far more likely to get shot,” Another bromide incessantly pushed by the media — which happens to be false. In fact, there are no legitimate studies supporting this.
Boy there sure are alot of opinions out there about this blog and wether it should or shouldn’t be promoting handguns as a means of self defense. Look I own a shotgun a rifle and pistol, But I wouldn’t feel comfortable using them in the same house with my sleeping family. Who knows where the bullet or shell might end up. The main take away from this article should be “know how to defend your family”, if it be with guns then know everything there is to know about them, i think that is what the writer was trying to get at here.
My personal method of self defense for my family is a choice of three baseball bats. I turned the bats on my own lathe. I know how my bats work, and if I need to put the smackdown on some rudy poo candy a$$ who thinks it is cool to boogy through my home, you best belive I am going to open up a 55 gallon barrel O’ whoop on him.
I was surprised as well, but at the same time I must say that the site’s owner uses a completely different definition of ‘manliness’ than I do, which is why I read much here as mere entertainment and only a bit as helpful info. Yet, I’m quite sure I’m a man and quite confident as well. But ‘manly,’ in the jock interpretation of the word that seems to rule here, I am not. So, I guess, guns fit.
Just for the record, my guns are kept in a safe place where my kids can’t gain access to them. My kids are also trained in gun safety. Although my guns are safely out of a child’s reach, I can have my hands on one in a matter of seconds in case of an emergency. God forbid that someone broke into my house and the cops found my family dead with an empty gun in my hand or a gun in the gun cabinet. To each his own…..
Good article. I wonder what color the sky is on some of the respondent’s world. In the modern USA, this is a shock but… there is evil out there… evil that will harm you , you family and your world.
Owning a gun carries the responsiblity to learn safety, care and use. Part of that is the brainpower to use it only as needed in the appropriate manner. I do not care to have myself or my family classed as ‘victims’ on a police blotter somewhere.
I own a gun because when seconds count, police are just minutes away.
The “European” outlook just doesn’t wash here in the states ( PS: Hitler was a great advocate for gun control , too-how did that work out ?)
I work in the firearms industry, am a avid competition shooter, and general firearms enthusist. There is a lot of thought and resposibility into owning a firearm and deciding to protect yourself and loved ones. These need to be worked though of course. The truth is that in the majority of cases the police will not be able to respond in time to save you. They will come and write a report after the fact, but the damage will be done. To take responisibilty for ones own protection is a manly thing to do. It does not just mean buying a firearm, it is the training to become proficient and mental resolve to “stop a threat” if nessasary. Back in more civilized times it was a mark of manilyness to be profficient in arms. Today it is just one more thing that society tries to emasculate us with.
As far as firearms for home defense a good choice is whatever you can commit to practice and training with.
I cannot believe all the anti gun comments on this post! A man does not need a gun to be a man, but no man should fear a gun like many of you obviously do. A real man knows how to use a gun allowing him to dismantle it or take advantage of it in the situation he is in. Every man should be comfortable around firearms and teach their children as well.
“Before you even think about purchasing a gun, it is imperative that you are trained on how to properly use it.”
Many people misconstrue this statement to mean that you should simply know how to point a gun at a target and pull the trigger. If your intention with the gun is competitive shooting, then great. If it is home defense then a different training is certainly in order. Good training teaches how to intimidate and never fire a weapon. Good training teaches you how to gain advantage in a situation when someone else has a gun. If you are in a country that does not allow you to own a firearm then this post should be your starting ground to learn more about them. Even if you do not have one, it is possible that your assailant will.
A real man is well informed.
The amount of intentional ignorance and misinformation in some of the above comments is shocking.
Whether you like the subject, or not
whether you believe it’s a manly thing to protect hearth and home, or not
whether you believe dialing 911 will prevent you from being shot, or not
whether you live in a country where your right to self-defense is inhibited, or not
whether you believe a gun is a tool just like a car, and can be misused similarly, or not
The fact remains; this article was an introduction to the subject of home defense, using the most modern and common tools available to the bulk of the blog’s audience.
I applaud AoM for addressing this subject. Please, don’t let some of these moronic haters deter you from creating more articles like this. The fact that such ignorance has been shown in the comments proves conclusively that this information is SORELY NEEDED.
Bravo, sir!
I think it’s hilarious on how on articles like the stationery post people say the blog is to effeminate and then on articles like this people like John says it’s too jock-like. People just read into things whatever they want. As for me, I think the blog has an excellent mix of articles. I’m not into guns but I am into movies. But I know that some people are into movies and not into guns. So why the whining?
9-1-1 doesn’t work fast enough, and who said that the firearm is just for the man. I tend to believe that the firearm in my home is for my wife. I can fend for myself if I had to, she however is 120 lbs. If a man had found a way to enter our home it would take 9-1-1 5 minutes to get there, 3 at best. Thats a very long time. Being a pacifist is only okay when your life isn’t in danger.
Hard to believe all the panty-wasted “I am uncomfortable with this article!” posts. Talk about a dose of femininization, be a man!. It is a mans job to deal with the world as he finds it, not as he wishes it to be. The world is a dangerous place, being unable to take responsibility for the safety and defense of himself and loved ones is incredibly un-manly.
Firearms are very simply the best way to defend ones self, there is a reason for the old saying: “God did not make all men equal, Samuel Colt did”
Robert and Len: I must admit that I agree with you in one aspect: that a gun is nothing but a tool. Its purpose, however, still sets it apart from other tools, in my opinion. A hammer, a glass bottle, a kitchen knife are all things that may be very effective when it comes to harming or killing someone. Unlike guns, however, killing is not what they are MEANT for.
What a gun does, and what it is made for, is killing. While I agree that the intention of picking up a gun may not be “evil” by any means (e.g. self-defence), it does not change the fact that a gun is not made for cutting meat or driving nails into a wall, but for killing (for whatever reason). I can only hope that whoever owns a gun is aware of that.
I cannot say why, but as a matter of fact, guns have always somewhat fascinated and interested me, yet I would never want to have one in my home and I think the world might be a better place had they never been invented.
I am not trying to tell anyone how to run his/her country, it’s nothing but my personal point of view and I realise and totally accept that there are people who disagree.
Over here in Germany, weapons regulations are rather strict, you cannot get a gun just like that, and *personally*, I am very glad of this. Whenever I hear of guns being owned in a german household, it’s almost always because of some kid who has gone on a shooting spree with his daddy’s private collection, never because of someone firing his gun in a self-defence situation. Like I said, that doesn’t mean I don’t accept people thinking otherwise, but as far as I can see, private gun ownership has done way more harm than good recently (at least in my country, that is).
Being a conscientious objector and pacifist, I know that my views might be biased, but in any case, I must say that I did not really enjoy this article. My definition of “manliness” doesn’t necessarily involve owning a gun or the willingness to use them. Someone (I think it was Gandhi) once said “There are many causes I am willing to die for. There is not a single one I am willing to kill for.” Does that seem unmanly to you…?
Anyway, I’m not going to quit reading this blog because of this article, everyone has the right to express his/her opinion (as long as it does not go against other peoples’ basic rights).
Anyhow, it’s a difficult topic, but before anyone starts calling me a “gun hater” (I don’t *hate* them, they’re *tools*, after all
), please understand that not everyone has the same views and values, and that this might *not* even be a *bad* thing.
Thanks,
Chris =)
First of all Gents, I’m glad to see that this conversation has been more-or-less a civilized. I can’t tell you the last time I actually browsed through all of the comments on a blog post, let alone one about a controversial issue. So kudos for keeping it at least relatively reasonable.
I think this article is a bit too limited in its scope. First of all, limiting it to firearms eliminates any discussion of other methods for home defense, especially non-lethal ones. What about tear gas or pepper spray? Are tazers legal for people to own? Or even in an article about firearms, I think non-lethal options should be discussed. Can civilians buy bean bag rounds, or is there a way to use a gun that can effectively defend your home and still not require you to kill the intruder? As far as firearms go, I think an NRA decal or “I own a gun” sticker in the window should be more than enough to keep most intruders out (if it’s true or not).
Wow, I can’t believe all the anti-gun comments. A phone isn’t for defense. It’s to call the cops after the crime, if you still can.
MEN have been SHOOTING GUNS for centuries now. Ever since someone figured out how to add a projectile and gunpowder into a metal tube. Guns are used for hunting, for sport, and for war. Insecure men are usually not the ones buying guns. And I might also say that unfortunately, guns are used for crime. I’d rather have a gun in my house to kill an intruder (I live in Texas where we can kill intruders), than a baseball bat.
I just think it is a shame that our cousins across the pond have lived in a big brother culture for so long that they actually accept that guns are bad.
@ Cy: Thanks for the advice. I tried .38 but I still stand by my advice of 9mm because in my country the 9mm is simply more commonly available. However, I agree that when you’re in the US, .38 might be the better choice.
The best bet for someone unskilled in firearms is the Mossberg Model 500 Persuader 20 gauge. It is small and easy to maneuver with in tight spaces. The kick is light enough that I’ve fired it one handed. And as someone once said the sound it makes when you load a shell would probably be enough to persuade them to try an easier target.
I am glad to see that such a productive, respectful discussion is taking place, aside from the work “nanny-state” being used a little too loosely. I read almost all of the posts above, and I’m surprised no one has mentioned Switzerland. There’s a gun in many (most) households there, and it seems to work out alright for them.
Several people have mentioned training, and I applaud them for it. If someone were to hand me a rubber band gun right now, my right index finger would be laid straight along the barrel as I picked it up. Those who know how to safely handle a firearm know what I’m talking about. Every person I teach how to shoot gets an hour-long safety class in which I teach them how to clear and safely handle not only the pistol I’ll be teaching them to shoot, but I explain the procedure for as many different types of firearms as I can (safety location, chamber location, magazine location, etc).
For the record, I’ve got a loaded .40 S&W by the bedside (I’m the closest thing to a kid in the house) and a Ghurka kukri knife by the computer desk downstairs. Edged weapons are a messy but effective alternative, but again, training is essential.
Ok, the Atlantic suddenly seems bigger than I thought.
Again: I know that guns are just tools (though unlike cars, with the sole purpose to kill). It’s the people using them that I worry about. Sorry for not sharing your positive image of human beings. But I think that there are many psychos and idiots who are on the brink of getting a gun and I am concerned that some of them are amongst us readers (I’m pointing at no one) and were encouraged today to do that.
Second: Sorry, I didn’t realize that you have that big a safety problem over there. You really seem to worry about someone breaking into your house and murdering your family. I’m only just now realizing that you really fear that. Sorry, I live in a country were I can let the house door open at night. Nanny states have advantages too.
By the way, as it seems you have really stupid burglars over there. Why do they always break into your house WHEN YOU AND YOUR ENTIRE FAMILIY ARE STAYING THERE? I mean, don’t they check first and wait until as few people as possible are in the house?
@Tim: Nice one! To responsible lock away his gun and to effectively use it against a criminal somehow contradicts each other.
And Finally:
Nobody wants to take away your precious right to play cowboy and buy guns. The only thing I was saying is that I personally think it’s really stupid and shouldn’t be encouraged via websites like AoM. But of course Brett is the chief here and can decide what he wants to publish.
But think of an article about how cool and manly it is to smoke cigarettes. Wouldn’t you at least frown at that? Of course no one has to tell us about the risks. And of course, it’s not forbidden and we all have “the right” to smoke. But I guess for most of you it would be just ridiculous. And that’s what this article of this gun salesman is for me (and many others): just ridicoulous.
Every day 6 children die by drowing by sticking htere heads in 5 gallon buckets.
Sheesh, protecting ones home and family is about as manly as it gets, all the girly men ought to clean the sand out of their knickers and realize that they are the last line of defense.
No mention of safe storage, especially with children in the home, is given. Poor taste.
@ Stephen M
Switzerland works because the government controls the ammunition tightly and used bullets must be accounted for and new ones are very expensive.
I think this article is important on this site simply because some of the debate/discussion that it has inspired.
I very much appreciate those men (and I use that word with correlative meaning) who have argued their stance on guns logically, without being critical of others beliefs. In the end, ownership of firearms is a personal choice. If a man decides that a gun is his best choice to defend his home, then so be it. But he’d best be damn well trained to use the thing and make sure it stays out of reach of the untrained. Conversely, I can see how some might be uncomfortable in the home. But, as some have said, the core of the article is (or at least should be) concerned with defense of the home, so every man, even without firearms, should have a plan.
I’m personally torn on the issue of gun ownership. Perhaps the paradoxical views come from such complex role models as Atticus Finch (a true man), who, despite being an accomplished marksman, dislikes guns. This is something I will have to come to terms with when I actually have a family. But the choice I make will be the one right for me, and I respect any other RESPONSIBLE and SAFE decisions that any given man makes.
Edit: I meant to say “uncomfortable with a gun in their home.” Apologies.
Ha, ha, ha, ha!!! Guns seems guns are still dangerous territory for conversation.
I don’t have anything against guns. I grew up in a rural area, so rifles were pretty common. But I don’t know if you stand a chance against a real intruder, unless you’re up on your Rambo training (FYI, owning a gun doesn’t make you Rambo.). Unless that intruder is unarmed (my dad always takes guns out to his cabin because we have problems w/ bears).
Nothing wrong w/ guns, only w/ guys that live w/ the illusion that owning a gun makes them manly. As 311 so bluntly put it, guns are for p*ssies.
Sorry.. everyone is being WAY too polite to the anti-gun pushers here. Especially you commenters from the UK. Guns saved your parents asses from being handed to the NAZIS. Guns helped start the revolution for the Great ol U.S.A! Words alone couldn’t do it. Guns did it.
People that are anti-gun have a really limited view of how the world works…
Be men.. grow up.. get a pair…and learn that we live in a world of guns. Everyone should know and understand how they work and how to be safe with them.
Peace through victory.
The end
The ability to defend one’s person and family is a serious responsibility and the epitome of ‘manliness’. If the best weapon of the times to do this was a sword or a bow then I would want a blog to cover those instead and have the best available to put me on a tactical advantage with anyone who intended to do me or mine harm. Since firearms are superior to any other weapon system for absolute self defense, this was a well written blog for the basics on firearms.
To those who would rather use a phone against a criminal who would harm them, since I have been a law enforcement officer for 29 years I will grant you your ‘moral superiority’ when I finally arrive at the scene several minutes later to investigate the crime scene of your body and track down your attacker to put in jail. I am good but I can’t be everywhere, instantly. I have worked natural disasters such as hurricanes where looters and bad men preyed on others and there was no phone service to even call 911. Man up and defend yourself with the best available. Self defense is a basic human right.
Lt. Mitch Snider, Deputy Sheriff MCSO
@Pieter – the “best defense” is a phone?
If someone is breaking into your house with the intent do do bodily harm, do you honestly think the “best” defense is to make a phone call and wait 10-20 minutes for the police to arrive? I’m not sure what happy neighborhood you live in, but I suggest you leave it once in a while to stay in touch with reality.
Criminals carry guns, so a knife or bat won’t help you much.
Call the police while the intruder is raping your 13 year old. Nice choice.
Cars kill people.
What if Jews had guns in Pre-Nazi Germany….
When oil becomes so expensive we begin having power outages, and people start robbing for food or medicine……..
I do have to agree that owning a gun isn’t necessarily manly. I live in TX and many of the women I work with are better shots than me.
FYI: if you have a home security system and someone breaks in, you can’t use the phone to call the police because that is how the alarm contacts the security company, and how said company communicates with the homeowner. The line will be busy
I applaud this site for posting this article. Well written, informative, and to the point.
Educating people about firearms should be the goal (something that this article does well), not snubbing the issue because of controversy.
Hey Matthew, did you just call your dad a p*ssy?
A final thought and I’m outa here.
When I was in my mid 20’s, living in a less than ideal neighborhood, I had a 17 year old from down the block ask me if I new anyone who wanted to buy a .45 automag for $50. “$50? I’m sure it’s stolen, but still, why so cheap?” He said “well…, you can’t get caught with it. It’s been ‘used’.” What did he mean by that, I wonder…..
I was surprised to see this article. I believe guns present more a risk to the families they seek to protect than to those who seek to harm them. I live in South Africa, which although not a war zone, is a dangerous place to live. A panic button and a locked door are perfectly good measures for protecting oneself, and its a regular thing for someone living in the city to get burgled or mugged in this country. Furthermore, the majority of the criminals who have guns have stolen them from private owners.
Statistics show that a gun in the home is far more likely to shoot one of its occupants — usually a child — than an actual intruder. Having an article about owning and operating a gun in the home which does not include extensive information on securing it against usage by children is an invitation to disaster.
It’s not that an article on learning to use firearms would not be useful — it’s a skill, like any other. But the emphasis on defense, rather than safety, is exactly the opposite from what the statistics say we should worry about.
I love your blog, Brett. I’m a huge fan, and have heavily evangelized it to all of my friends. This post on guns only makes sense if you first have a balanced introduction on the average person actually owning guns, the pros and cons. In my opinion there is nothing manly about owning a gun, and yet I do support the right of those who do choose to own firearms assuming that they do not have a background or intention that makes them a loose cannon, pun fully intended. For that matter I am not a fan of abortion either (except for in extreme circumstances where health is endangered or fetal viability has all but been ruled out), but still am pro-choice so that we can make that choice for ourselves. Isn’t it ironic that most of the time the folks that are so pro-gun are so anti-choice on matters of abortion? I always found that to be startingly hard to comprehend.
Anyhow not everything on your blog is perfect or agreeable by all, so no worries. I do really enjoy most every post, though. I am glad that posts like this can stimulate discussion, because the ability to disagree and yet be respectful is VERY MANLY.
Keep up the great work Brett. You have many fans in Spokane Washington!!
I am really uncomfortable with this article as well. There is absolutely no need to have a gun in the house. How about an article on why we don’t need guns to feel or be perceived as manly?
To the folks that have said, “just call the police” I say this:
The Supreme Court has ruled that police are under no legal obligation to protect you – none. They cannot be sued or even taken to task for not showing up quickly in response to an emergency call. Their job is the general maintenance of law and order – not to save your butt if an intruder is in your home.
In addition, just look up “Tueller drill.” There is a lot of textual detail available about it, as well as a handful of video demonstrations on YouTube.
Simply put: someone with a contact weapon can inflict a mortal wound within seconds.
I think it’s fair to say that an intruder can break down a door or smash a window, enter your home and inflict a serious or fatal wound to at least one occupant in thirty seconds or less. Thirty seconds would be a truly astonishing police response time – it’s often far longer than that.
I have no qualm with someone that wants seriously train up on martial arts, disarming drills and contact weapons – at least they don’t live in a bubble world and want to prepare.
But I truly damn those who excoriate AOM for running this story.
Knowing how to defend one’s self with in any fashion is a truly “manly” skill – no one is overcompensating here for anything.
It’s not like the article is saying “buy a gun and all will be well.” – there’s an appropriate gravitas here, and an emphasis on safety and training.
There’s a non-legitimate gun culture of “gangstas” and wanna-be tough guys who use firearms recklessly and unlawfully here in America. That’s what our media presents to the world.
The reality is that there is also a legitimate gun culture, a far larger segment of the population. These are tens of millions of people that take their guns and all of the responsibility that comes with them very seriously.
Thank you for the story, AOM. Do NOT let anyone sway your into self-censorship for fear of offending the readership.
Props for posting this article. It did what it said it would do. For those who dislike the article: take it with a grain of salt and move on, no website (save for one you make just for yourself) will cater perfectly to what you think is appropriate.
I wanted to comment on this article because of the content, not the topic. I was shocked to see such a furor over this – I really didn’t expect all of that – I guess I wasn’t aware of the strong feelings that our European brothers have about gun ownership.
My two thoughts are these: “stopping power” is a sham used to sell big bullets, and home-protection guns are for killing. Let me expand.
“Stopping power” is an attribute given to larger bullets. However, Mythbusters did a good job of showing that anything short of a deer slug from a shotgun won’t affect a person’s momentum. If you want to stop someone the only way to do that for sure is with a kill-shot, and even a .22 to the head is a kill-shot. Like someone else said. Get a bullet you are comfortable firing well, because accuracy is the only stopping power you have.
Be prepared to kill, if you own a gun for home protection. Your first decision isn’t caliber or style or ease of use. Your first decision is whether or not you are ready, willing, and able to kill another human being to defend yourself and your family. Think long and hard about that one before you start shopping for a Glock.
While I understand that in many places people cannot legally obtain guns (a shame in my opinion) there is great masculine value in being able to defend oneself and one’s family. The first line of defense one has, is oneself. Even in the best of circumstances cops will typically take several minutes to respond to a call, and often longer. How long do you suppose it would take a miscreant to subdue you if you cannot defend yourself? Anyone who would call himself a man must know how to defend against criminal intent. A gun is one way to do this, but I wouldn’t recommend relying solely upon it. A man ought to know at least a modicum of martial arts or hand to hand combat, the basics of fighting with edged weapons, and how to handle a gun whether he owns one or not. A man should be proficient in defense with whatever tools may be available to him from a kitchen knife to a hammer to a .45. Abrogating one’s responsibility to effectively defend one’s family is a dereliction of manhood.
–Jeremy
“How about an article on why we don’t need guns to feel or be perceived as manly?”
Read the article again, it says nothing about owning a gun will make someone more manly. All it states is that these type of guns would be good for home defense. If an article such as this makes you ‘uncomfortable’ in some way, maybe you should reevaluate what it means to be a man.
“There is absolutely no need to have a gun in the house.”
Sure there is, what if some guy hopped up on LSD breaks into your house looking for money for his next fix, and nothing is going to stop him?
Are you going to stop and call the police and hope they get there in time?
Perhaps you have a knife or baseball bat to defend yourself, you have to get pretty close with those. Chances are something is going to happen to you in the encounter.
Sure you could close your bedroom door and hope the guy leaves, then he could go harass another household.
As a man it should be your responsibility to protect those around you from obvious harm, while still protecting yourself from harm. A gun is just the right tool for the job.
**If a child of yours kills him or herself with one of your guns, you have failed as a parent. **Same with knives and power tools.
It was only a matter of time before someone equated the topic to the Nazis…
Tell me… how did private gun ownership in the US (or wherever) lead to the military defense (using government issued military weapons) of Britain, which was primarily an aerial invasion, from the Nazis?
And I’m not arguing for or against gun ownership here, I just thought the Nazi comment was particularly ignorant. I can understand both the European and American mindsets when it comes to gun ownership, although I don’t really subscribe to either one myself. I don’t own any guns, but I do respect the rights of those who do.
Gun ownership has nothing to do with manliness. Protecting loved ones, family and self is all about manliness. If a “crazy” decides to attempt to do harm, a cell phone doesn’t cut it. Do you really have that kind of time. Besides my accuracy at throwing one is marginal in the best of circumstances. Under stress, not so good.
Remember, this is in response to a threat. Not about walking around all studly to threaten others.
I will not apologize, nor relinquish the awesome freedoms we have in the U.S. of A.
Glock 45. Reliable, and has knock down power.
Wow, the comments posted regarding this article prove that stupidity is alive and well! Please, for the sake of yourselves and those you love, never, ever go near a gun.
when seconds count the cops are only minutes away…
I’ve had the crazies on my property before – telling them I have the cops on the phone does nothing – once they knew I could defend myself they moved on.
A sawed-off shotgun has the same effect at short range, and is infinitely easier to handle / safer indoors. I believe Mossberg has a nice sawed-off version of the 500.
To AoM, thank you for running this article. I am truly sorry it had to turn into a hysterical debate(I agree with those who said that fear/emotion has no place in debates).
The long and the short of this debate is that if someone intends to do you and/or your family physical harm you need a way to defend against them. Guns allow this. If you want to abolish firearms you must abolish all weapons, and that is impossible(anything can be a weapon).
To those of you who do not understand the second amendment to the constitution of the USA, I say this: if you want to keep your rights, any of your rights, the second amendment must stay. The amendment allows for the people to bear arms so that a well regulated militia is possible. First and foremost the people as individuals must have the right to bear arms, that includes firearms. Second they must be able to organize in a regulated way.
Firearms and any weapon are part of life. Humans will always find a way to do harm to one another, history has shown this. Trying force this to change this is a fruitless effort. We need to become better educated to prevent the harming of one another.
You don’t take away the weapon, the person must change for the better.
I would have to say that the number of people who are robbed without having guns and the people robbed who do own guns are really so few in the grand scheme of things that any evidence for the effectiveness of guns of protecting or not protecting is going to be purely anecdotal either way.
I own guns, but I primarily rely on them for sporting purposes, though I do keep a shotgun out of the safe, unloaded, but ammo for it close by. I live 25 miles from the nearest police station and my house has an alarm on it. But it is still up to 30 minutes of response time of me calling 911 or the house alarm going off. Also remember that the SCOTUS has stated that the police have not constitutional duty to protect you individually, meaning that if someone breaks in your house and you dial 911 but the police are all dealing with something major on the other side of town, nobody is going to show up to help you.
Frankly, I don’t carry a gun for protection or keep one loaded because I basically trust everyone around me, but I expect my government to extend the same respect to me and allow me to keep the guns that I do have.
Pieter,
Yeah a phone is better then a gun…. cause yeah the cops have teleporters and can be there instantaneously…..
Maybe I’ll just carry a cop instead of a gun…. yeah a cop is much more reasonable to carry around.
I have never posted a response to a blog before but after reading the comments here, I had to reply. Being a man means many things, and not every man chooses to take on every manly role. Some men may choose not to be fathers, not to barbecue, or not to be interested in sports. But for any man who chooses to be able to defend his home, gun ownership, and skills in using guns safely and effectively, is a necessity. I for one would prefer to be prepared in case a gun toting thug attempts to enter my home and assault my family. I don’t think I could live with myself in such a circumstance unless I had prepared myself to defend my family and done my best to do so.
An excellent and well-balanced article. Far too many times, I see such articles bogged-down with b-s about “stopping power” and shot capacity, etc. Simply select a firearm you are comfortable with and practice, practice, practice. If you can’t hit your target because you can’t control the gun’s “stopping power” what good is it?
Alas, I’m always amused when someone takes out the tired-old discredited Freudian drivel about firearms being a crutch for a flagging manhood. Such nonsense!
As to you timorous and perhaps even pusillanimous European chaps, we Americans have private ownership of firearms. You Europeans still have antiquated Royalty. There’s the trade-off.
I used that very S&W 686 this morning to ward off a breaking and entering at my condo in downtown San Francisco.
It was unloaded. With a big gun like that you need to only brandish it.
I half agree with some of the comments on here – I also see that the writer of the article was trying to say in regards to the respect guns should have. Personally I think the article was fine, if you’re interested in guns; however as some have said it should have included more about safely storing your gun.
I’m from the UK, and you can’t own a gun in the same way as in America – and I really wouldn’t want a gun in the house with my to little kids, unless it was in a safe and I always had the key with me.
I don’t hate guns, I shoot air rifles and it’s a great feeling to go out onto the plinking range and shoot a few targets. My view, though, is that guns should be kept for sport only.
I think paranoia is running rampant here in the comments, on both sides. Anti-gun (to oversimplify) overestimates the danger of guns in a household that are taken care of properly. Pro-gun (once again, to oversimplify) overestimate the likelihood of needing the gun, and overestimate the usefulness versus the risks of keeping a gun in the household.
To me, owning a gun for home protection is showing that you’re fearful, maybe that fear is justified, I don’t know, but it really isn’t something I’m interested in.
My opinion on the laws is to allow useful guns. By that I mean hunting shotguns and rifles. I don’t think there is any legitimate reason to privately own a concealable weapon. Maybe I’m looking at a pie in the sky, but if handguns were only sold to a smaller group of people, ie police, then the production would go drastically down, scarcity would go up, cost of getting one would go up and would put it out of the range of the common criminal. I am from Canada (from Alberta, which is called the Texas of Canada, also sometimes called Saudi Oilberta), but I still wish to meddle in how the United States controls it’s firearms, and I refute anyone who says I should keep my nose in my own business for a very simple reason: most handguns in Canada are illegally smuggled into Canada from the United States and we thus have a hard time controlling our own firearms. I see no legitimate use for automatic weapons.
On the article itself, I see some bias, not over the top. I passionately disagree with 2nd paragraph, as it implies that not owning a gun is a deficiency, but find the rest of the article in good taste. It champions proper training, which should be had if one to purchase a firearm.
Should the article have been posted? If it weren’t for that 2nd paragraph and the caption under the picture, wholehearted I believe it is in fine taste. With the material that I don’t find tasteful, I still say yes to posting, as it is not offensive, I just disagree with it.
Henrik, it’s ask if you act like guns never existed before kids… It’s amazing the ignorance in this thread.
Sport only?! WTF?! You’re completely brain-washed. The UK elitists have done a great job! Congrats to them!!!
Charles, I stopped reading at “Canada.” Sorry buddy.
The response to this article is ridiculous:
1. Men are apt to disagree on things big and small. But despite their disagreements, their shared company is valued. Show me a man who ends a friendship for some intellectual disagreement, and I will show you a man who is petty, emotional, humorless. These are the sort of men who would refuse reading this blog because they disagree with one article. They are weak.
I’m not even a frequent reader, although I probably will be one very soon.
2. Part of being a man is taking care of your family, giving them food and shelter. Outsourcing the job of protecting your kin to the police is not manly. Even if it’s the best course of action at times. Don’t confuse your politics with manliness.
@Brucifer: “You Europeans still have antiquated Royalty. There’s the trade-off.”
Come on, quick: who’s the king of Germany? What about the Queen of France? …and the Prince of Italy?
Read a little bit more, dude. That sure IS manly, not having your paranoid neighbor wielding guns at you.
WOW!! It’s too bad we can’t reply to posts individually. Most of these MEN posting here need to go buy a dress. JIMMY says 8 kids die a day because of guns, what are you citing. Moreover I would be willing to bet that many kids die of drowning worldwide each day, BAN WATER! How many die in car accidents? BAN CARS and all motor vehicles.
Then Pieters tries to say the PHONE is your best weapon???? How long does it take the cops to get to you??? 2-3 minutes is WAY too long if your about to have your head blown off because the only gun is in the hand that’s about to kill you.
As for myself, I’ll stand up, BE A MAN, and defend my life. BY god if someone is going to try and kill me or my family he’s got another thing coming!!! I’m NOT going to lay down and take it, I’m not going to ask him to wait 5 or 10 minutes for the cops to show up so it might be a fair fight.
Protecting ones family is a top priority and certainly manly, in fact protecting ones family is a requirement of being a man in my eyes. That being said there are multiple ways protecting your family can be accomplished each with their own pros and cons.
Theres an old saying “an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure” and I subscribe to that belief. As such I’m going to do everything I can to prevent a home invasion and protect my family (well lit, doors/windows secured, security system, dogs) but should one occur I’ll be ready with gun in hand. Because if all that isn’t going to stop them neither will pepper spray or a phone call.
Each individual has to decide what type of protection they are comfortable with. The important thing is that you are concerned and actively working to protect your family.
Finally! A blog entry I can enjoy! As an American, I have the Constitutional right to own a gun, and like it or not, the fore-fathers thought it a great idea. For personal and home defense, there is NO substitute for a firearm; you can call the police, but you’ll be dead (or worse) before they arrive…and it IS manly to defend yourself and your family, by whatever means necessary.
In my personal collection, I own a .40 cal. Glock 23, a .45 cal Colt ‘73 Peacemaker, a .30-06 cal. M1 Garand, an 8mm K-98 Mauser, a 9mm Beretta, a .45 cal. Government Model 1911 Colt, and my personal favorite (which stays at the ready, within arms-length, especially at night), a .45 cal Thompson M1A1 submachine gun. No, I’m not paranoid, and no, I’m not an extremist….I’m just an American, exercising my right to own arms (and a liberal Democrat, to boot).
Thanks, Brett.
I understand people’s sensitivity to the use of firearms. They aren’t for everyone, but this article is a good introduction to those that choose to exercise their second amendment rights. The last thing I would ever want is to actually use my gun for self defense. So I actually keep a baseball bat in next to the bed, and would instinctively grab it first. That said, I tend to follow the old adage “hope for the best, but prepare for the worst”.
For those interested in a firearm for self defense, I think there is one note worth mentioning. I would prefer to use a shotgun for home defense, due to the stopping power and reduced need for marksmanship. Unfortunately, the long barrel and butt stock of most shotguns limit thier use, in close quarters or narrow hallways. As such I would recommend a shotgun with a pistol grip, or a revolver as an alternative. Personally I have a Ruger Sp101 .357 snub nose revolver for home protection. It will fire a .38 special or a .357 magnum round. So I put .38 rounds in the first four chambers and a .357 magnum in the last chamber. This reduces the recoil and lethality for the first four rounds, but the final .357 round will have increased stopping power and the added recoil becomes somewhat irrelevant since the gun is empty.
Just my two cents
Technically, the 2nd Amendment isn’t about protection from crazed criminals… It’s about protection from tyranny in government… I hope the government in the UK never decides to lay the smack down Stalin/Hitler/Mao style… You all are sitting ducks.
Most of you anti’s have probably never handled a gun and yet you have these crazy, radical and ignorant opinions against them. How much sense does that make?
One note for the shotgun, Someone up higher mentioned penetration. For a home defense situation one of the best rounds is bird shot, not buckshot. At the close range of the home the bird shot makes one big hole, and does NOT penetrate walls, that means your kid on the other side of the wall behind the shithead in your house is safe. Buckshot can and does go through 3-4 walls.
Wow. I wasn’t really expecting this sort of response to this article on AoM!
Owning a gun doesn’t make you manly. However, the attitude that comes along with *responsible* gun ownership is very much so! You’re taking responsibility for yourself, and your family. It really is all about responsibility.
People keep citing accidental shootings of children by other children as a reason we shouldn’t have guns. I say it’s a reason we shouldn’t have dumb parents.
The ownership of a gun is a great responsibility, and it includes the responsibility to train your kids in the proper use of a gun, and the power of a gun. Take the kidos to the range (if they’re old enough) and shoot a watermelon or water bottle for them. Explain that a gun can easily do that kind of damage to a person, and they should never *ever* point it at another person. Teach them the NRA gun rules (1. ALWAYS point a gun in a safe direction – treat any gun as a loaded gun, 2. NEVER put your finger on the trigger until you intend to fire the gun, 3. Keep the gun unloaded until you intend to use it) Let them target shoot, but watch them closely, and correct them.
Regardless of age, teach the kids that they should never, ever touch a gun, or allow a friend to touch a gun, without a responsible adult present. The NRA has the “Eddie Eagle” videos that I remember seeing MANY times throughout my life.
ALWAYS keep your guns stored safely. Unloaded and locked is always best, since an empty gun can’t shoot (though you should always treat it like it could) but a home-defense gun should be kept in a secure, quick access safe (the keypad is designed to be operated by one hand, using multiple button presses, with a spring-loaded door) and the younger kids should not, under any circumstances, know the access code. A shotgun in the closet or a gun in a drawer is really not safe, especially if your kids ever have friends over.
My parents did all of these for me. I’m 20 now, and I know how to get to a gun in this house quickly and safely, if God forbid I ever had to.
I think this sort of training is really important for kids, and it both de-mystifies the firearms you see on TV (you quickly learn that no-one can shoot like Jack Bauer) and enforces the grave responsibility that comes with holding a gun. Those are missing, both in the gangster/poser, golden glock culture and in the gun-averse culture.
I have no qualms with this article, but I can see how one might find it troubling. The problem, I think, is one of interpretation: those displeased with the article seem to perceive it as establishing a direct link between manliness and gun ownership, while the rest see it as simply another article on the manly duty of protecting one’s family. As for the complaint that it portrays gun ownership as the only means of protecting one’s family, the closing question of “Do you prefer a baseball bat over a gun?” makes it undeniably clear that there are other methods of home defense and that guns aren’t necessarily to be preferred or considered more manly. In addition, one simply has to look at the title of the article to dispel the impression that AoM is endorsing gun use. It is “The Best Guns for Home Defense,” not “Guns Are the Best for Home Defense.” It is written by an expert not in the area of home defense but of guns, giving advice about which guns are most practical for defending one’s family, *should one choose to use a gun to do so.*
Though I think the article is fine as is (given its emphasis on further education for prospective gun owners), it might have been less divisive and more politic had it contained information about safe storage and stressed “family” defense rather than “home” (read possessions) defense.
MaddSkillz, what exactly is it that makes you so strongly dislike people from Europe (be it just the UK or Europe as such) by default?
In case you did not know:
Xenophobia is not exactly manly, nor is it a sign of intelligence. It simply a proof of the ignorance you’ve just lamented. And, more importantly, it’s a foolproof sign that you are one of those guys that (according to people from both sides of this discussion) should never have access to a gun.
Regards,
Chris
As to the article itself, I felt it was lacking in expanding upon both what “Safe Use” is and storage options, though it did do a good job of outlining the pros and cons of different weapons.
I would say a revolver is not quite as useful as the author claims, simply because six to eight rounds is significantly less than what you will usually find in a semi-automatic handgun. Well maintained semi-autos that are appropriate for the user and utilize a quality ammunition will rarely jam severely, and can usually be cleared by cycling the action once.
Additionally, the author didn’t really touch on caliber/load selection much at all. I would say that the round should be matched to the user, but anything greater that .40 S&W is excessively large (and usually has a poor ballistic trajectory) and 9mm Parabellum is usually sufficient. As to shotguns, either buckshot or birdshot should be fine, depending on your concern for over-penetration vs. increased range. Slugs are excessive, will over-penetrate, and recoil way to much to be considered for home-defense purposes.
Guns in the hands of responsible people are a great choice for home and personal defense. A weaker person CAN defend against a stronger person or group of people. If you have a issue with firearms DON”T get one. I am responsible for my safety and the safety of my family. Owning a firearm provides me with a last resort option to protect myself and others.
The firearm is not and should not be the first choice, but as a last resort it can be very effective. Responsible people have a plan on what to do in the protection of thier family and self. When secounds count and the police are minutes away I choose to have a firearm ready to thwart the would-be attacker, if the stuation forces that.
GUN CONTROL:
The theory that a woman found dead in an alley, raped and strangled with her own pantyhose, is somehow morally superior to a woman explaining to police how her attacker got that fatal bullet wound.
My family and I have made the choice to defend eachother if need be. We refuse to be a victim! If your choice is to allow yourself to possibly become a victim that is your choice. The writer is offering you another option and I commend him for that! If you don’t like his advise don’t take it. Be he is being VERY responsible in my opinion! Thanks
Chris, at no point did I imply or state that I dislike people in the UK by default. I have family there and from there.
I simply find it humorous for those in the UK who do not readily have access to firearms to hold an opinion of firearms they think should impact others.
Charles (#105) summed up my thoughts pretty well. In fact, I’m also from Alberta.
Personally, I would feel less safe with guns in the house (especially a loaded gun…I can’t believe that so many people keep loaded weapons in their homes; that’s not even legal here, as far as I know).
I live in the city with the highest murder rate in the country, in a neighbourhood where many of those murders occur, and I’ve never once felt the need to purchase a gun.
But, I suppose that comes down to a matter of culture. Gun culture isn’t ingrained in Canadian society the way it is in America.
I don’t have anything again people who choose to won firearms, but I feel the need to have one. Owning a hunting rifle would be one thing, but I can’t imagine why I’d ever want to own a gun for “home defense.”
Man, I’m making a lot of typos today. My last paragraph should have said that I *don’t* feel the need to own a gun.
Adam, feeling less safe and being less safe aren’t the same. Hopefully you realize this.
Also, equating what’s right to what’s legal is also an intellectual shortfall.
I find it very odd that so many people are so quick to point out how evil guns are.
I find it even more odd that so many panty-waist, menstruating, lipstick-wearing, pansies just typed in the URL “ArtOfManliness.com” without having to take time out to go burn your bras.
If they are illegal where you live, then by all means, don’t break the law. But I’d damn sure move before I’d let my government tell me that I can’t own a tool that does nothing (in my hands) illegal, and is there solely for legal use in things like hunting for food (I eat what I hunt – guess what, as crazy as it sounds, there have been people doing that for like 1000’s of years man), target and sport shooting, and self-defense.
A gun is a tool – period. Its not good, its not evil. If it were capable of killing, statistically, its not even that good at killing. More people are killed with cars every day that guns ever thought about killing. But to be fair, there are millions of legal drivers out there every day that aren’t killing people with their car (just like the fact that in America, there are millions of legal gun owners that manage to not kill someone with their gun every day).
But put an idiot behind the wheel of a car (or a criminal, set on doing harm with his vehicle), and it becomes a killing machine. The same is true of guns.
Here’s the difference. If a person has a car and wants to kill you while you’re in your car, you have very little you can do to defend yourself with only your car. You can run away, or you can use your car as a weapon (a type of tool) and it doesn’t make for a very good weapon.
If a criminal (someone who is by definition, breaking the law) plans on using a gun to harm you, and you have a gun… you have just taken away that criminal’s advantage. Your gun can be used as a tool to defend yourself just like the criminal’s gun can be used to do harm to you.
Guns aren’t just tools for killing. Think about this – if a Criminal plans on committing a crime, the odds are good that he/she doesn’t want to commit it in a place filled with people who take away his advantage.
A muscled up guy with no weapon isn’t going to go try and rob/rape/murder a Gym full of muscled up workout addicts is he? In the same sense, an armed criminal most likely isn’t going to try and rob/rape/murder someone at a donut shop during lunch hour if it has 25 police cars parked out front is he?
Giving citizens the right to arm themselves and use guns for self-protection is just one of many uses guns provide. And the mere understanding that using a gun in a crime might not be enough of an advantage is a thought in the minds of many criminals in the US (specifically in places where citizens are legally allowed to carry guns too). Here the gun does something without ever actually doing anything but existing as a gun. I’m statistically much less likely to be the victim of a crime in a place where criminals know many law-abiding citizens are armed.
There are only 2 reasons to dislike the use of guns:
1. Negligence – this only applies to legal citizens who own a gun and may leave it out around kids, or may leave it unholstered and loaded in a car seat, or might use it in some irresponsible way. Guess what – there is a much higher chance of someone doing this with a car, or even in the case of kids accidentally killing themselves with it – a backyard swimming pool. Guns again fail to be the top killing force even with negligence.
That’s probably because all responsible gun owners use education and not ignorance and fear to explain their feelings about guns. I have a moderate number of guns and small children. I’ve educated them and can trust their actions around guns – but even so, I’m not negligent about owning/storing my guns. In much the same way I wouldn’t leave a swimming pool out in the front yard with no fence around it so that neighborhood kids could come and drown in it, I leave my guns when not on me in my safe – locked.
2. Crimes committed with a gun – Law-abiding citizens don’t become hardened criminals as soon as a gun gets into their hands. They are usually concerned with using the gun for one of its legal purposes (including possibly self-defense). So creating a law, or encouraging a website (such as this site) to stop “telling people about guns because its irresponsible” or whatever ridiculous garbage you’re retrosexual friends are counting on you to say as you all high-five each other in front of your keyboard is just plain stupid.
Again, if you are a law-abiding citizen, and a responsible person, you should have no problem owning a firearm and handling/storing/using it responsibly and safely. If you are not, then you probably don’t belong behind the wheel of a car or out in public sa I would be just as threatened by a 7,000lb SUV being used against me on the highway at 70mph as I would a gun.
A law-abiding citizen who sees the need to (in a fit of road rage or whatever the circumstances may be) use his car as a weapon for a reason other than self-defense is just as much a criminal as the person who sets out to commit a crime in the first place. The same is true of guns. The responsibility of the crime is not on the car of the gun – its on the person who crossed the line.
On the other hand, if a criminal is going to use a tool to commit a crime, there is nothing you can do to stop him/her via laws. Mostly because as I just said, the criminal is intent on breaking those laws. Its like attempting to stop the writers of most of the comments I’ve read on this article from menstruating by simply telling yourself “don’t menstruate”. Its going to happen and judging from the comments I’ve read, its happening often.
So what can you do about crimes committed with a gun? Call the police as one writer suggested? Certainly – and if they’re not there with the first few seconds of your house being broken into by an armed criminal, they’ve got some lovely chalk for your outline and a team of investigators to figure out who killed/raped/kidnapped/tortured your house.
Or you could arm yourself and refuse to be a victim. If its not legal to do that where you live, then please… move to a more manly place.
One final note – not a single gun was used in the 9/11 hijacking of the US planes that destroyed the lives of thousands. Neither was a gun used in the bombing of the British train station. Criminals will use whatever means to commit a crime – no matter what you ban – so lets all stop with the irrational fear of guns and educate ourselves.
By the way, just read this on Wikipedia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gun_violence_in_the_United_States) :
“Overall robbery and assault rates in the United States are also comparable to other developed countries, such as Australia and Finland, notwithstanding the much lower levels of gun ownership in those countries.”
Makes me wonder whether that is the case *because of* or *despite* a lower level of gun ownership in those countries
Also, the same article said:
“Criminologist Philip J. Cook hypothesizes that if guns were less available, criminals may likely commit the crime anyway but with less-lethal weapons.”
- Okay, just a hypothesis, but still… makes one think, doesn’t it?
While this doesn’t directly relate to the article, but it’s still interesting for the discussion that’s going on here…
Regards,
Chris
I do not find the soul of this article inappropriate, however, I do believe that ANY time guns are mentioned, firearm safety should be top priority. Safety is manly. I am from “The South,” and I grew up with guns, that being said, you could consider me a gun control supporter. Storing loaded guns in a residence is a huge no-no. Even in a gun cabinet with trigger locks. As a child, I knew where my father’s guns were, but I didn’t know where the ammo was until I was 16. At that point, I had been shooting for about 5 years. It is statistically true that keeping a loaded firearm in one’s home is actually more dangerous than any home intrusion. I do not begrudge any law-abiding adult the right to own a firearm, but I do expect any gun owner to be responsible enough to protect himself and his family from themselves, first.
@Chris (comment 62): About Gandhi:
“Gandhi guarded against attracting to his satyagraha (resistance to tyranny) movement those who feared to take up arms or felt themselves incapable of resistance. ‘I do believe,’ he wrote, ‘that where there is only a choice between cowardice and violence, I would advise violence.’”
[Conquest of Violence, Joan Valérie Bondurant, page 28, http://books.google.com.vn/books?id=QjWtb1cz1oC&pg=PA156&lpg=PA156&dq=Bondurant+Ghandi&source=bl&ots=xnTYfu-irC&sig=4EHKBgbaF178mPKRXR6RHk2HwI&hl=en&ei=crZoSoHOL8aJkQWNkZCZCw&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=1
Funny thing about guns: It’s infinitely better to have one and not need it, than to need one and not have one.
When I grew up in America, I was taught from an early age to use guns safely in the Scouts and with Uncles and the local police officers on the shooting range. When I grew up, I almost always owned one while in the US, as a matter of course, in the same way I would own a cordless drill.
I lived in Europe for many years, and watched with amusement how everyone abhorred guns, and little by little CCTV cameras sprung up everywhere, taxes were insufferable, and the political classed laughed at the populace and spit in the face of all the people with New World Order things like the creation of the EU, national ID cards and arrests for taking pictures of the wrong things.
I later moved to Australia and learned how the government used the “Port Arthur killings”–a once in a century event, to remove firearms from the hands of the populations. The taxes got higher, the freedom to smoke a cigarette was removed first from restaurants, then from pubs, then even from private homes in rental properties. I was not keen on filling out their intrusive census form and was threatened with arrest by a census taker for not divulging the number of bathrooms in my home, my profession, and the route and means I used to travel to and from work everyday.
Recently, I moved to Hanoi. I live in a full blown communist totalitarian state (by choice–living in other cultures amuses me). Obviously, no guns are permitted here–the first thing a totalitarian state does is remove any means of violent opposition from the hands of the people.
I’ve lived without a gun in Germany, France, Australia, and now in Hanoi. I was a single guy with nothing to lose before. But now, as I write this, my beautiful young wife is sleeping a few feet away from me. My thoughts return to three months ago. We were sleeping. Somebody put a bamboo ladder noislessly up over our 12 foot steel wall and concertina wire up to our second story window.
It was a warm night. The window was open. They slipped in, stole a Macbook, an Iphone, another old cellphone and a gold watch and slipped noislessly back out.
We didn’t know what happened till morning.
What if they wanted my wife? What if I woke up and confronted them? I live in a place where I really do need a gun and I don’t have one. I was advised by my neighbors not to call the police, because, since they are the only ones who DO have guns, they require an upfront payment of around $300 to begin any sort of “inquiry” and no results are guaranteed…so forget about it.
Increasingly here, there is much grumbling in the beerhalls here about the need for a “change” in the government. The grumbles get louder as each week passes, as each “dissident” is jailed for comments on a blog, as each new Christian church is “seized” by the authorities for a new beach-side resort. The grumbles get louder as the parishioners defending their churches are beaten with billy clubs and rocks by the police themselves and local “thugs” recruited by the police for the purpose.
I live in a place where maybe I do need a gun to protect my wife soon, and I wont have one. I needed one three months ago and didn’t have one. There are a lot of things I don’t like about America, and I chose many years ago to leave it rather than love it (as the redneck bumper-stickers like to say). But one of the things I always appreciated about America was my right to protect myself and my loved ones, and keep my government in check because they do know millions of us have guns-and they do think twice before telling you that you can’t smoke a cigarette in a bar on a national level.
Wasn’t it funny how the first thing they tried to do in New Orleans was take away everyone’s guns?
There are a lot of places in the world where if you wake up in the morning without your gun by your side, you may not make it alive to bed that night. Maybe this blog is read in Iraq, Somalia, many countries in South America? Useful information in those places, n’est pas Euro-friends?
God bless the Second Amendment. I wont move back to Amerika just for that, but it was one of the nicer things still being respected in the Constitution there.
Teddy Roosevelt Certainly Owned a Gun. There was nothing wrong with this article. Untwist your panties ladies.
Wow, I am shocked reading some of the comments on here. Sounds more like something the gals of Ladies Home Journal would say. Every day, more people are saved by a firearm than hurt or killed. I am not gonna recycle the same statistics that everyone else does, like make guns illegal and only criminals will have them but guess what, its illegal for criminals to own guns. Just like it should be illegal for some of ya’ll to be considered men, or breed. This sight is called the Art of Manliness, so pull your panties out of your ass and act like a man.
I just realized that I mis-typed “retro-sexual” instead of “metro-sexual” and while only a tiny mistake of a single letter, that’s probably pretty severe on a manliness-specific site.
My apologies to any retro-sexual men out there (though I know you’d never show any emotion about it other than anger anyways and I totally respect that).
To any of the metro-sexual guys out there who are offended…
ah what the hell do I care.
I’ve grown up using guns- 12 bore shotgun and .22 air rifle. For purposes of bagging game for the pot. The.22 airgun worked best. My Dad taught me to shoot, to clean the gun, to be safe, and how to store it safely. Never did we discuss using it for “self defence”, much less the merits of one type of gun over another for the purposes of making other people die. Man up, AOM.
I’m going to ignore all the pro-gun/anti-gun banter, because if I start into that I’ll be here for HOURS…
So getting back to the article, I largely agree with the comments. But you were pretty generous in giving shotguns a 4/5 for ease of use. Have you ever tried to turn around in a hallway while holding a shotgun in any kind of ready position? Or even turning a corner? You have to really practice those moves to avoid being clumsy.
@Basil. The point is not to make people die. The point is to stop an attack on your home or your family. If the intruder happens to die if you shoot him, it’s unfortunate, but that’s not why you shot him. If you tell the police you were trying to kill him, you’ll be booked for murder. If nobody’s life was in danger and you kill someone, you’ll be booked for murder. Buying a gun is not a license to kill. Most people miss this point.
Joseph Finn wrote:
“Of course, all this is a moot point, due to gun ownership being illegal in the USA unless you belong to a well-regulated militia, under the terms of the 2nd Amendment to our Constitution (some states have unconstitutional laws supposedly allowing gun ownership, but not state is perfect).”
Fails.
What the 2nd actually states – “A well regulated militia being necessary to the security of a free State, the right of the People to keep and bear arms shall not be infringed…”
Note that it says “the People”, not “members of aforementioned Militia”.
And if you actually bother to read what the Founders have written about the Second, well, you’ll find that that particular Right was included as inalienable, designed so that ordinary People would have the ability to overturn their elected officials should those same officials become tyrannical. That’s what sets us apart from the paternalistic European societies most of our ancestors came here to escape.
If that’s too scary for you, go tell Harry Reid you want to see the US Constitution amended to repeal the 2nd. Good luck with that, though.
I’m amazed at the number of ignorant anti-gun comments on here. It’s simply stastical fact that when the law-abiding systems are armed, crime goes down. All this nonsense about guns being “bad” is absurd. It’s not guns that are bads, its those who use the guns.
By the way, here in the US there have been a number of high-profile shootings in the last few years. There is on thing many of them share in common–they happen in places where the criminal does not expect people to be armed. We call these “Gun-Free Zones” in the US, and it’s basically an advertisement for any lunatic that “you can shoot people here and they won’t shoot back!”
Want your home to be a gun free zone? You should expect the same outcome that gun free zones has produced elsewhere–helpless victims.
And, as others have said, the argument “just call the cops” is equally ridiculous. If someone breaks into your home with a weapon, do you want to be a helpless victim while he mains and/or kills you and your family, or do you want at least a fighting chance?
Firstly to the author of the blog, good job on a BASIC introduction to home defense firearms.
I personally own a Ruger P90 9mm and I purchased a S&W Sig 9mm for my girlfriend. We both practice fire at the local range and have been schooled in the functionality of the weapons. These purchases were strictly for home defense and recreational shooting. My girlfriend has told me countless times that she feels safer at home by herself now because she knows she has a very good resource to help defend and protect herself. obviously just owning a gun is not a guarantee of safety but it certainly is better than the alternative.
here’s the deal, PEOPLE FEAR WHAT THEY DO NOT UNDERSTAND. The first time I purchased a weapon I was pretty nervous to even try to load or clean it in fear that it “might go off”. Complete ignorance and lack of experience drove my fear. Once i educated myself and was shown the correct procedures to take, the nervousness subsided. I still hold a healthy fear for them in terms of what they are capable of but i no longer fear their presence. The same with my girlfriend, it was almost impossible to get her around the weapon, even unloaded, and with the slide safetied, but once she was open to learning about the gun she too became familiar and pleased to have them in the house.
It’s been said a bunch in these comments already but America is very gun saturated. Our country was founded by men that believed in responsible citizens owning firearms. This is our heritage and a very active piece of our culture. Responsible men with experience and knowledge are essential to this structure.
I personally believe in citizen’s right to keep weapons. I want criminals terrified to even think about a home invasion due to the possible outcomes that our 2nd ammendment warrants.
And to the man that bought the three bats, I sincerely hope you consider educating yourself with a home defense firearm because I guarantee you the day you face an intruder in your home late at night that is carrying something more substantial than a stick of wood, you will sincerely wish you had.
When seconds count to save your life, the police are only minutes away! (To those who think a phone with a 9 and a 1 on it is a better tool for self-defense than a gun).
There is NOTHING more manly than protecting your family from danger, which police cannot always (cannot usually) do. There is no better tool for protection against home invaders and other violent criminals than a firearm. Therefore, it follows that manliness and firearms do indeed necessarily go hand in hand, if you have a family to protect.
To the gentleman who’s gonna open up a can on thugs who threaten his family with a baseball bat – while I applaud the fact that you have some tool and some plan for self-defense, still; Next time some gun-toting gangsters break in, let me know how that works out for you. You also ask the question “How will I know where those bullets will end up with my family in the house”. Well, here’s the answer to that question. “By carefully studying extererior ballistics of the gun and ammo chosen, and choosing one that has very little penetration through walls, and more importantly, but knowing full well the layout of your home, it’s construction materials, and most importantly of all, where your loved ones are located, and by being sure of your target and what is behind it before shooting, and understanding your trajectories should you miss your target.” Do you have any other questions?
P.S. If you have no violent criminals in your country, then please ignore my advice.
I enjoyed your article.
Men have been using guns since they COULD use guns, and many of our separate societies/nations would not have been created without the use of them.
Firearm knowledge is extremely important. Not just from the shooters point of view, but also being on the other end of a barrel. Knowing your weapons abilities as well as your enemies is very crucial. My childhood home has always had the same weapon. A pump action shotgun (from Sears) that was in my fathers closet that was always kept unloaded. He taught us even as youngsters how to load and chamber the weapon. Thankfully it has never been fired during the 22 years I’ve been alive.
Many of the above posters surprised me. As soon as I am able, financially and legally to own a weapon I will (and definitely when I own a home and have a family). I will never forget the night (shortened version) I was walking my dog when two men approached me, beat me to a pulp (chipped teeth on the pavement, black eyes, busted lips, mutliple concussions), and then left. This was in my quaint suburb, by the way. I had my cell phone, but I didn’t have a weapon and luckily neither did they. About 1 hour later when I was safe on my couch back at home nursing my wounds, the police arrived. I wasn’t angry at the police then nor am I now, I understand how things go, and I am trying to let you all know if you haven’t experienced such things.
Anyway, great article. Readers, don’t forget about gun safety, because the gun doesn’t know who it is shooting!
Maybe you could write a different article
“Hip Case Or Pocket? Best Cell Phone Placement For Self Defense”
“Where To Get Barbed Wire CHEAP”
“8 Essential Karate Moves To Keep Your Family Safe”
/sarcasm
Remember: When seconds matter, the police are only minutes away.
Noah
Please ease up on trying to use “cowboy” as an epithet. It’s an honorable manly profession. Ignorance in assuming all cowboys carried guns is juvenile bigotry where your knowledge is gleaned from television. Only real cowboys carried guns
I worked on my uncles ranch every summer of my pre-adult life. It was a real cattle ranch not like what you see on t.v. like “City Slickers”. I started carrying Ruger Vaquero with snake shot loads in it when I was ten years old. Used it to kill snakes in the Arizona desert because a shotgun was too large to pack and too slow to draw from the saddle scabbard. My father took my brothers and I out shooting every time the men went shooting. We were taught the safety rules like our lives depended on them and they did. Consequently, I was never curious or careless with a gun. I was given my own .22 LR rifle when I was six years old. It was on my gun rack in my room above my bed. When I wanted to go shooting I took it down and grabbed a 32 cents box of shells and went shooting. I never shot anything that didn’t merit shooting. So, the emotional reactions are odd to me. Men ought not to be afraid of a THING. I’ve been shot twice in my life by idiots. Once when I was a teenager and once in the performance of my duties. I never once blamed the gun. I am still not afraid of firearms. Fear should not rule a man. Rationale and logical discourse should.
Charles wrote:
“To me, owning a gun for home protection is showing that you’re fearful, maybe that fear is justified, I don’t know, but it really isn’t something I’m interested in.”
It really isn’t that. Those of us who own guns for self-defense make a cold, logical decision about the degree of leverage we feel we will need in any encounter with criminal scum.
Charles also wrote:
“My opinion on the laws is to allow useful guns. By that I mean hunting shotguns and rifles. I don’t think there is any legitimate reason to privately own a concealable weapon. ”
As explained previously, the “legitimate reason” is actually a fundamental Constitutional right for American citizens. We don’t plan to change on your behalf, and we don’t owe you a reason or an explanation for our right to carry concealed.
“Maybe I’m looking at a pie in the sky, but if handguns were only sold to a smaller group of people, ie police, then the production would go drastically down, scarcity would go up, cost of getting one would go up and would put it out of the range of the common criminal. ”
Respectfully, you are looking at a pie in the sky. Criminalizing concealable weapons only ensures the forced unilateral disarmament of the law abiding. By contrast, criminals have absolutely no problem acquiring arms by black market sources or our local law enforcement officials (such as those in Trenton, NJ) – or making guns on their own if they’re desperate enough (as happened in Bouganville in Papua-New Guinea) – or through outright theft. When you don’t obey the law, you’re less bound by the laws of supply and demand.
Also:
“I am from Canada (from Alberta, which is called the Texas of Canada, also sometimes called Saudi Oilberta), but I still wish to meddle in how the United States controls it’s firearms, and I refute anyone who says I should keep my nose in my own business for a very simple reason: most handguns in Canada are illegally smuggled into Canada from the United States and we thus have a hard time controlling our own firearms.”
So you have no problem with trying to deny us one of our fundamental and important rights under the US Constitution, then?
Suppose we were to extend your thought process to Canadian single-payer health care. Some of your citizens come down here for healthcare because they can’t get what they need with yours. In doing so they limit access of our own citizens to those same practitioners and clinics. So by your logic we have every right to tell you Canadians to dump your single payer system in favor of private health care that actually works, don’t we?
Or how about your incredibly permissive Canadian immigration policy – the one that ensures we have a never-ending stream of border-jumping Wahhabist terrorists to deal with here. Should we interfere with that?
You Canadians never tire of your own sense of intellectual superiority, but for us, it’s long since become annoying. Seriously, mind your own business.
Thank you AoM. Good post on basic home defense (every Man’s responsibility) weapons.
Please don’t shy away from such topics because it “creeps” someone out.
There was an armed robbery and hostage situation a half mile from my house last week, an assault and robbery right down my street last month, and I live in the good part of town. I’m thankful that here in the US I’m able to posses the ability to effectively protect my wife and baby girl–if it had been my house that the guy decided to take hostages at, instead of the house a half mile down, and the situation allowed–my family would have come out alive because that Glock 27 would be off my ankle, into a well trained hand and spitting some lead the direction of anyone who tried to enter my home as an intruder.
Great article! I’m a proud owner of many firearms and I’m happy to say that I’m ready to use them to defend my home if necessary.
If you are uncomfortable owning a gun or you believe that living somewhere where they are illegal will protect you from criminals with guns, I’d just like to hear you bleat for me. Bleat like the sheep that you are.
There are two kinds of people in this world. Those that are willing and able to use violence against another person, and those that aren’t. And of those that are willing and able, there are two distinct groups. Those that will use that violence to purposely hurt and subjugate others, we’ll call them wolves. The others are those that will use that violence against the wolves to protect the sheep, we’ll call them sheepdogs. So what are you? Sheepdog or sheep?
Let’s remember that police officers use the same weapons we are talking about here to protect you from criminals. Why do they carry them if they truly aren’t needed? Just think, “when seconds count, the police are just minutes away.” Wouldn’t you prefer that the police show up after you’ve handled the problem rather then them showing up in time to call the coroner for you and your family?
So in the future, every day that you choose not to protect yourself and your family with the same or better weapons than criminals use, just remember to say “Baaaaa” nice and loud.
I really do not see anything wrong with this article. I’m not the biggest gun guy in the world, but this really educated me on various guns if I ever decide to go and get one. Everyone’s entitled to protect themselves and their families as long as it is legal and done after safety training.
Great article and keep it up!
@Cowboy Bob: You’re spot on. Thanks!
And I have some highly-recommended reading for the gentleperson from Mexico, and those from other countries where firearms rights are highly restrictive:
Confessions of an Anti, Part I: http://www.thehighroad.org/showthread.php?t=358269
Confessions of an Anti, Part II: http://www.thehighroad.org/showthread.php?t=358304
Confessions of an Anti, Part III: http://www.thehighroad.org/showthread.php?t=358526
Confessions of an Anti, Part IV: http://www.thehighroad.org/showthread.php?t=359807
Extremely illuminating as to fundamental freedom, and cultural differences, warped perspectives, and irrational fears resulting from government indoctrination.
I really can’t relate to the irrational fear of firearms I see in a lot of the above. While I’m by no means a gun-nut, I think that learning to use and (most of all) respect firearms is one of the more manly pursuits a guy can undertake.
I first learned to shoot (a BB gun) at the age of 6, and spent a good part of my youth learning to shoot sporting clays and it’s international offspring, FITASC. Clays shooting is a fun way to get outdoors, meet interesting (sometimes VERY interesting) people and test a very specific skill set. It’s difficult, takes tons of practice, and truly hones hand-eye coordination. I’m not sure I agree with the idea of having a firearm for home defense (the statistics on the dangers are pretty impressive, even if they are inflated) or for personal protection with a concealed carry permit, but the responsible use of firearms for sporting aims is something that should be continued and protected in this country.
I don’t shoot anymore (for many reasons, including family getting out of the business and moving to New York without a car to get out to the country), but I think it’s still an important thing for people to learn about. You don’t have to enjoy it or participate, firearms are not for everyone, but it’s important to at least build some knowledge on the subject (first-hand if possible) so you can avoid spouting off with some of the factual inaccuracies I see above.
So go on, give it a try…you might just like it. What can be more fun that blowing perfectly good money out the end of a gun?
Kudos on the article Brett. Had wondered when I might see an article on gun ownership (and hopefully look forward to more in the future). Real men don’t avoid or run from issues some might find controversial.
I wasn’t too surprised to see the “gun article.” Afterall, guns are associated with manliness. But todays use of the word manliness is a lot different that it was 50 years ago. But you do have a responsibility nonetheless.
My dad was a farmer who kept a 12 gauge shotgun to protect us. He hid the gun from us kids. We grew up on a farm about 8-10 miles out of town from any life form. So calling the cops wasn’t an option. My dad was a family man, a mature man, and a great protector of his family. His main concern was farming and providing security for his entire family. He didn’t like guns—but as a man he knew he had to keep a shotgun for protection because we lived in a very remote location. We lived off a main highway so a lot of stragglers would come to our house looking for food or warmth or try to steal gas.
Today, kids carry guns just to be cool. Hence, they are just immature punks wanting to be men. Buying a shotgun serves what purpose other than to be cool and manly? None. Im willing to bet that many of you buy guns to be manly and less for protection.
Gangs, school kids, anyone can get their hands on any gun they want and kill others accidently or intentionally. Some rot behind prison bars and regret their mistakes.
The lesson to be learned: Guns only should be in the hands of “responsible, mature people.” Guns dont kill people. People kill people.
MY ADVICE: DONT BUY A GUN JUST BECAUSE YOU THINK ITS THE “MANLY THING” TO DO. POLICE ARE A PHONE CALL AWAY. LET THEM CARRY GUNS AND TAKE ON THE LIABILITY. IF YOU LIVE OUT IN THE WOODS WITH YOUR FAMILY FAR AWAY FROM CIVILIZATION THEN OWNING A GUN WOULD BE SENSIBLE WHEN IT IS LEARNED ON HOW TO RESPECT IT.
WOAH! I did NOT expect to see so many anti-gun comments. Weird.
Jon, author of the article, thank you for posting a very informative post. I’m bookmarking those sites too for reference.
This article didn’t make uncomfortable at all. I don’t understand why guns frighten people. Seems like ignorance to me. And let me say that I DID NOT grow up in a gun household, I’m not into hunting AT ALL (unless I’m eating it in some sort of Man survival/spiritual weekend), and don’t currently own a firearm.
More and more we’re becoming a GUN FEARING society. I think thats a big problem when criminals who obtain their guns illegally flaunt them around the streets. Fear breeds ignorance people. Of course statistics show that family members hurt themselves with guns. Its because the USA fears them so much. They’re “not for children” they say. Learn how to operate a gun, show your family, and there is no problem. In my girl’s Psychology class I learned that some African tribes show their children how to wield MACHETES around the time they learn to walk. The point of that particular class day was that we don’t give children enough credit when teaching them things. These children using knives as tools are RARELY harmed if at all.
I’d also like to point out the gun ban in England has only given birth a BIG knife problem.
@Michael Monte: LSD isn’t addictive so you’re never going to get robbed by someone looking for a fix of it. That being said, I get your point and agree with you.
Kunsunoke wrote:
As explained previously, the “legitimate reason” is actually a fundamental Constitutional right for American citizens. We don’t plan to change on your behalf, and we don’t owe you a reason or an explanation for our right to carry concealed.
The legitimate reason then is “because you can?” Respectfully I believe that a long barreled, inconcealable firearm is sufficient to maintain a very effective regulated militia. You are right, you don’t have to change for me, it would be appreciated if you did.
“Respectfully, you are looking at a pie in the sky. Criminalizing concealable weapons only ensures the forced unilateral disarmament of the law abiding. By contrast, criminals have absolutely no problem acquiring arms by black market sources or our local law enforcement officials (such as those in Trenton, NJ) – or making guns on their own if they’re desperate enough (as happened in Bouganville in Papua-New Guinea) – or through outright theft. When you don’t obey the law, you’re less bound by the laws of supply and demand.”
I know I am looking up there and oversimplifying. My point is that at some point in it’s lifespan, almost all illegal firearms were legal. Black market weapons were made legally in a factory, sold to a wholesaler, sold to a retailer, sold to an individual. After the individual has it, it could end up anywhere. Through black market selling by the person, or theft, or loss. If the pistol isn’t manufactured in the first place, it won’t end up in a criminal’s hands. I know this does nothing to the current excessive stock of pistols out their already, but it stops the growth. For weapons that are made that end up being sent to police units more security could be used.
Let there be an ownership mindset, with personal responsibility for each firearm that makes it out of the factory. Before leaving the factory do a ballistic test, store the information. Note the serial number of each weapon. When received by whoever receives firearms for the police, they become personally responsible for them. Inspect them, give them internal identification, sign them out meticulously when used by a patrolling officer. Maybe even put in RFID’s in a weapon. These steps, by the way, are less than the ones taken by the people who manage police fleets of P71 Crown Victorias.
Would it make firearms more expensive? Yes. Is that bad? I don’t think so.
“Suppose we were to extend your thought process to Canadian single-payer health care. Some of your citizens come down here for healthcare because they can’t get what they need with yours. In doing so they limit access of our own citizens to those same practitioners and clinics. So by your logic we have every right to tell you Canadians to dump your single payer system in favor of private health care that actually works, don’t we?”
I believe your example is poor. In your country healthcare is treated as a consumable, a product. Like soap. Under your example a Canadian who doesn’t like the free (and by free I mean he already payed for it with taxes) soap they get here, is willing to come to your country and put his money into your economy for your designer pretty smelling with moisturizers soap. It is not denying your citizens the ability to buy said super-soap.
Granted, it may increase the price of your surgery or whatever because demand is higher, but your country has chosen to make healthcare a private business, which means the goal (as with all business) is to make money.
“Or how about your incredibly permissive Canadian immigration policy – the one that ensures we have a never-ending stream of border-jumping Wahhabist terrorists to deal with here. Should we interfere with that?”
I assure you that this problem is not as big as you think it is, and it is being improved. We had a government that was too open to refugee claimants. Our current government are a bunch of assholes (I voted for them, think they are the best for now, but I still think they are assholes) that are significantly more conservative and more interested in security spending.
“You Canadians never tire of your own sense of intellectual superiority, but for us, it’s long since become annoying. Seriously, mind your own business.”
I apologize if I come off as attempting to be intellectually superior. I know I’m not superior, the reason we incorrectly give off that vibe is that we know so much more about you than you do about us. You’ve got more people, more influence, more power and more money. Just as an average small town person from Montana knows more about New York and New Yorkers than average New Yorker knows about that same small town in Montana and it’s people. That same person in a small town is still very much effected by the actions that those on Wall Street take.
Even if you don’t agree with our meddling (which, let’s be honest, has little to no effect) can you understand why we care and want to have an influence? Ultimately it is manly to be involved in issues that effect you. From our point of view, this is protecting our family.
Nice reference to health care and RFIDs in guns. Maybe if we make guns as expensive as medical insurance so that normal people can’t afford them anymore, we can get the government to give us our guns and our medicine. I’m sure that would be a great way to prevent a tyrannical leader from taking advantage of the masses….
Very informative article! My wife and I have spoken about purchasing a gun for personal defense for some time now. We live in a rural area, and while I am very much for sensible gun control, we are not guaranteed a 5 minute response by police, and additionally, we keep livestock and do have the occasional coyote and or mountain lion come through that endangers our animals.
I especially appreciated the models of shotgun you’ve suggested–I had no idea they were so affordable.
@Nick (comment 128): First of all, thanks for the reply.
Concerning the Gandhi quote:
While I know this is not the best of his quotes in order to illustrate what I mean, it should do the trick:
“Nonviolence is the greatest force at the disposal of mankind. It is mightier than the mightiest weapon of destruction devised by the ingenuity of man.”
Hence, non-violence (not picking up a weapon at all out of conviction) is the best (“mightiest”) option.
Not picking up a gun just because one is afraid of it is wrong. I agree on that one. However, this is still different from not picking up a gun because one is convinced of non-violence being an even better option than resorting to violence:
“Nonviolence and cowardice are contradictory terms. Nonviolence is the greatest virtue, cowardice the greatest vice.”
-> Someone who rejects to pick up a gun for the right reason is *not* a coward.
Apart from this, I’ve also lived in different countries and cultures (albeit not because I find it amusing as such but because of a keen interest in foreign cultures and languages) where private gun ownership is about as difficult as in my home country, however, I never felt the urge to own a gun in a single one of those countries.
While I admit that the countries I’ve been to so far are probably to be considered safer than your current residence, I sincerely wonder why you are still there in the first place.
While most of the people in this country won’t be able to just move to another country, apparently you are, so why don’t you? I respect your interest in foreign cultures, but it is obvious that you are concerned about your and your wife’s security in that country, so why expose both her and yourself to the risk? You could still move to a country where you *are* allowed to wake up with a gun next to you after all… *
No offence meant! I do *not* try to tell you how to live your life (in case that’s how it sounds); I’m just curious.
Best regards,
Chris
P.S.: * and please imagine you *had* had a weapon lying on your bedside table the very night you were stolen from. If their intention had been to harm you, you didn’t even hear the thieves, so if anything, *they* might have picked up *your* gun. If it was just one or two (unarmed), you might have stood a chance, but having themselves armed with your gun, that would have been a different story.
P.P.S.: But okay, I realise there’s an awful lot of “ifs” in that assumption… forget about it, just thinking out loud, sorry. I *am* of course glad noone was harmed, so I’ll leave it at that.
@ Jimmy
Ok so the article doesnt mention anything about a firearm boosting your self esteem or your manliness. its simply to provide readers with some insight towards a good home defense weapon–which every man should own in order to defend his family and loved ones–which is a perfectly manly endeavor.
and to everyone else
secondly: my only disagreement with the article is that while revolvers are excellent weapons and are in no doubt good for home defense, they are not as safe as a semi automatic pistol. they arent as safe in that any young child who has seen any cowboy movie, or any movie with a gun in it for that matter, can figure out how to pull the hammer back and bang. but with a semi automatic handgun it requires more coordination to rack the slide, and most children wont be able to figure that out on their own. i personally am a fan of the Glock
Wow, well I knew there would be a lot of responses, but it always surprises me when I see the sheer number. First, in defense of the blog owners, the post is called “The Best Guns for Home Defense”, not “The Best Way to Defend One’s Home”. If the post WERE titled in the latter, I’d understand some of the uproar, however, being that the post is titled in the former, then one should take it as it is: if one wants to defend one’s home with a firearm, here are some appropriate choices.
As a woman, oldest of four children, who grew up in a home that had at least one of all of the choices (plus some hunting rifles and BB style as well!), I think that there can never be too much stress placed on proper keeping and storage of firearms, as well as proper training of ALL household members. I do think that this post could have touched MORE on safety and storage (maybe some links or pictures?), as well as some additional information about the weapons that were listed. (For example, how accurate said weapon is is all fine and good, but the additional fact that a shotgun is LESS likely to go through your neighbor’s home than either of the other choices is also a contributing factor toward the “better” of the shotgun over the handgun.)
All in all, I think that this was a pretty well-thought-out post, and as for it being on the “Manliness” site, I have to say that FOR THE PERSON WHO CHOOSES TO OWN A FIREARM FOR HOME DEFENSE, it is CERTAINLY manly to know your best options. As with everything else in this world, certain choices will not be for everyone, HOWEVER, it has always been my opinion that the manliest men know all they can know about that which interests them. Nice work!
Why is it that the anti-gun foreigners all seem to be from countries that have difficulties every time Jerry has a bad day?
Great post Brett! Wow, thats a lot of comments! I fought my way through the first half and somebody covered all of the points I’m about to make. For those coming in on the end, here’s a recap in no particular order. (FYI I’m not a police officer or a lawyer)
1. A gun is a tool. (A man can also get killed with a shovel.)
2. The only useful gun is a loaded one.
3. The only useful gun is the one you have with you.
4. Be in control of the gun. (Don’t let anybody else have it!)
5. Teach your kids about guns-I do. I could name a dozen times in my life when I saw someone unfamiliar with guns put themselves or others in danger through their ignorance.
6. The smaller the gun, the more practice you need with it.
7. The cheaper the ammo, the more you practice. Want real cheap practice? Buy a BB gun like your real one and practice in the basement. Anything is better than nothing.
8. In a crisis situation, don’t put your hand on the gun unless you are prepared to use it. Use it when you or a family members life is in danger. Use it to escape.
9. This is one of my pet peeves. Everyone buying their first gun for defense should get a rabbit with it. Take the rabbit out in the back yard and shoot it. (If you want to be sincere-eat the rabbit.) That is just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to shooting a man.
Hope this helps somebody.
Jack and to a few others. Please read……
You are right. Fear breeds ignorance. Are you afraid someone is going to break into your house and rob you? Are you afraid some guy is going to walk into your house wearing a ski mask and hold you up? Are you afraid of someone raping your family member? The reason people carry guns for protection is due to FEAR. People are afraid of some lunatic harming their family. Thats understandable. But the chances of that happening are lot less slim then getting hurt in a car accident or taking a nose dive in a plane.
I am a lot older then the rest of you and no one has ever broken into my residence. And it will probably never happen. You guys are paranoid about protecting your family….for what reason? The boogie man will get your family if it wants to get your family. Criminals are smart. Guns and all kinds of protections are not neccesary against the average criminal. Thats the hard part to swallow.
When my car was stolen I had every protection factor on that car—and it still got stolen! My best friend was murdered in cold-blood and his shotgun didnt do him a lot of good. He shot it out with the intruder as well. But he is still dead. Maybe secure proofing his home would have been a better option?
Im NOT afraid of guns. I grew up with them. We hunted with friends. My dad used his for protection only. It was a way off life. Rural living is different than urban living. GUNS ARE ACCEPTED AND A WAY OF LIFE IN RURAL AREAS. We shot at clay pigeons…lol.
But you have to understand—we are dealing with the internet with young guys who dont know what the hell they are doing. These young guys want to go out, buy a gun, and to be manly and to protect their family. I THINK A GUARD DOG, A TASER, and secure proofing your home is a better option. A taser will bring a 300 lb man to his knees. Those 3 things is all you need for protection..
Plus you dont have to worry about lawsuits flying everywhere. Carrying a gun and shooting it comes with risks and it may save your life someday. But, the chances of someone harming your family or robbing you in the streets(unless you live in Bronx, NYC) its chances of happening are SLIM TO NONE. I might as well wear a parachute everytime i board a plane.
Educating kids on guns is far manlier then owning a gun. Most young men these days cant even SUPPORT A FAMILY much less protect one.. Young men these days should go out and get a job. Thats a more viable option then buying a gun for protection.
My two cents.
Former gun owner.
Good article. Controversial? Sure. But it’s on point. Defending one’s family is manly. In places where firearms are legal, they should be considered rationally. Where they are not legal, this article means nothing to those readers.
That said, I wish there had been a section on gun storage, and I was disappointed that the sections on pistols didn’t mention hollow-point rounds, which dramatically increase one-shot-drop rates and reduce over-penetration.
As an American living abroad I would like to clear things up for the foreign readers. I have noticed here that many people are misinformed when it comes to gun control in the United States. Many seem to believe that there is next to no gun control and that anyone can purchase a gun at anytime. This is not true. Everyone is required to go through a background check and there are many things that disqualify you from ever purchasing a gun. It may be EASIER to legally own a gun in the US than it is in some other countries, but that does not mean that anyone with $500 and a history of violence can run to the store and come home that day with a shotgun.
Also, people here are told that there are 200 million guns in the US for 300 million people, which makes people think that nearly every adult owns a gun. The fact is that most gun owners own multiple guns, so the number of gun owners is much smaller than many believe.
By the way, the majority of gun violence in the US occurs in the major cities like New York or LA, yet the majority of LEGALLY owned guns exist outside of the major cities. Even in places like Australia, where gun restrictions are more strict, people still get murdered everyday. The problem is with illegally owned guns. Plain and simple.
I can assure you that having a gun available for use has nothing to do with manliness. Or art. It has everything to do with survival. The brute criminal animal threatening my life or a loved ones life has no appreciation for the ‘civility’ or ‘refinement’ from barbarity our continental friends (or is it Canada?) take pains to convey.
You don’t bring a knife to a gunfight. You don’t neglect protecting things you value. The raw, ugly reality of evil is that either you are a victim or an attempted victim.
The discussion of ‘appropriate’ or ’sensible’ firearms is stupid, as well. Any firearm, even the lowly .22LR can be (and is) in the commission of homicides every day. I refuse to permit anyone the authority to judge a firearm that I own as ‘good’ or ‘bad’. If I were bad, all guns in my possession would be lethal. Since I am law abiding, the guns in my possession are more benign than an garden shovel.
Civilization is a thin veneer. Anyone placing faith in civilization to self-regulate for an extended length of time is stupidly naive or dangerously miscalculating.
Charles wrote:
“The legitimate reason then is “because you can?”“
Yes, in addition to all the other reasons that have been posted throughout this thread – sporting use, hunting, self defense.
“Respectfully I believe that a long barreled, inconcealable firearm is sufficient to maintain a very effective regulated militia.”
You must have missed my earlier post. The Founders knew that the People had the Right to Bear Arms. The militia would benefit as a result, but that was not the reason for the Second Amendment. The Second reserves the fundamental right of citizens to take arms against their government should it become tyrannical. Concealed carry
“You are right, you don’t have to change for me, it would be appreciated if you did.”
Sorry, I’m not selling my Sig, or my Glock, or my Marlin for the benefit of US-Canada relations.
“I know I am looking up there and oversimplifying. My point is that at some point in it’s lifespan, almost all illegal firearms were legal.”
Not always. The National Firearms Act has been in place for over fifty years, and somehow the Crips and the Bloods, Latin Kings, etc. still manage to get their hands on fully-automatic rifles – usually AK-47s – for their drivebys.
“Black market weapons were made legally in a factory, sold to a wholesaler, sold to a retailer, sold to an individual. After the individual has it, it could end up anywhere. Through black market selling by the person, or theft, or loss.”
Not always made legally, not always sold legally either.
You’re also forgetting the plethora of former east bloc weapons, most of which are made overseas & sold to the highest bidder.
You do understand it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to make an AK-47, don’t you?
“If the pistol isn’t manufactured in the first place, it won’t end up in a criminal’s hands. I know this does nothing to the current excessive stock of pistols out their already, but it stops the growth. For weapons that are made that end up being sent to police units more security could be used.”
You’re missing the point. We keep weapons not only to protect ourselves from criminals but also as a balance against tyranny.
“Let there be an ownership mindset, with personal responsibility for each firearm that makes it out of the factory. (SNIP)
Would it make firearms more expensive? Yes. Is that bad? I don’t think so.”
So firearms are then to be only for the wealthy or for the elite? I’m sure that’s fine for Canada. Not for us.
“I believe your example is poor. In your country healthcare is treated as a consumable, a product. (snip).
You’re missing the point here as well. This is about Canadians thinking they have a right to tell Americans how they should live. If we were to tell you up in Canada how to live your life, would you not resent it? Or are you so used to taking crap from your own government that you have ceased to care?
“I apologize if I come off as attempting to be intellectually superior. I know I’m not superior, the reason we incorrectly give off that vibe is that we know so much more about you than you do about us.”
Funny, in 20+ years of living next to the border I met some pretty ignorant people from your country. Folks that really, honestly don’t know jack about how we live in the United States, and yet think that everything we do ought to emulate what goes on in Canada. I still meet those people as I travel through Ontario and Quebec.
“Even if you don’t agree with our meddling (which, let’s be honest, has little to no effect) can you understand why we care and want to have an influence?”
No. But that may have to do with the respective difference between our cultures. We’re pretty self-reliant here, and we tend to mind our own business. We also do not appreciate others trying to mind ours. It was one of the reasons we had a rebellion against Great Britain.
“Ultimately it is manly to be involved in issues that effect you. From our point of view, this is protecting our family.”
Exercising my Second Amendment rights to protect my family and others from tyranny is MY priority. You suggesting that I give up those rights won’t make you safer, but will make my family less safe and my government more prone to abuse of its citizens.
I’ll have to pass.
I see some flaws in arguments that misinterpret what a militia is. A militia is a group of folks who have guns who get together to defend their country when the military isn’t cutting it. They’re not paid, they supply their own weapons and ammo, and they’re a last-ditch effort. They’re not the National Guard, just regular Joes with their deer rifles and shotguns and handguns in a desperate last bid to drive off commies, redcoats, the Terrible Scourge of Rickets, corn smut, whatever the thing is that overwhelmed the military. They’re there to get bits of high speed metal whizzing about in the general direction of the Bad Guys.
So when the Swiss Guard finally overwhelm American forces and invade our land, I hope my neighbors and I will be out there with our harquebuses, howdah pistols, and M1911A1s plugging away at anything in an elaborately plumed silly helmet and halberd.
I think instead of guns we should throw candy, rainbows, and unicorns at the 350 lb thug trying to strip us of our humanity. Then when he sees that our anti-gun heart is pure and true, he’ll forget all his selfish intentions. Then we’ll sit down together and figure out a solution to world hunger and global warming. Then we can ride the hybrid train, decorated with co-exist and “hope” bumperstickers, back to imagination-land. Then we’ll live happily forever after (on account of the socialized national healthcare plans) in our eco-friendly cities powered by the energy harvested from the pro-choice abortion powerplants.
Some good information there, Brett.
Everyone’s situation is different, and if people are even in a position to consider a firearm in their home, they should be as knowledgeable and well-trained as is possible. So providing information is critical and I thank you for helping to educate the public about these tools.
I thought you intentionally made the .45 caliber listed as #8 on the list with the smiley face, but then realized it probably did so automatically.
I think gambling has killed more families than guns, so if we’re going to get all morally offended about content I’ll choose that.
I believe that there are no higher duties of a man than those of protecting his family’s lives and liberty. Protecting their lives means making good safety decisions, as well as being prepared to meet the threats of those who would harm them. Protecting their liberty is all about doing whatever you can to make sure your offspring enjoy more liberty than you did yourself. In the modern age of the Administrative State, sometimes governments force us into making hard decisions about our family’s protection, both of their lives and of their liberty. For instance, here in the US, many states have laws against carrying loaded firearms in a vehicle. However, when I am on a trip with my family, especially in an unfamiliar area, I always like to be armed. I generally always have a loaded pistol in the car if I go on a trip with my family, whether it is illegal or not… I simply love my family and my life more than I fear the coercive power of the state. The low probability of getting caught multiplied by the burden of the penalty is outweighed by the magnitude of how terrible it would be for someone to attack my family with me not being able to do anything about it.
While I fully support people in countries with strict gun laws engaging in a little civil disobedience and owning a gun anyway, I cannot blame those who choose not to. You have to engage in a balancing of the risks to your family… the risk from the government punishing you for breaking the law versus the risk of needing to defend your family and yourself. That risk calculus is definitely different in different countries, where you would be more likely to get caught and the penalties are harsher. You can’t do much to protect and provide for your family when you’re in the clinker, after all.
Another thing to think about is protecting the liberty of future generations. I believe that here in the US, owning a rifle AND BEING PROFICIENT IN ITS USE is an effective way to do this. The biggest threat to liberty is always posed by an over-powerful government at home. An armed populace is a good check against this. Once again, the situation may be different in other countries, where perhaps there is no armed populace, and any attempt to form one would be futile. I believe the best and most effective thing you can do to protect the liberty of future generations, no matter what country you are in, is to be active and involved in the political process. But in the event that this fails and tyranny reigns (as it has several times in the past century in countries not so dissimilar from those we all live in today), it is always a good idea to have a backup plan. It is no secret that our nation was able to win its independence largely because we were a nation of riflemen. As we lose this heritage, and the values of independence and self-reliance that it fosters, we will also lose more of our precious liberty.
I absolutely love the argument of “I never felt the need to own a gun”. Why is that a basis for restricting someone else’s right to own one? If I own several guns (and I do), and I’ve never shot anyone or done anything illegal with my guns, then why is someone else’s irrational fear that these things can happen now affecting my ability to own a gun (even if I’m not doing any of those things).
Fear of the unknown is a very bad thing. Its what drives prejudice, bigotry, and irrational fear of technology. Its the same fear of guns.
I would venture to guess that not one person who as commented as to how bad guns are has even a basic education at all about guns and most likely has never handled or shot one. You might have read tons of statistics, but couldn’t identify more than 2 parts on any gun. I would bet that the majority of people who are so upset about this article got most of their information about guns from the internet or TV/movies.
That’s the same thing as me bashing (insert the name of your home nation’s favorite food) for no reason other than “I’ve heard bad stuff about it”.
Fear of getting robbed is not an irrational fear. I personally know what it feels like as I have been the victim of robbery. I read multiple sources of news where folks get robbed, killed, raped, etc… in their homes because they are not armed. Buying the proper tools to prevent this from happening is not irrational fear – its preparedness.
Its the same reason I have a storm shelter and I live in the Midwest part of the US (tornado alley). I’ve never personally seen a tornado in person, so does that make my fear of tornadoes irrational? No. Does it make my purchase of a tornado shelter stupid? No – it means I’m doing the “Manly” thing by protecting my family – and the storm shelter is no different than the gun in that it is a tool. Period.
And the argument about “my city/state/country has good gun-control laws, but the reason for so much gun crime here is because of guns coming from your city/state/country” is absolutely bogus. Show me one shred of proof that US guns are ending up in foreign countries and that they make up more of the percentage of overall weapons used in a crime than from sources outside of the US and I’ll believe it. I’ve looked – and guess what? There are no legit sources of any statistics showing that. Until then, that is nothing more than a lie and that is a sign of an irrational fear of the unknown.
Tell me I’m wrong. C’mon people who fear guns – show me you know the first thing about the very thing you fear enough to bash an article on the internet.
You english folk, well lets just say your cheese fell off your cracker long ago….
I feel bad for those of you who want to stand up for your rights. You dingbat anti-gun folk have the same reasoning as Obama… Make laws that wont stop anyone but the law abiding.
Did I lose you? Here let me dumb it down a bit…. I make a Law banning mosquitos. Why? they are mean scary and noone likes them… Will it stop the mosquitos? naaa….
Well I am glad to say if someone wants to break into my home or tries to harm me or an innocent individual, that person will know what a .40 slug feels like. You wont see me be a victim of crime… Crime will be my victim… For you anti’s Go hide and lock your doors… We don’t want you getting our streets full of your bull shit… Good luck you sheeple… the wolves prey on the weak and un-armed…
In the end, Manliness is about being competent in many things. To know how to use a firearm is something every man should learn how to do. I have worked as a photographer and journalist in some of the most “interesting” places in the world. Places where having and knowing how to use a gun and knife is essential. In today’s society men have become shadows of the useful beings they used to be. I equate this to changing a tire or actually building something with your hands. I was once driving in California and saw this family stuck on the road with a flat tire. Wife and two kids in the back as it was pouring rain. They had been waiting for 4 hours for someone to drive by. The husband was trying to get a signal so he could call triple A. The guy did not even know that he had a jack. I stopped and ended up changing his tire. In the city I am sure that guy is quite competent but step away from the protection of that setting and … a man makes sure that he has the skills to protect his family in whatever environment. I am not advocating gun ownership, I am advocating gun education.
I am blown away by the immature and misinformed responses to this article.
- Obviously, if owning a gun is illegal in your area, then this article doesn’t apply to your situation.
- If you are unsafe and leave your gun accessible to children, then it’s your own !@#$ fault if their brains end up on the wall.
- You’re not more likely to get shot if you have a gun in your house, if you do then they already had a gun and meant to use it – or you’ve done a piss-poor job of being a good husband, and you had it coming anyway.
This article isn’t advocating gun-ownership to compensate for insecurity. It’s informational and presents an entry-level discussion regarding the broad topic of firearms for home-defense. It’s unbelievable to see how reactionary some people are. Some of you guys really need to chill out!
If you’re happy with the laws where you live, great! But don’t try to force others to buy the line that guns are evil. Man… I’ve never been happier to live in Texas!!
C’mon people, guns don’t kill people. Guns are a tool, plain and simple. And more than that, guns are a great leveler. They put an old granny on the same playing field as the thug that wishes to mug her. No other tool has that power. Sure guns can be abused. But guns are also necessary to the freedom we enjoy. If only the government can have guns, then the people can’t protect their own freedoms. Armed citizens ensure that government doesn’t overstep it’s bounds. That’s the reason for the 2nd Amendment, to protect us from government.
I find the “gun-toting gangsters” scenario hard to swallow as a defense of gun ownership. If these “gun toting gansters” break into your house, they’re after your belongings, cash, etc. When’s the last time you heard of a criminal breaking into someone’s house solely for the purpose of assaulting/raping the inhabitants? Drawing a gun on an armed criminal makes it that much more likely that someone is going to get killed. Just give them what they want. Belongings can be replaced. Lives, yours or theirs, cannot.
I also found this article kind of uncomfortable. I like your posts, usually, but this isn’t in the tone of the previous, high-quality articles I subscribe to this blog for.
It’s certainly not classy.
Just something to think about when shopping for a defensive gun. In the current litigious, fearful, firearms averse climate in the US, it may be useful to consider what calibers of ammunition are likely to be available or will be allowed to remain available, or will be likely to be available in a national or regional emergency. In all likelihood whatever the police and military are using currently. That means: 12ga buck, and 9mm, maybe .45, maybe .38. Most worldwide military and police forces have dropped all but the 9mm handgun for all but special operations. Not talking about rifle calibers here. Older and specialty calibers such as .38, .357mag, .45ACP, .40, .44mag, .380, .32, .25, even such sporting loads like .22, 20ga, 16ga, 28ga. are going to be the first to be sold out, the last to stock and the most likely to be abandoned by suppliers. Just the recent Obama ammo scare illustrates the point. 12ga and 9mm were scarce due to hoarders, the others were non-existent for two months. All practice ammunition disappeared. The gun is no good if there’s no ammunition.
I learned to shoot when I was about 8 or 9. In the early 60s the NRA actually ran a Saturday afternoon 30 minute per episode, about 8 episodes, gun safety series on local TV. It was specifically aimed at the younger audience. No way it could be shown today. They thought teaching youth respect for a firearm was a civic duty. My dad made me sit down and watch every episode before we ever went out to the range. I had to know that you always knew where the muzzle was pointed, that you never pointed it at anyone, the load state of the gun, how to safely inspect a gun to make sure it was unloaded and safe. how to safely carry a rifle. Only point it at a legitimate target and know what is beyond. Fire at safe targets. Only then did Dad and my uncle take me out to the Izaak Walton range to shoot the .22 single shot rifle I still have today. To this day those rules stick. Even seeing a child carelessly swinging around a toy makes me antsy. Gun safety training should start as early as possible.
Those who do not understand the need to own a firearm for protection have clearly never been victimized by a stronger foe. Ask a rape victim (male or female) if they wished they would have had a gun when the rapist(s) were kicking in their front door and get back to me with their answer.
You ninnies who insist on living your lives with your heads in the sand pretending bad things will never happen to you are fools. Statistically, you’ll probably not be a victim of a violent crime in your lifetime. However, if you are unlucky enough to become one, remember how you loathed this article and those who believe firearms for personal protection are a wonderful thing. And be sure to think about how much you wished you had one to defend yourself while you’re being attacked.
I deal with far too many people who are victims of violent crime to pretend “if all guns were outlawed, everything would be just fine”.
@ AresV- comments like yours are what make it really difficult for me to take your argument seriously. Fahad’s opinion on the matter is much more complex than simply being less manly than you- it’s a very emotional issue for everyone involved, and a large part of it is simply from the cultural viewpoints we all grew up with.
A second comment or two. First. In the 18th century, “a well regulated militia” meant they
(and “they” were white, property owning, registered voting men. By legal definition.) knew the rudiments of military drill and could be expected to have a firearm that used the standard military ammunition.
Second, the right to keep and bear arms has historically been the final defense of the citizenry against a tyrannical government or an invader.
It’s an easy argument. If an intruder comes into my home who has a gun, if I also have a gun I stand a good chance of protecting my family and killing the bastard.
If an intruder comes into my home who does NOT have a gun, I stand a GREAT chance of protecting my family and killing the bastard.
Either way, I like my odds much better if I have a gun at my disposal.
@ High Flight
If someone breaks into my home and endangers my wife and children, their life is not something I’m worried about.
Q. Why carry a gun?
A. Cops are too heavy
N wrote
“I find the “gun-toting gangsters” scenario hard to swallow as a defense of gun ownership. If these “gun toting gansters” break into your house, they’re after your belongings, cash, etc. When’s the last time you heard of a criminal breaking into someone’s house solely for the purpose of assaulting/raping the inhabitants?”
Wow. That has to be some of the most flawed logic we’ve heard yet in this discussion.
So predatory males never, ever invade houses and apartments looking for women to rape, right? WTF planet do you live on? That happens on a nightly basis in Filthadelphia. We have illegal alien scum from Mexico who think nothing of trying to abduct our underage daughters, mainly because that’s a fine and dandy ‘romantic’ thing to do in their pueblo back home.
And even if what you said was true we have a right as citizens to defend our property (unless we live in New Orleans). With deadly force, if need be. It’s called Castle Doctrine.
“Drawing a gun on an armed criminal makes it that much more likely that someone is going to get killed.”
Exactly. The criminal scumbag is much more likely to be killed. Which, really, is just tough shit for them, but everyone makes choices in this world. Better them than my family members.
“Just give them what they want. Belongings can be replaced. Lives, yours or theirs, cannot.”
Again, logic is absent here.
Dead men tell no tales. Belongings can be taken, along with lives.
Or hadn’t you thought of that?
To use a parable, Willie the Meth Head has absolutely no reason to leave me alive to be a witness against him in court. He’s already broken the law at least once, probably multiple times. What’s one more time to him if it takes his probability for detection down?
Policies to give the dirtbags what they want got us three thousand people in body bags on 9/11.
It’s time you bedwetting types joined us in the real world.
Firearms ownership is not just for men. It’s also for women who don’t want to be victimized.
There is no better means for women to defend themselves in public than the concealed carry pistol with hollow-point bullets. Guns provide them with an instant means for redistributing the balance of force used against them, in their favor.
For proof, look no further than to the city of Orlando, Florida, which had suffered a wave of high-profile sexual assaults during the 80’s. Despite every effort on the part of police to thwart the predator-scumbags, the rapes were still occurring. In desperation, or perhaps in recognition of the fact that they couldn’t be everywhere at once, the police decided to do something contrary – they offered women training in the use of handguns. After the training sessions, there were a number of assailants that ended up with holes in them, and subsequently the rate of rapes plummeted in Orlando.
This is something you pansy-ass bedwetting types never seem to think about at all. I find it ironic that you claim to be in favor of women’s rights and women’s empowerment, and yet you oppose something so empowering for them.
I like all the “you’se a bedwetting pansy” remarks from all the cool people who own guns. But there are a few problems I’m having with this. My main problem is, what are you going to do when there’s a burglar in the house and you’ve fired your Pump Shotgun at his face? How are you going to explain all those bits of brain and shards of skull in your livingroom to the police (or your kids, for that matter). That’s something you can’t train, even if you train hard enough to know how to safely handle weapons, a shotgun will still do an insane amount of damage. How is your wife going to react when a rapist comes up, she tried to shoot him, but the jerk just grabbed the gun out of her hand? How are you going to react when your kid just found your guns and tried to show off at school and wastes his best friend? How are you going to react when the burglar you just shot turns out to be your 16 year old daughter who sneaked out to go on date? I know I may sound cruel and gruesome, but let’s face it: once you own a gun, these are serious things you need to worry about. These are some of the most common mistakes people make with guns.
And I don’t believe you need guns for protection, I’ve lived in pretty crappy places with loads of crime and violence. I even work in the most criminal city of my country and I have never needed to use violence to “protect” anything or anyone, nor have I ever comprimized the safety of my wife.
I think this article is entirely appropriate for the blog. I do not think that we should strip down the Internet to match the ‘lowest common denominator’ of what is legal in every country. If I subscribe to a blog that is based in another country, then I expect to read things that are at least unusual, and probably either illegal or ‘immoral’ by my standards. That is one reason to subscribe..to get a wider view, not to impose my views on others.
For myself, I live in the American Midwest and was raised around guns. I’ve used guns since I was about 6. Took lessons at the local YMCA and with the Boy Scouts. The majority of families that are in my circle of acquaintance either have guns, or have access to them via relatives. To say that you don’t need something because you’ve never used it is a red herring. No one on this list has used their life insurance policy yet
. Should add that I am a ‘computer geek’ and do not move in the ‘good old boy/red neck’ circle.
“The best weapon for home defense is a phone. If bad people try to get in: call the cops. ”
Are you kidding me?
By the time police arrive the event would be over. They would be on the scene just in time to write the reports. As a human being it is OUR responsiblity to take care of ourselves. Quit acting like sheep, nut up and act like a man.
Let’s clear this up once and for all for the naive fools who think the police are there to protect them. Wrong. If an individual or a group of people break in your home, especially at night, by the time the police arrive you (and/or your family) will either be dead or robbed and the intruders will be gone. The police will simply be there to document what ALREADY HAPPENED. If you’re willing to accept the consequences of your inaction or lack of preparation (ie., defending yourself and/or your family) – FINE. However, there are some people – like me – who are not going to allow myself or my family to be robbed or worse in our own home by the naive and quaint (albeit ignorant) notion that the police will protect us. Ain’t gonna happen folks. Wake up.
Pieter,
@”How are you going to explain all those bits of brain and shards of skull in your livingroom to the police (or your kids, for that matter).”
It seems if he was a burglar and pieces of his brain are splatter all over the living room, the explination would be self evident…don’t you think?
@ “How is your wife going to react when a rapist comes up, she tried to shoot him, but the jerk just grabbed the gun out of her hand?”
I guess it is much better for you if she is simply raped, not being able to protect herself….Thats a really manly way to protect women and children. Secondly, using your imagination doesn’t serve you well. Despite what you might have seen in the spaghetti westerns, good luck pulling the gun out of my wife’s hand…she is not a week or feeble women, though she is European, she would not hesitate to pull the trigger.
@ “How are you going to react when your kid just found your guns and tried to show off at school and wastes his best friend?” “How are you going to react when the burglar you just shot turns out to be your 16 year old daughter who sneaked out to go on date?”
You say when…because I guess it happens all the time right? Your full of it! Beside my children home school and gun safety and proficiency is a mandatory course… And my Daughters are involved in courtships, not dating.
@ “These are some of the most common mistakes people make with guns.”
I thought the most common mistake was not having you firearm loaded or readily accessible at the moment you really need it. You make Can you back up your assertion that these are the most common mistakes?
@ “And I don’t believe you need guns for protection, I’ve lived in pretty crappy places with loads of crime and violence. I even work in the most criminal city of my country and I have never needed to use violence to “protect” anything or anyone, nor have I ever comprimized the safety of my wife.”
Good for you, but that is not the only reason I keep guns. Individual liberty is why America is free and why her men and their families are strong. We are not the weak and feeble children of the State. We do not need the State to father us, feed us, clothe us, and micro manage every aspect of my life. Statism is a crutch for weak and ineffectual men who turn out to be nothing more than the minted coins of socialist collectivism. I carry a gun because I prefer to protect my family and property. I enjoy hunting and gathering my own food. Perhaps, even more important I own weapons because I value my own autonomy and it is my individual right to do so. Autonomy from the Parenthood of the state means that I am all grown up, and do not need the state or anyone else to rub powder my rump and wipe our nose. Europeans move almost immediately from monarchy to statistism, so I can see why most of the Europeans on the forum just wouldn’t understand. I’ll end with an appropriate quote from the greek statist Plato which really sums up what happend to the concept of individual liberty in Europe.
“For if there exist laws under which men have been reared up and … so that there exists no recollection or report of their having been different from what they now are, then the whole soul is forbidden by reverence and fear to alter any of the things established of old.” Plato, The Laws, Book VII § 797 E
‘But you were pretty generous in giving shotguns a 4/5 for ease of use. Have you ever tried to turn around in a hallway while holding a shotgun in any kind of ready position? Or even turning a corner? You have to really practice those moves to avoid being clumsy.’
Do you really wander around your house practicing how to leap out at those darned gun totin’ outlaws without knocking the ornaments of the mantlepiece? Laughland, you are laughable. Grow up and get a real hobby, and leave guns for their rightful purpose.
I love the attitude that guns simply have NO place whatsoever in civilian hands in a civilized society. People with this view place themselves entirely at the mercy of others. In a situation where things fall apart, these people are quite simply the most likely to be naturally selected out of the gene pool.
Todd said:
“Criminals are smart”. That proves beyond all doubt that he doesn’t know what he is talking about, and reason to discount every other word he said.
Todd also said:
“Educating kids on guns is far manlier then owning a gun”.
False dichotomy logical error. They are not mutually exclusive. They are both very manly, and both very important. Abdication of your duty to provide the *best possible* defense for your family is an un-manly act.
The extreme ignorance of facts displayed by Pieter is just astounding to me:
“How are you going to react when your kid just found your guns and tried to show off at school and wastes his best friend?”
Wouldn’t happen in a million years. The kiddos are well-taught and well-trained from a young age that they don’t touch it without an adult present. They know I’ll let them shoot a gun whenever they want to, and that they’d get the butt whoopin of their lives if they touch a gun without authorization, let alone take it to school, let alone violate the fundamental safety rules they’ve been taught lo, these many years. What you describe is frankly, absolutely impossible unless you’re some libtard moron who neglects his duty to teach kids firearm safety rules. Besides, when the kiddos are little, the guns are locked and inaccessible – completely.
“How are you going to react when the burglar you just shot turns out to be your 16 year old daughter who sneaked out to go on date?”
Also wouldn’t happen in a million years. Any fool knows that one of the four basic rules of gun safety is “know your target and what is behind it”. You just simply never shoot at something that you’re not 1,000% aware of exactly what it is, and whether it presents a direct, imminent threat to your life or limb. An impossibility. Again, unless you’re a foolish libtard who doesn’t know and implement basic firearm safety rules.
“And I don’t believe you need guns for protection, I’ve lived in pretty crappy places with loads of crime and violence. I even work in the most criminal city of my country and I have never needed to use violence to “protect” anything or anyone, nor have I ever comprimized the safety of my wife.”
Logical error. The plural of anecdote is not “data”. Just because it didn’t happen to you, doesn’t mean that it doesn’t happen to a lot of people, day in, day out, week in, week out, year in, year out. There are 1.5-2.0 million uses per year of a gun in self-defense in the USA. In the vast majority of cases, a shot need never be fired to effectuate the desired result (the violent criminal turns tail an runs).
“How is your wife going to react when a rapist comes up, she tried to shoot him, but the jerk just grabbed the gun out of her hand?”
Also would never happen in a million years. If the wife isn’t TRAINED on retention, then of course she would never try to implement that particular tool for self-defense. Guns are NOT for everyone, and there are some women who are simply too dainty, either physicall or mindset-wise, to utilize a gun effectively. Guns are not for them. For the woman who trains, knows her gun, knows how to draw and fire quickly and effectively, knows when to run away versus when to confront, and knows retention techniques, and has some strength and stamina to back up all the training – these type woman are fully capable of using a gun and should do so if they would like to.
man, the “bedwetting pansy” comments really help drive your points home, don’t they. whatever, I’m secure enough to know that I’m still a man despite not having a gun. If that’s what makes you feel like a man, good for you.
@Todd
“You are right. Fear breeds ignorance. Are you afraid someone is going to break into your house and rob you? Are you afraid some guy is going to walk into your house wearing a ski mask and hold you up? Are you afraid of someone raping your family member? The reason people carry guns for protection is due to FEAR. People are afraid of some lunatic harming their family. Thats understandable. But the chances of that happening are lot less slim then getting hurt in a car accident or taking a nose dive in a plane.”
Its not necessarily fear, but a sense of preparedness. And regarding the car accident or plane crash thing I think it depends on the neighborhood you live in. I’ve always lived in gang territory and like I said these gangs flaunting their pieces is not uncommon. I know the type of people who are likely to rob me.
“My best friend was murdered in cold-blood and his shotgun didnt do him a lot of good. He shot it out with the intruder as well. But he is still dead. Maybe secure proofing his home would have been a better option?”
I am truly sorry to hear about your friend and how he passed. And maybe he did need to secure proof his home better. Please don’t take my post as me saying that guns are the end all be all to self defense. Guns are only one option. But the reason I believe guns are good option goes to my believe that the best weapons are the ones that allow you to be far from your enemy. And while a taser or knife are capable weapons I don’t want to be close the guy. And its not to say that I won’t buy a taser or pepper spray or something to defend my home.
“Educating kids on guns is far manlier then owning a gun. Most young men these days cant even SUPPORT A FAMILY much less protect one.. Young men these days should go out and get a job. Thats a more viable option then buying a gun for protection.”
I’m not sure I follow. My first post said that one SHOULD show or educate their family on gun use. Unless by educating kids you mean something slightly different. And I agree with the notion that young men these days can’t even support a family let alone protect one. I happen to be one of those men. Which is why I have not purchased a gun. And I don’t plan to anytime soon because I have higher priorities. Like buying a home to protect for one.
“Plus you dont have to worry about lawsuits flying everywhere. Carrying a gun and shooting it comes with risks and it may save your life someday. But, the chances of someone harming your family or robbing you in the streets(unless you live in Bronx, NYC) its chances of happening are SLIM TO NONE. I might as well wear a parachute everytime i board a plane.”
The lawsuit point is also true. I of course plan to do the proper research of local and state laws when I find a place to set my roots in. But like I said, I do live in a gang territory so being robbed or jumped by multiple assailants while walking around the local area IS a likely scenario. Though I must point out that my post said nothing about concealed weapons. And I don’t think carrying a concealed weapon around ALL the time is very good idea. If was a store owner or something maybe. But not for me. I think working out, taking up a martial art and using everyday items as potential weapons (for instance when I’m walking to or from my car I always have my largest key in hand to use as a stabbing weapon) is more practical to me. LOL @ the last sentence. And I’m not being snooty or sarcastic I swear. I love good analogies thats all.
We may have to agree to disagree on this one but I appreciate your thoughts. And I am always prepared to change my mind on subjects so if you believe you have more points to make by all means make them.
I am appauled at all the anti-gun comments on here. (even though some of them seem to be written by the same person…)
Calling gun ownership “non-manly” or a “surrogate of manliness” is a dumb straw man argument. One could easily say that wearing a hat or shaving with a straight razor is a surrogate of manliness.
A gun is a powerful tool, and like all other powerful tools people are going to hurt themselves with them sometimes. When an unsupervised kid has an accident with an electric saw, you don’t see a national campaign to restrict the use of electric saws. You will probably just assume that a mistake was made on the part of the kid and the parents who left an electirc saw out for them to play with.
And the “gun violence” statistics are shifty, at best. You call it “violence” as if all those numbers were homicides, but do you know for sure that that is the case? How many were carless accidents? Suicides?
Nobody is making anyone own a gun, but calling gun owners paranoid or nutty for wanting to be prepared for a bad situation that, no, most likely will not happen thank goodness, is like saying the same thing to someone who chooses to wear a seat belt because they don’t think a car wreck will happen to them.
Pieter wrote: “I know I may sound cruel and gruesome, but let’s face it: once you own a gun, these are serious things you need to worry about. These are some of the most common mistakes people make with guns.”
Cruel and gruesome is having your wife raped in front of you, and then in the aftermath having the choice of raising or terminating the child that is a ‘byproduct’ of the crime. It happened to my closest friends 12 years ago. You think that husband would prepare and react differently if he could go back in time? I assure you the answer is yes.
Responsible ownership of firearms is not difficult. Teaching your children respect of firearms is not difficult. Criminal behavior is not difficult, either.
I refuse to acknowledge any wisdom in your post at all. You have been brainwashed and live in fairyland. You are a victim and don’t even know it. I wish you luck.
The spirit of this post is that a man needs to be prepared to defend his home and family. Owning a gun is only one of many options for home defense, especially for people in countries more strict on gun ownership then the United States.
The article would have probably been better suited by giving many examples for home defense such as having phones handy at all times, basic self-defense techniques, alarms, specialized locks, cameras, and more extreme methods such as guns, tazers, batons, etc.
Being a man does not mean owning a gun. Being a man means being ready to defend one’s family and one’s home.
The fact of the matter is that home invasions come in only two flavors: 1) Someone breaks into a home knowing that the occupants are not home with an intent to burglarize. 2) Someone breaks into a home knowing that their is a chance that someone is inside and they are prepared to hurt or kill them.
People need to be prepared for either situation. If someone is breaking in to your home they are already prepared to commit a crime and are reasonably certain that they will get away with it. You are not safe with someone like that around. The best plan if someone is breaking in to your house is to GET OUT IMMEDIATELY, go across the street, or even down the block and only then call the police. If an intruder sees you calling the police, they will panic and very likely hurt you.
If you want to buy something for home defense, I would suggest a shotgun with the shortest barrel allowed by your particular locality’s laws and ammunition with a wide dispersal pattern, but with the least penetration. If you are an inexperienced gun user in a highly stressful situation, something that is simple to operate and requires only rudimentary aiming is best. Also, you don’t want rounds to go through walls and put unintended targets at risk (ie, kids, neighbors, etc). I advise a short barrel for manueverability and weapon retention.
All that being said, I think you should not own a weapon if you are not completely willing to use it when the time comes. If there is an intruder in your house and you force that person into fight/flight by pointing a gun at him, you need to be willing to kill that person. Otherwise, you just may be arming an unarmed intruder in your own house which is obviously a much worse scenario.
I’m socially liberal and fiscally conservative, and, yes, I do believe in gun control; however, when I say “gun control” I am not endorsing the downright foolish far left attempts to overly restrict or even abolish private gun ownership. I would prefer that purchasing a gun not be as easy as picking up a pack of gum, but it is eminently reasonable that guns be available to the general public for hunting, sport, and defense.
There seems to be a feeling amongst those opposed to gun ownership that any device intentionally designed to be able to maim or kill is inherently evil, but it is important that we realize that, as many others have stated, it is simply a tool. And, as with all tools, proper training and use are paramount. It is the responsibility of the owner to make sure that the gun is used safely and responsibly by him or herself as well as others. Just as it would be unreasonable to oppose the availability of cars because of an irresponsible minority, so too is it irrational to oppose all gun ownership because of the mistakes and misdeeds of a relative few.
As for those who think that it’s a short step from gun ownership to blowing away anybody who looks at you funny and that the police are the be all and end all of defense, they fail to realize that a gun is meant for use in situations in which calling the police does *not* suffice. It is not an all-purpose problem solver but a last resort.
I plan to join the ranks of gun owners when I have a home and a family to protect.
“Why retreat? Ever hear of the castle doctrine? That’s your little part of the universe, civilized states do not require home owners to flee their property when confronted by criminals.”
I have indeed heard of the castle doctrine and I do in fact own several guns. I am a gun advocate and I am not above wasting someone who breaks in to my home if they are a danger. Having said that I feel that violence especially lethal force is a last line of defense and should not be taken lightly. I also would want my family to get as far away as possible if in fact I should fail in my attempt to neutralize all of the assailants in such an attempt.
In some states it is legal to own semi-automatic rifles, shotguns, handguns, up to 3 hand grenades, and even 1 RPG round and 1 launcher. Isn’t that a bit excessive? Where’s the line?
Pieter wrote:
“I like all the “you’se a bedwetting pansy” remarks from all the cool people who own guns.”
That’s good to hear.
“But there are a few problems I’m having with this. My main problem is, what are you going to do when there’s a burglar in the house and you’ve fired your Pump Shotgun at his face?”
Just as an aside, the face isn’t the first thing you aim for. It’s actually the center of mass – the upper center of the torso, where all the other vital organs reside.
“How are you going to explain all those bits of brain and shards of skull in your livingroom to the police”
Covered by Castle Doctrine. We have no duty to retreat in a home invasion situation if doing so makes it unsafe for us or for those we protect.
“(or your kids, for that matter). That’s something you can’t train, even if you train hard enough to know how to safely handle weapons, a shotgun will still do an insane amount of damage.”
Yes, that’s exactly the point. A single-shot stop means the criminal scumbag is incapacitated, such that they will not try to harm the homeowner or his family.
We tend to not coddle criminals here in America.
“How is your wife going to react when a rapist comes up, she tried to shoot him, but the jerk just grabbed the gun out of her hand?”
Unlikely. Even if the rapist grabs for the gun he’s likely to be grabbing his own giblets shortly thereafter.
“How are you going to react when your kid just found your guns and tried to show off at school and wastes his best friend?”
“How are you going to react when the burglar you just shot turns out to be your 16 year old daughter who sneaked out to go on date?”
My kids aren’t that stupid, and they’ve been educated in firearms safety. But assuming they make either of those unfortunate choices, they’d have to live or die with the consequences.
“I know I may sound cruel and gruesome,”
No, but you do sound as though you have some irrational fears about firearms. Have you talked to a professional therapist yet?
“but let’s face it: once you own a gun, these are serious things you need to worry about. These are some of the most common mistakes people make with guns.”
Yes, and texting is one of the most common “mistakes” people make while driving. It kills far more people than accidental discharge of firearms in this country. By your logic we ought to ban either cell phones or cars.
“And I don’t believe you need guns for protection,”
Sorry to tell you this, but what you think really doesn’t matter. We’re going to keep the 2nd Amendment whether you like it or not.
“I’ve lived in pretty crappy places with loads of crime and violence. I even work in the most criminal city of my country and I have never needed to use violence to “protect” anything or anyone, nor have I ever comprimized the safety of my wife.”
I imagine your tune would change if you or she were to become victims. You’d (unfortunately) get a chance to see first hand how powerless your police are to protect you.
Thank you for your post, High Flight. It was very informative. I actually didn’t mean that I believed it was that easy; I was just trying to make it clear that I desire neither complete deregulation nor the opposite extreme.
Again, excellent post.
“In some states it is legal to own semi-automatic rifles, shotguns, handguns, [b]up to 3 hand grenades, and even 1 RPG round and 1 launcher[/b]. Isn’t that a bit excessive? Where’s the line?”
First of all, where the hell did you get that from? Live hand grenades and RPGs are illegal pretty much any way you look at it in the US.
Second of all, no. Explosives are a bit much but semi auto rifles, shotguns and pistols should be available for anyone who is not underage or criminally insane.
A fine choice is a Remington 870 or Mossberg 500 pump action shotgun in 12 or 20 gauge loaded with birdshot to decrease penetration. A good add-on is a tactical flashlight on the foregrip. The psychologically-terrifying sound of cycling a round, combined with the ability to temporarily blind your target, provides a powerful non-lethal first warning that can be followed up with deadly force should you be forced down that road. For backup, revolvers are extremely reliable. I like a .357 magnum loaded with frangible rounds. Frangible rounds break apart whenever they hit something harder than themselves, reducing the risk of overpenetration.
I keep the loaded revolver in my nightstand inside a biometric-locked box. Swipe your fingerprint and it opens, no need to worry about codes or keys. The loaded shotgun is in my bedroom closet in a biometric safe as well. I keep the tube magazine full but chamber empty. Should I need to, I can access the remainder of my guns in a separate code-secured vault. Should anything ever happen, I would arm myself, call the police, and wait in my bedroom.
To the detractors: every man has the obligation to protect his home and family with whatever means he sees fit. If you believe calling the police, learning self-defense, or using blunt objects is adequate, more power to you. I’ve made enough good decisions in my life to not worry about ever living in a dangerous area but, in the admittedly unlikely event I should be forced to use a gun for self-defense, I don’t want that option closed off because someone else thinks it’s unnecessary.
Just to clarify for those readers stateside who argue about the legitimacy of gun ownership – it doesn’t really matter what you think the 2nd amendment says about militias and gun ownership. The Supreme Court has the ultimate say in that matter, until the 2nd Amendment is changed, and their decision in the 2008 DC v. Heller case upholds the right to bear arms explicitly outside the militia context. It also has some interesting dicta about gun control in general. All Americans with any opinion on gun control, pro or con, need to read that case before making statements as to what the Constitution “says”.
Great informational post. I concur that some further information on shotguns would have been beneficial, as there is a serious problem of over penetration that can tear up the drywall. The best solution seems to be lowering the size of the shot from heavy buckshot to turkey grade, but using a shotgun with a full or at least modified choke. In most homes, this tightened spread would compact the shot sufficient for home protection without allowing for heavy shot to destroy your home.
I also most definitely concur with the pithy comment that seconds count when the police are minutes away. Recently, a convenience store clerk in our town saved his life by bringing a semi-auto 9mm to work. The store had been robbed at gun point the night before when a different clerk was on duty, so this man brought his home weapon. That night, the same robber showed up full of bravado. This time, he fired several rounds into the cigarette case near the clerk, thinking it was amusing, when the clerk drew his own weapon and shot the robber. The shot did not kill the robber, who continued to fire blindly in the direction of the register. The police did eventually show up, having been alerted by silent alarm, but long after the robber was gone. This is nothing against police officers, but it is not their fault they cannot teleport to all corners of the earth instantaneously. It is a personal choice to not own a gun, but it is not proper to pass judgment on those who choose to protect their homes beyond the hope that any invader will simply leave their family alone or take their time stealing until the police can arrive.
I don’t think I will ever buy a gun, even if it were legal here. I would probably just get the hell out of there and let them have my stuff, then let the police find them. I don’t want to kill a person even if they’re trying to rob me.
“What if they’re trying to kill you, rape your daughter, or rape you? What if they just want to kick the shit out of you for grins? Just saw a news program about four teens who stomped a man to death because it looked like fun.”
I would try to use non lethal force and get my family somewhere safe. Because the person committing the crime needs more help than I do, I’m not going to kill them.
Daniel, you sound like the most reasonable, honeest, saintly, rational guy in here. You seem like a very good family man.
Highflight sounds like the devil trying to sell you a ticket to helll….kill! kill! kill!
MUST HAVE A GUN TO KILL KILL KILL KILL KILL. Killing isnt the only answer. What has this society come too? If someone attacks you KILL EM! If someone is looking at you wrong KILL EM! If somethign steals your money KILL EM! If someone is raping your dog KILL EM!! If someone laughs at you KILL EM!!
Seriously, the most sensible approach is to get your family to a safe place. That primary. But if someone attacked my family member or tryed to harm them in anyway. Then yea i would blow their head off and talk later. No question about it. But until then buying a gun for home protection isnt high on my list.
Highflight, you do have reasonable arguments and are knowledable. I was just trying to enlighten the readers with no pun intended or to make fun of you or the siutation. Just adding some humor thats all.
Read my first post. Its very interesting. I still stand by my arguement “that responsble, mature people should be allowed to own guns. I support gun control. (Keep the guns way from the psychos and felons.)
But I believe in this society its way too easy for felons and psychos to buy guns which makes the rest of us normal people want to buy guns to protect us from the psychos and felons. Its a never ending cycle.
Actually I’m only a young man, and I really like the content on artofmanliness.com, it’s taught me a lot of things I didn’t know. Guns just really go against my personality so I felt like I wanted to post.
Please don’t confuse the above 3 posts under this name with the same name used above.
Get a big dog.Not only do they deter the seedier elements in society, but give you ample warning to lay hands on a weapon.
Rather than get into the pillow fight over whether one should own a gun, I offer the Ruger 10/22 as yet another firearm one can truly enjoy owning. Admittedly, your list covers the first few guns for home defense, but nothing beats the economy, enjoyment and success of learning to shoot with a .22 rifle.
Nice work!
First of all, Brett, excellent article. As men, we are responsible for protecting our families, and learning how to do so responsibly is paramount. I appreciate the links you provided for those interested in learning how to properly use a firearm.
Secondly, to those who disagree with the article, nobody is imploring anyone to purchase a firearm here. This article seems to be directed to the man who is interested in protecting his family, has stated the responsibility one brings onto himself when purchasing a firearm, and discusses the advantages for that purpose. The phone is not the best weapon during a home invasion (like stated in the posts above) as the phone won’t protect you once their inside your kitchen, or in your children’s bedroom. Expecting a police officer to magically appear in the time it takes for the perpetrators to do their damage is just as ludicrous, the average Police response time in some places is as small as eight minutes, while in places in New York it can be as long as 13 minutes.
This article is directed to the man, who like a true man, will rely on action rather then “hoping” others will arrive in time to protect his own home and family. In response to people wondering about the possibility of children getting their hands on the firearm, get a gun safe or locker and store it in the master bedroom closet, or even a finger print gun safe to prevent anyone you don’t want getting their hands on it.
I have to admit that, being British, this article left me pretty bemused. It’s not just that guns are illegal in the UK and that, even if I were somehow to get hold of a gun, I wouldn’t know the first thing about it; more fundamentally, we just don’t have a culture of home defence. It’s not something I’ve ever thought about and can’t think of an occoasion when I’d need to protect my property. I suppose I’d phone the Police.
Steve nice post. “even if I were somehow to get hold of a gun, I wouldn’t know the first thing about it; more fundamentally, we just don’t have a culture of home defence. It’s not something I’ve ever thought about and can’t think of an occasion when I’d need to protect my property.”
Life in America is vastly different from the culture in Great Britian and Europe.
I am an American and its nice to see europeans and brits have such a casual and humanitarian attitude about life. I wish it were like that in America. It seems like you all look out for each other over there. It seems that you all are less likely to lock your doors at night It seems that everyone over there is warm, reasonable, and sensible. You even mentioned that you cant think of one occasion when you had to protect your property. That attitude is far, far away from our attitude in America.
We, americans, are defensive, trigger-happy, and willing to kill our own people if a person crosses a certain line. Its very sad and yet hyprocritical.
Americans are preprogrammed to KILL and to DEFEND. Thats our atttude and has always have been that way since the Civil War. Many even further back than that. The atttiude is: “We must defend our families and our homes!” Yet the europeans and brits love their families and homes just as much as Americans do—-but they dont have that same “defending” and “killing” attitude.
Its disheartening to see that our own fellow americans are turning the gun on our own people who rob, rape and steal from us. Its in the news everyday.
The killers, rapists, and theives are the same fellow americans who fight next to us during war, who live next door to us, who work at McDonalds and serve us happy meals everyday, and who we thought were our friends.
We cannot even lock our doors at night, much less own a shotgun and a guard dog to protect our families and ourselves from our own people.
Sometimes I like to believe we are a nation of hyprocrits.
I live in america dammit! We shouldnt have to live like this. Why do I have to lock my door at night from my fellow neighbor? We live in a society where we cannot trust our own people. Also, our divorce rate is the highest in america then anywhere else in the world. I thought we fellow americans were supposed to love each other. Yet we grow to hate each other through killing, divorce, and rape. We have grown from a nation of strength and love to a nation of hate and fear.
Where did all this hate and fear come from? I believe it comes from one source: THE MEDIA.
Our media is to blame for our fears. Each day you hear someone who was robbed, raped or killed in some horrible fashion by our own people. Now it is our job to take action. We have to buy a gun, defend our families and homes from our own kind. You rarely hear of a brit or european coming to America to rob us. You rarely hear of an asian man coming to american and raping an american family member. Its like we are fighting ghosts.
I think the media in america creates this hysteria. If you look at some of the posts on here many cite “news stories” for the reasons why they own guns. Did you know that people in Canada own more guns than american people, yet more people are killed each day in America from guns than in Canada.
I love America. I love this country. I love the soldiers who fight for our freedom in Iraq. But when I have to defend myself and my own family with a gun from my own fellow american whether that person is black, white, yellow, brown, or red then dammit there is a problem in America.
For people in the U.S. (and everywhere) who are not sure if we have a moral obligation/duty to protect ourselves (self-defense killing vs murder), here are two articles worth reading, and may help clarify this issue.
1) Police Have No Duty To Protect Individuals (1992) by Peter Kasler
http://www.firearmsandliberty.com/kasler-protection.html
2) A Nation Of Cowards (1993) by Jeffrey Snyder
http://jim.com/cowards.htm
Some of these comments are weird… a knowledge of guns and home defense are extremely manly. Art of Manliness is not a political blog, so why try to turn it into one?
This article is about helping readers learn to protect their home using a gun. It is somewhat successful in that. I see no need to get all torn up about it.
Morgan I disagree. I knowledge of guns and home defense is gender equal.
My girlfrend owns a gun and will use it faster than you can blink an eye. She loves guns nad she owns a truck. She goes to the shooting range sometimes. She loves cleaning it too. But she also loves fashion design and makeup. She works in retail for at Macys. She is feminine girl. But just loves guns.
I, on the other hand, play football, baseball, basketball. I drink beer and whiskey and lift weights. I love betting on college football games and gambling. Which she hates! But I have no interest in guns. She can protect me if she wants to and when she wants to…i could care less. Is she extremely masculine? NO.
Is she feminine? very much so…..but she likes her smith and wesson and .22 rifle.
So you need to quit labeling that “guns are extremely masculine.”
For goodness sake, stop the chest beating already. Owning a gun for self defense is legal in the US, where this blog is written and many of its readers are based. If it’s illegal in your country then you have nothing to worry about. If you’re not interested in owning a gun, move along – there are plenty of entries in this blog catering for every taste. No one is defending child slaying.
Knee-jerk is just the word.
I did not say I am not interested in “owning a gun” like a mossberg 500 or smith and wesson.
I said “im not interested in guns”…meaning I dont make it a hobby of mine to go to the shooting range every week, cleaning it, talking about different models of guns with my friends, and buying gun magazines.
I do support gun control and gun ownership — only to mature, responsible people.
@ Todd,
Sounds like you have yourself a keeper, brother. While I agree that your girlfriend is not masculine because of her love of firearms, the act of protecting one’s family is masculine in itself. Its hard wired into us.
Any statement saying defending your home and family isn’t manly is malarkey. Whether you prefer a firearm (which in my opinion is the most effective tool for the task of home defense, given the right training) or a baseball bat, your fists is completely up to the person. But saying your going to pray and hope that the violator chooses not to hurt you, or the police will arrive in time to abate the crime isn’t progressive at all. Firearms level the playing field: A rapist enters the home with a knife or firearm with the intention of raping someone in the family…chances are he would have no qualm killing them. The police won’t be arriving in time to prevent anything from starting. A man has to take action.
Take the recent slaying of a man and woman in Florida as an example http://www.baynews9.com/content/36/2009/7/14/495936.html : These two were wealthy and had hearts of gold, they had adopted thirteen special needs children. A group of men ran into their home, grabbed a safe, and shot the parents in front of the children. This is a case where the criminals had already received what they had came to steal.
You cannot try to apply logic to criminals, its too risky. Better to have a gun, and not need one, then to need one, and not have one.
I live in Australia and I’ve never really heard anyone talk about this topic here. I do see your point, though. This article has made me think about it anyway. Gun laws are much stricter here I think.
I’m going to take a completely different approach and disagree with the post. (Wow!)
Shotguns are overrated for home defense. Any longarm requires two hands to use, and you will sometimes need a hand to open doors, carry kids, etc. Not to mention the difficulties of maneuvering 30 inches of shotgun through doorways and hallways.
The revolver is a better choice. Simple and reliable.
But above all, you must PRACTICE. Owning a gun does nothing. Knowing how to use it skillfully (and WHEN) is vital. Take a training course…then make a point of practicing weekly.
Oh come on now! If you really want to safe guard your family, make sure you have a gun and know how to use it expertly. Teach your children to respect it and lock it up in a safe. Take them to the range and let them see for themselves how different it is then television. The sound alone should scare the $%^# outta them.
It will teach you to handle stress better, increase your sense of responsibility, and will shift the balance of power if two convicts break into your house while you are sleeping and start to make demands.
If an intrusion ever happened to you,…then tell me… what are you going to tell your assailant if he wont let you get to your phone?…”.Please dont hurt my family?..Lets talk this out?,,please stay downstairs and you can have anything you want?”
OR….” if you come upstairs before the police get here I am going to put a 357 in your chest!” Which method protects you children better?
BTW, I think the article is a great entry into an important topic and we should add to it the need for every man to know how to defend himself in basic hand to hand combat. What good is 100 pushups if you cant counter a choke hold.
I think this is an excellent, long-overdue article. Protecting one’s family and loved ones is most certainly the highest responsibility of a man, and one which ought not to be taken lightly. For those personally capable of handling a firearm, this is invaluable advice. For those averse to gun ownership, due to either disinterest or incapable of its responsible use, stick with your telephone and torch (flashlight).
The commenters at the top here must be insane and/or should be ashamed of themselves. Owning a gun isn’t about feeling more manly, your ego, OR your self esteem. It’s about protecting your family and your life. If someone were to break into your home, can you be absolutely sure that you can hold them off for the 2 minutes and 30 seconds average time it takes for the police to arrive to the average person’s house? If you think you can, then you don’t know the full length of 2 minutes and 30 seconds, and you have never protected your home before from one or multiple invaders. You want to protect your home with out any doubts or chances? Buy a gun. Taking a life to protect your family is not sin, it is a commandment.
There are three responsibilities of a man.
1. Lead your family honorably by example.
2. Provide for your family.
3. protect your family at your fittest, best trained, and best armed and equipped as ever humanly possible.
If you shirk any one of these responsibilities, then you have no right to claim your manhood.
I sincerely hope every person who has said you don’t need a gun to protect themselves, and so by extension no one should be allowed to have guns is murdered by a burglar/psycho breaking into their home. Let natural selection take it’s course and wipe these idiots off the planet.
@ Billy and a few others.
Again, you are creating a scenario thats probably never going to happen in your lifetime. You are listening to the news way too much. Yes, Im informed and prepared if a criminal breaks into my home and know how to handle the situation if it does occur. But someone robbing and killing my family isnt something I think about everyday. I got other things to worry about like keeping a steady job and putting food on the table. Thats top priority.
Have you ever seen the movie “In Coldblood?” It entails the brutal 1959 murders of Herbert Clutter, a wealthy farmer from Holcomb, Kansas, and his wife and two children. The same thing happened to a wealthy couple recently in Pesnacola,Florida.
Now lets look at statistics.
Thats only TWO FAMILIES that have been brutally massacred —- in cold blood —-by evildoers in 50 years out of 3 BILLION FAMILIES that currently exist in America. (IThats not including a few other families that this has happened to but it hasnt been sensationalized.) But still the numbers are very, very low.
Many of you are paranoid over “I must defend my family to keep sh*t like this from happening! Its probably never going to happen in your lifetime anyway—unless you live in NYC or East L.A. and it will probably be over someone wanting drugs.
You all watch the news way too much. Hell, if I watched the news all day and everyday….I would be paranoid too and would want to go out and buy a shotgun to protect myself and family. But the media has put FEAR into everyones head.
Relax and put your weapons away. The boogieman is not going to show up at your doorstep tomorrow night and rob, rape, and kill your family.
This is a good article on guns. But lets talk about something else. This article has worn itself out.
Real men use flamethrowers
I pity those who live in places where fear is so rampant to make them feel they must own guns to protect themselves from the boogeyman.
wow, 3 days and look at the shitstorm this started. I’m amazed at the amount of fail some of these replies have.
They are right though,having a gun does not make you a man. But owning a razor doesn’t make you a man either,we should get rid of the shaving article. and being well dressed doesn’t make you a man,better get rid of that too…
Thank you for this article.I have been thinking about gun ownership for home self defense and I have learned alot here.
Disappointed the responses were political and not advice from experienced gun owners.
@Todd
Every year in the united states citizens with firearms save over 2 million lives. The chances that you personally are going to be robbed may be low, but look at it this way: the chances of your house catching fire is even lower than your chances (depending on where you live) of having an armed robber break into your home, but I’m sure you still keep a fire extinguisher in the house, don’t you?
@ anon…
that is totally uncalled for and certainly not manly behavior by any stretch of the imagination… you are a prime example of why gun owners and those who believe strongly in the 2nd Amendment have such a bad image in the public eye…. and now to quote the great Ring Lardner,
“Shut up”, he explained.
Peace and Stay Free! (something a half blood cherokee/black hippie used to say by the name of Jimi Hendrix who by the way was a paratrooper in the 101st Airborne Divison)
Some of you want to talk about guns killing kids and yet we find it acceptable to allow them at 16 years old to opperate by far the most dangerous piece of equipment in our society. The automobile kills more people than guns in all demographics. No one throws a fit about that. The art of manlyness is about self reliance that includes protecting our homes and families
Anon, go back to 4chan. That sort of trash isn’t funny, and isn’t apreciated.
As a gun owner (a Texan, no less) who has actually been the victim of a home invasion I thought it would be worthwhile to share my experience with you all.
The man who invaded my home did not break in. He knocked and when I answered the door he told me that his car had broken down and he needed to call a tow-truck. He also asked for a glass of water. I was sympathetic to his situation and told him to wait while I brought a phone and a drink. That’s when I made the mistake of turning my back on him.
Eventually I managed to expell him from my residence, and after locking my door and running to get (and load, I kept it unloaded) my Remington 870 express shotgun gun I called the police. I never saw the man again, and once the police arrived he was long-gone. They told me they would increase patrolls in the area for the next couple of weeks and generally were of the oppinion that he probably was just trying to see if there was anything in my house worth coming back for and stealing.
I loaded my gun and kept it nearby for about 30 minutes before deciding that I was uncomfortable with the idea of using it against a person and unloading it. I did however keep the unloaded weapon nearby for use as a visual deterrent should he return. That one instance is the only time I’ve ever had a loaded gun in the house.
I’m a hunter and have fed my family with the meat of animals I’ve killed for the past several years, but I am not willing to use my guns against a person. I’m not saying I don’t respect the right of others to make that choice for themselves, but I would rather lose my belongings than have to deal with the reality of having shot another person.
Joseph Finn, you might want to read this…
http://www.adl.org/MWD/faq4.asp#4.3
(a) The militia of the United States consists of all able-bodied
males at least 17 years of age and, except as provided in section
313 of title 32, under 45 years of age [which deals with
membership in the National Guard] who are, or who have made a
declaration of intention to become, citizens of the United States
and of female citizens of the United States who are members of
the National Guard.
(b) The classes of the militia are–
(1) the organized militia, which consists of the National
Guard and the Naval Militia; and
(2) the unorganized militia, which consists of the members
of the militia who are not members of the National Guard
or the Naval Militia.”
I can’t believe the number of anti-gun idiots writing in on this subject! What ninnies! If someone breaks into my house, my best defense to keep my wife and daughters safe is to call the cops and hope they get there in time? Even my police officer friends say that is stupid.
I think that those comments were written by women masquerading as men…
The majority of these comments are made of fail. The writer was actually trying to write something of substance about something practical, and a bunch of you people jump all up his ass for it. It’s not the writer’s problem that some of you people live in a country that leaves you dependant upon others for your own well being and safety. Furthermore, with some of the comments saying that owning a gun is somehow compensating is utterly infantile. Compensating for what? I own firearms because they are tools which I also find enjoyment in using in a recreational setting. If some of you cannot understand that firearms are tools which can be used for good or ill, than you people have greater, farther reaching issues than thinking “Firearms = Bad” and “Ban guns = Good”.
tl;dr – Immature people getting butthurt for no good reason.
I’m an Engwish man. I come here to read about shaving and making me pwetty. Big bad gun scare me. It like a boogie man that wive undah my bed.
In seriousness, I have lived among Europeans for years. The men are thoroughly emasculated – use fear as a justification for actions, prefer dependence, passivity and weakness to self-reliance, responsibility and preparedness. This is well illustrated by their responses above. I would have thought they’d avoid the blog simply because it refers to manliness. I can only assume they are attracted by the more metrosexual topics.
Looks like there are a bunch of comments up here already, but I’ll join in by commenting on what another commenter offered: The phone is not a reliable form of home defense. It is a key part of home defense, but when seconds count, the police are minutes away. Thanks, but I’ll stick to my weapons. Part of manliness is being willing to use the fundamental right (which all people have been given) to defend yourself, your family, and your belongings.
If you have a gun and a child, that gun is statistically far more likely to kill your child than an intruder.
I know no one who has defeated an intruder personally using a firearm. I know two families where a child was killed by a firearm owned by the family. This is not unusual.
Any introductory article on firearms which does not include information on securing them is an invitation to horrific disaster.
And if the Bush Administration is any indication, if Fascism comes to America, the gun nuts will be cheering it on from every balcony they have available.
“The most foolish mistake we could possible make would be to allow the subjugated people to carry arms …”
Adolf Hitler
“All military type firearms are to be handed in immediately…The SS, SA and Stahlhelm give every repectable citizen the opportunity of campaigning with them. Therefore any one who does not belong to one of the above named organizations and who unjustifiably nevertheless keeps his weapon…must be regarded as an enemy of the national government.”
SA Oberfuhrer Bad Tolz, March 1933
To David, Billy, Albo Killer, Harry…
Hurrah! I am with you. I will never break into your home either!
People dont generally mess with Marines, Police, etc. You know why?…CAUSE THEY WILL SHOOT YOU. It has nothing to do with manliness being proved. It has everything to do with capability.
Getting back to the question about gun use.
A shot gun or .38 revolver is a good choice for home protection. I have the Ruger SP101.
MASTER IT! Go to the range often and become an expert!
Read articles and books about it.
DO NOT stick it in a safe and forget about it. You must practice. You have to get acclimated to the stress of firing a gun and get comfortable and confident with your particular firearm. Practice loading and unloading. Practice everything and you will feel much better about yourself. Learn how to move through your house with it safely. Learn how to aim with both eyes open. Learn how to carry a mag light with it.
Its only a power tool. Like every other tool, you should know how to use it safely, clean it, store it, and protect others from it when its around. You know how to use matches safely without burning your house down,.. right?
Finally, there are many safes and options to storing your weapon securely. I use a steel box-safe that has a four finger combination code. I can get to my loaded weapon in about 2 seconds when Im at the safe. Dont make the mistake of securing your weapon so drastically that you will need 30 minutes to be armed. If its all in pieces when you need it the most, what good is it?
Memorize the laws pertaining to gun use in your state. Know your rights and limitations.
Todd, the Mossberg looks like it will ABSOLUTELY scare the $#!% out of anyone who wants to hurt you and your family. It will shift the power from the criminal to the homeowner who is not afraid of politics and is capable of protecting his loved ones with lethal force if necessary.
BTW, its pretty funny to me that there are quite a few men who find the responsibility SCAIWEEE!
Man up dudes. Youre the alpha male of the house.
Or just ask your wife to talk to the theif, rapist, crackhead, psycho, and convince him that there is a higher moral road. If that doesnt work, then just beg and tell him youre from Europe and dont believe in the right to defend yourself with lethal force but you will poke him in the eye if threatened. Finally, there is always crying.
As I look around the website Im beginning to think that it is not so much about manliness. It seems to be leaning toward becoming the men’s department at Macy’s.
First, Brett – nice article. You covered the basics. There’s more to it of course and, maybe I missed it, no where did it say owning a weapon was manly. Ownership of any type of a weapons demands responsibility. You didn’t imply that the article stated you HAD to own a gun to be manly.
@Adam (#172) – thanks, I needed that. That was funny.
@Pieter (#187) – what do I say about all the blood and guts of Joe Intruder that are spread all over my house? “Guess he won’t be back”
I carry a H&K 40 caliber on the job. That explains the profession. At home I have a .22LR rifle with white tape down the barrell. White tape? Easy to see at night and with 20 odd rounds in the weapon, I can certainly keep shooting until I hit something/somebody. .22’s might not kill them but they’re not going to stick around either. The rounds aren’t going to penetrate and kill BIlly Bob next door either.
If you don’t like guns, may I suggest you just skip the article? Maybe something in basket weaving is fine for you but leave others to enjoy reading well written, non- biased artiles on home defense.
Besides, when Joe Intruder comes breaking in my door at night – know that – again, sorry about you having to read this over your Corn Flakes, Joe won’t be back to break into your house tomorrow night.
Why do I own guns? Because I’m allowed by law to exercise that right. ‘Nuff said….
Thanks again Brett – cheers!
ADAM #172,
Priceless.
Alright, I’m not going to go on too much about gun control, but there are certain things that need to be said about gun safety. Accidents are bad… Accidents with guns are deadly. It behooves any gun owner to practice safe usage and safe storage of guns. So much of common sense goes unsaid that eventually common sense becomes quite uncommon. Here’s my common sense topics I wish to discuss:
1. To the poster who said keeping a LOADED gun is the best home protection – This is actually the WORST PROTECTION, as you have now made that firearm a liability. Accidental discharge is a leading cause of firearm deaths. Removing the ammo prevents accidental discharge. Keep the rounds close if you wish, keep your firearm chamber open and ready to load, but do NOT KEEP IT LOADED. Loaded firearms are a false sense of security due to the danger accidental discharge provides.
2. If you have kids, Lock your firearms. Goes along with option 1. Kids are curious, and it only takes a little Hollywood comparison to train a child to use a firearm unsafely. I’m not trying to demonize media, but anyone can watch a movie and say “bullet goes in here, trigger makes bullet come out there” to make people think they are experts. Trigger locks or a locked cabinet does more for the safety of kids playing, because I have yet to see a parent able to monitor their children 24/7. there’s always a time you’re not looking.
3. Educate your kids young. Make your children respect firearms. Toy guns are all fun and games, but if you have a real gun in your house, you need to teach them the difference. I would personally go so far as to keep “realistic” gun toys away from your kids… But it really depends on the temperament of your child, and their ability to discern fake from real. Take your kids to the firing range, and show them the destructive power of a firearm, and how serious such a device is, and that it should never be used for play. Cardinal rules such as “treat every rifle as if loaded and ready to fire” and “Never point a gun at anything you don’t intend to kill” are vital to anyone who might come in contact with a gun. If you are uncomfortable with talking about this stuff with your kids, then DON’T HAVE A GUN.
4. Never operate a firearm in an altered state. EVER. If you go out drinking – lock your gun for your own safety. Much the same as you shouldn’t drive drunk, you should never try and use a loaded firearm to protect your family when you are under the influence. The lack of judgment and reflexes caused by alcohol or drugs is a far worse danger than the perpetrator entering your home.
5. Be a conscientious gun user, not a gun nut. Gun nuts shoot first and ask questions later. Conscientious gun owners will assess the situation and only fire if their lives are truly in danger. Be sure your target is what you think it is, and don’t fire warning shots blindly. Ricochets are as dangerous as direct hits, and shooting a family member by mistake is an unforgivable mistake.
Hollywood misconceptions on handling firearms are unfortunately, a Gun enthusiast’s biggest enemy in the battle for acceptance. Because of these glorified unsafe practices seen by pretty much everyone, guns get a worse rap than they deserve. If all you’ve learned about guns comes from Rambo, Point Break, Bad Boys, and Dirty Harry, then you aren’t ready to own a gun.
If people are actually responsible with firearms, and take adequate measures to keep people safe from not just criminals, but also from accidents, then it is safe to have firearms in your house; As long as you realize that owning a firearm carries a great deal of responsibility, but in itself does not fulfill responsibility (without proper care and handling), then I’d say it’s ok for you to own a firearm.
As far as kids accidentally shooting themselves goes, how about instilling a little discipline and respect in your kid by taking him behind the woodshed if he/she starts nosing around your dresser or closet. I can’t imagine daring to look in my old man’s dresser drawers! I’d be laid out pretty quick if he caught me.
Secondly, calling the cops is a waste of time. Someone willing to break into an occupied residence is desperate and willing to use violence. They know there are people present and are more than willing to put themselves in an unfamiliar environment with no lights on. If they are willing to take that chance, a safe assumption will be if they come up on you they will either be packing or willing to take you on. While I like my chances in a scrum with an unarmed intruder, especially since I am single and live with two other single mid-twenties guys, if I was married and/or had kids in the home, approaching a felon unarmed is a bad idea. The point of owning a weapon for home defense is to not get in a situation where you are at the mercy of a crazed felon.
As far as not being willing to shoot someone, if you are married/have kids this is a shameful sentiment. In this life every man must have a few things worth fighting for. Letting criminals have free reign out of respect for their miserable life is a joke. I would shoot an intruder if he was jiggling the door knob, and I suspect if more people shared this view there would be less crime. An unarmed population is one easily exploited.
I don’t even have my shotgun at my current residence but I at least have a machete by my bed! And someone said there’s only been two families killed in cold blood in 50 years is total BS. Look at Sean Taylor from the redskins a few years back. And that’s an NFL strong safety with a machete. If you think you can take on armed intruders without a weapon good luck.
Like others, I am taken back by the anti-gun posts in this thread. For instance: “The best weapon for home defense is a phone.”
God Lord. Has the emasculation of the modern male come to the point where it is considered wrong to want to defend your loved ones, and your home. Do you really think a phone call is a better defense than a 12 gauge? Oh yes, those criminals run like rats when they see folks reaching for the phone! Geez, they’ve only got about 10 to 20 minutes to clear on out before the cops (with guns) come! Move! Quick!
Sorry, but that is the modern anti-male response.
I am a home owner, and a gun owner. When my girls become old enough, I will take them to the range, and they will learn to handle a weapon properly. And, God forbid, if anyone should break into my home, and wish to do my family harm, he will be staring down two barrels in two minutes.
What happens after that is completely up to him, but no matter the outcome, I will be sure to pick up the phone when the matter is settled.
An armed people is a safe people.
By the way, more kids die each year BY FAR in home swimming pools than by guns at home. A wandering youngster, and an unlocked gate to a backyard pool is much, much more of a threat.
Shall we now scream about pools?
Think, for crying out loud.
Gun ownership is an important constitutional right in the US and it is just as relevant today as it was when the document was written. I find it ridiculous that so many of you are appalled by the AoM’s decision to write an informative post about home defense weapons. In my opinion, owning and operating a firearm is a very masculine thing. It may not blow up everyone’s skirt, but it is certainly in line with the subject matter of this blog.
I respect every man’s right to an opinion on gun ownership, but I think that it is a little lame to be angry that the topic of gun’s came up on a website dedicated to “manliness.” Firearms can play an important role in many masculine pursuits from sporting to protecting your family (perhaps one of the noblest things that a man can do in this life).
I suggest a review of the NRA website for a good review on why it is necessary, in the USA, for individuals to assert their 2nd amendment rights. It is very manly to protect your family… at all costs. Criminals do not obey laws, therefore they do not obey gun control laws. By the way, if you want one blog to answer every gun control question ever raised, you’ve never finish reading it. Relax on the details and be friendly here gents… we’re all learning and this information engages us in topics.
I’m very pleased to see this article here.
It is not just one’s right, but one’s duty to own a firearm and be proficient in its use. An armed citizenry is a guard against tyranny. Furthermore, a firearm is the ONLY effective way to protect your family against violent crime. Average police response time in the US is over 9 minutes. When seconds count, the police are minutes away.
An unarmed man is not merely defenseless, but contemptible. It is your duty to protect your family, and if you are unarmed and untrained, you are failing that duty, and failing your family. A man who doesn’t own a gun is NOT a man, and it has nothing to do with nonsense penis-size arguments or anything else.
If you have the misfortune of living in an oppressive nation that has stripped you of your liberty, take some political initiative to get that changed, or MOVE to another country.
I am so glad to see you offer up a healthy understanding of the possession and use of firearms in the home. Thank you.
I am also quite saddened by the large number of people, the world over, who have been so brainwashed into fearing a gun. What a shame that their freedom (if they still have any left) is so thinly veiled.
At a moments notice, those with the guns can step in and take over their lives. This happens every day even in America, in states that violate our God-given rights, where law-abiding citizens are not afforded the right to protect their homes and loved-ones from invading criminals.
Thank you, AoM, for sparking the debate. I’m proud to be a sheepdog, along with so many of you. Those of you living in fear (=sheep), I’ll protect you from the wolves. Don’t worry.
LOL, oh my god LOL, that last post was amazing.
Thank you, Redneck freaky dude, for protecting me from the wolves (who are they, by the way? Iraki folk? Rappers? LA Cops?).
That’s exactly who I’d want by my side during the impending Apocalypse that all you gun owners are expecting to take place any minute: a pro-NRA trigger happy country boy. Yes, this is the perfect plan.
I don’t fear guns, I see them as obsolete. I’ll protect my family in any way possible, but to have guns in my house is probably not a smart way to go about it. What is this, Kosovo? The wild west is over people. Guns are for sport today, if you own one for any other reason, then you’re pretty much the reason most of the developed world has anti-gun laws. Catch up, you guys are dragging.
Sounds like you got a bunch of spinless whimps who have been hanging arround their momma’s too long. Its the responsibility of “ALL” AMERICAN Dad’s to “train” their boys in the use of “leathal” means of protection, otherwise we become a society of push-arounds by those who would rather steal than work for a living. If every thief knew there were a loaded gun behind every door there would be no business for thieves. Man Up!
First and foremost, though, all dads should teach their kids to read and spell, if only to read the guns’ how-to manuals.
And, correct me if I’m wrong, but most burglars already know for a fact that there are often guns in family houses – does that stop them? No, obviously, they just bring more guns. Or bigger ones. If i follow this dominant line of reasoning, we should all just get Bazookas. Yeah, Bazookas! who’s going to give me crap if I’m rocking a rocket-launcher!
And i’ll have my “wolves” (aka gun-crazy vigilantes) to save me when i run out of rockets. I feel much safer now.
Remember what Dirty Harry Callahan said:
“Nothing wrong with shooting, as long as the right people get shot.”
Oh yeah.
“Eurofaggots”? Who’s the near-fascist here? You’re well on your way to becoming a full-blown fascist! Bravo!
And if you weren’t so cranked up on paranoia media yourself, you wouldn’t be living in this psychotic nightmare where your house is under attack every night. And you would perhaps realize that “they” aren’t out to kill you.
You see, in my world, its not the criminals that scare me, they are straightforward and just want stuff, material things that you can have insured. No, the scary folk are the “citizens” who thing they live in the wild west because they are entirely delusional, that is to say ignorant, and idiocy behind a gun is just a recipe for disaster.
A lot of people say “Oh, I’ll just call 911!” The chances of the police reaching your house before you’re dead is incredibly low, unless you live incredibly close to a police station. Their may be enough time for them to save you, but the criminal may have escaped.
I read this entire article and I must say I enjoyed it.
I enjoyed your blog on firearms. Don’t listen to all these other fruitcakes anyway. They have a right to their opinion even though it is wrong.
If a rapist/burglar/mugger/etc can get his or her hands on a firearm then you can bet they are going to use it. Why WOULDN’T you want to be prepared?
Now everyone go out and get your concealed carry permit and shove it in Diane Fienstein’s ugly face.
To be fair all the europeans posting here have probably never handled guns and probably WOULD be unsafe around them. Also it’s natural to fear stuff you don’t understand. As mentioned in the article it is necessary to first learn how to handle firearms properly, and that would be difficult in countries where the only way to get guns or ammunition is on the black market. Proper training and a place to shoot are essential for any gun owner, and the safety owning a gun provides is not worth becoming a criminal for. If you have children definitely keep your guns all locked up until they are old enough to teach firearms safety.
They are not evil instruments of death as much media would like you to believe, but they *can* kill people and should be treated with respect for that. I treat my guns the same as I would any dangerous power tool. Personally I prefer an AR-15 for home defense, and keep it loaded with lightweight FMJ ammunition. It tumbles after going through just a few sections of drywall and that drastically reduces it’s wounding capability. This means it is much less danger to neighbors. It may not be as simple and reliable as a pump-action shotgun but it is definitely one of the most reliable firearms around. All that stuff you here about jamming M16s is bullshit that comes from the vietnam era when troops were sent out with nasty shitty dirty ammunition and no cleaning kits. When I’m out of the house I carry an EAA Witness (CZ-75 clone) in an IWB holster. I’m a skinny guy and it’s a fullsize handgun so it took me awhile to find a good holster that was comfortable and concealed it well, but I prefer it to smaller compact or polymer stuff. The 9mm vs. .45ACP vs. .40SW is a stupid meaningless debate and modern bullet technology in hollowpoints makes the differences negligible. Pick the one you shoot most accurately and comfortably.
Additionally, I highly recommend anyone into guns trying practical shooting competitions. I do practical rifle, 3-gun, and IPSC. It’s a lot of fun and it gives you a situation where you have to think and move quickly under stress which can help prepare you in the event you ever DO need to use a firearm to defend yourself. Have fun, be safe, and don’t be that idiot redneck muzzle sweeping everyone on the range and talking about how .45 is so much better than 9mm or how the AK-47 never jams or other bullshit like that.
You people haven’t a clue what you are talking about.
If I get into your house, I can kill you as soo as I see you with simple hand tools.
Unless european police can teleport, they aren’t going to save you.
No one is.
I’ve gorwn up in a house where their are four times as many guns as there are people.
No one in my fmaily has ever been shot.
Not once.
So, why haven’ tthese guns magically killed me?
Answer:because a gun is only as much of a danger as the person holdin it, and responsible adults tend not to be a danger.
None of you have handled firearms, yet you hate them/are made uncomfortable by them, even though they are inanimate. This is foolish, ot say the least.
Also, an unarmed populace is easy prey for a government that decides it wants to have some fun.
Or in european history, a friendly barbacue/oven testing competition.
Guns do not equal freedom. The UK is more free now than it has ever been and they outlaw guns. Canada has strict gun control laws, and we have more freedoms that Americans.
The fact is, that people justify gun ownership as a duty or responsibility via the 2nd amendment, for the sole purpose of meeting their own ends. The 2nd amendment was written to allow people to rebel against the government should they abuse their power. And the George W. Bush era has proven that the 2nd amendment has totally failed its country in that respect.
The 2nd amendment has since evolved into a defense for people to carry all sorts of assault weapons, which, while conducive to fighting a war, are not conducive to defending your family.
@David #260 – You are the exact gun nut I was talking about. If your teenage son comes sneaking into the house at 2AM (after having snuck out earlier that night), and you hear the door handle jiggle… If you blindly fire your shotgun for that jiggle, you’ve just injured or killed your own son. You are the type of person who doesn’t understand firearm safety, and you are the type of person who needs to be restricted from having a gun. Shooting first out of fear or anger is the dumbest thing you can do with a firearm, and it goes against everything you say you want to protect. Futhermore, your ascertation an unarmed public is easier to explot… In the wake of George W Bush’s reign, I say an armed public is just as easily exploited by the government as an armed one. The DHS, The Patriot act, unjustified wiretaps…. Who’s free now?
If you want an argument about gun control from me, here it is. Gun control is designed to prevent the ignorant members of the public from owning a gun. The reason why there are so many gun related deaths in the US compared to other countries, is because Constitutionally defended gun ownership puts guns in the hands of the ignorant. Gun control does not penalize the responsible. Just because you WANT a gun, doesn’t mean you should have one. If I walk into a gun shop, and I ask for a gun, and tell the clerk it’s because I want to rob liquor stores, is that shop owner going to sell one to me? I hope not… If I say it’s because I want to have some fun shooting up an old car I have sitting in my back yard – the shopkeeper better kick my ass out of the store. It’s just dangerous. Gun control prevents idiocy, ignorance and accidents thereof – not gun related assaults or robberies.
I don’t think we need to deny people the privilege to own a gun (And it is a privilege, not a right) – so long as they’re up to the task of being responsible with it.
To further counter the argument an armed public is a safe public, why don’t we issue guns to people on planes to prevent terrorism? It’s because guns give people a false image of safety and security. One stray bullet could kill the entire plane. Quite frankly, the same is true about your family – one stray bullet and you could tear your entire family apart. You should treat that with some respect, regardless of where you stand on gun control. You should understand that a firearm is capable of killing quite quickly and effectively, regardless of who ends up getting shot. I say, It’s your duty to ensure you don’t let your family get shot – either by intruders, or by your own ignorance… And if you ignore the argument that one needs to be responsible for their firearms, you DEFINITELY should NOT be allowed within 50 feet of one.
Here’s a CNN interview clip with the vehicle dealer that is giving away an AK-47 with every purchase: http://republicbroadcasting.org/?p=3210
After reading a few of the comments, I can only assume a large percentage of the viewers here have yet to “man up”. I am a man. I handle myself as a man in any situation. If my house is invaded by armed criminals, I will attempt in a very manly fashion to put bullets in them before they have a chance at my family. Owning or using a firearm is not manly only when the user or owner is not manly.
Someone asked for statistics on how many people actually protect their home with a gun. These are not statistics, but a collection of newspaper links to stories of self-defense. Scroll to the bottom. I live in Texas, where free men can still choose to own a gun. If you choose not to own a gun, more power to you. If you live in a place where you do not have the choice, it is because a politician has taken it away from you.
http://www.keepandbeararms.com/default.asp
I like the smileyface by the 8th cartridge.
Most Europeans, it would seem, tend to think all American gun owners are deluded cowboy, red neck, right winger types. You’d be surprised how many Americans who consider themselves liberal on politics and social matters are ardent 2nd Amendment supporters there are. The same can be said for other groups that DO support gun ownership for protection like women, gays, and other minorities who are at a greater risk of threats from stupid minded people.
I consider myself a liberal minded person on politics and social matters but tend to err from what is considered a conservative position. I really don’t see any problem with the head of a household possessing a handgun or the like for protection. The problem is that most Americans fail to realize each others positions and locales. If you live somewhere out in the boon docks, where your neighbor is 2 miles or more away and the state police are possibly 30 – 60 minutes away, and you may as well be a hunter, then yes you should probably be owning a gun of some kind. However, if you are living in some co-op in some city while I still think you have the right to own, I think it would be less likely.
I personally do not own a gun, nor do I plan on it. However, if you do own one, please make safety and responsibility your highest priority. What I don’t agree with is possession of a cache of AK-47’s and other high powered artillery in a secret room in your basement. Those kind of people are the nut bars who should never be within 50 miles of a loaded weapon, and ruin it for the rest of us. What we should be focusing on is halting the illegal gun trade which does flow from the US into places like Mexico helping to fuel drug wars, and as another poster mentioned, Canada. As a gun owning nation, we should at least be responsible for our borders with our neighbors and what is leaving them.
Now, I have been to Britain. It is an absolutely beautiful, terrific country with great people. However, while I may be one who supports your system of health care and social security, I don’t like the idea of such an overprotective “nanny” state on security matters. London was a great city, but I was really bugged out by all the CCTV cameras on basically every corner. Not to mention the whole idea of a national identity card etc. We liberals (well at least this liberal) don’t take very kindly to that idea either. Way too 1984ish for me. Not to mention the fact that it seems your urban areas are constantly ravaged by groups of young punks (Chavs, or scallys, or whatever you call ‘em) wielding butcher’s knives or whatever they can get their hands on, preying on innocent and law abiding citizens. And it seems that any citizen who tries to protect themselves against these thugs seem to end up punished by the law while these no good kids get no more than a slap on the wrist.
I’m also a liberal who loves Charles Bronson movies…
Bronson: “Hey Pally, do ya believe in Jesus?
Thug: “Yes, sir.”
Bronson: “Well, you’re gonna meet him.” BA-BANG.
Plus, I don’t want to live in a country where the only gun owning people are Sarah “Moose-jaw” Palin. YIKES!
Well, sorry for rambling. I still love this great site by the way.
The gun isn’t for validating manliness. When there is a big nasty with bad intent standing across your living room that phone ain’t doing squat. If you don’t have a gun you better hope he doesn’t have a blade. And if he’s got a gun then just kiss your *** goodbye. Those that are so horrified by guns aren’t in touch with reality. Yes, a gun is for killing. But if you use it right its killing the right people.
Well your site surely got a blip in terms of visitors, didn’t it?
But let me join those regular readers who oppose articles such as this one. Guns have nothing to do with the art of manliness. If you believe they do, I will not think twice about not droppnig by and spreading the word.
@OpenMindedAmerican
good post. I agree that it makes sense for people living in the boonies to own a gun. If it takes the police one hour to reach you and worse comes to worse, you’re on your own.
Europeans often fail to relate to that problem, because our continent (or at least western Europe) is a crowded place with civilization always near. In Europe it’s not easy to live away from civilization even if you’d want to.
But I still don’t agree with the general right to bear arms. I think that is a relic from the wild west that has no place in modern society. People that need weapons because they are hunters or because they live very far out and truly have to protect themselves should get special permission, but not everyone. Guns should have no place in cities and suburbs. It’s a fact that having guns in the house increases the risk of death and ingury of the owners family with intruders or without. It’s also a fact that the U.S. has the greatest percentage of population in jail in the world, and a much higher crime rate than in Europe. So claiming that guns provide security is simply wrong.
I find the discussion about this article to be very interesting. I myself am a 22 year old male American firearm owner (multiple firearms if relevant to the conversation and in no way bragging). I am not an insecure guy seeking an esteem booster, nor where these guns in any way a danger to any of my nine younger siblings when I lived with my parents. I have handled my firearms with responsibility and care, they are used for hunting. That is their purpose, now if someone breaks into my home then they will probably be the most effective tool in warding off trespassers who’s intentions I cannot fathom. More effective I would assume than a phone, since it depends on the willingness of members of the police department to show up to my rescue in a prompt fashion.
I can see you those of you with a distrust of firearms picturing me as a yahoo who will shoot first ask questions later. And if you wish that opinion of me so be it. But as I am in way endangering anyone with my actions (nor ever have) I ask kindly that I be left alone with my own beliefs on the subject.
In response to “Jimmy” who first commented on this article, who claimed that eight children die a day due to firearms I would like to ask of the source for these numbers. Also I would like to point out that that number would indicate 2,920 deaths a year. A total that pales in comparison to those who die each year from auto accidents and pool related drownings. Yes just under three thousand is a lot, but as every death is a loss I feel we have bigger fish to fry. And again many of these deaths are perpetrated by criminals in near gun free zones such as Washington D.C. Not in “heavily armed” rural areas such as my parents in little out of the way Marlette MI.
I personally found this article quite enjoyable and – being an experienced, safe, and law-abiding gun owner – quite informative for a person unfamiliar with firearms.
I found many of the sharp criticisms about this article to be distasteful at best and downright bizarre at worst. While gun-rights, or lack thereof, can be a controversial issue for some people, the fact remains that many people do believe in the right to self-defense, and defense of one’s home and family, and, for those people, a proper education on firearms is the only responsible starting point.
I fail to see why an educational article about the use of firearms for lawful purposes has created such an uproar….
@High Flight-
I honestly do not know what happened to your comments. They are not in the spam filter. And I did not delete them. It is quite mysterious…..
@ Andrew Webster #291
Law abiding hunters who use their firearms as a method of self defense isn’t the issue, and in this statement you don’t strike me as a “gun nut”… The problem I mention is not one of shooting an intruder, but of shooting blindly at a suspected intruder. Then again, I don’t distrust firearms, I have a healthy respect for them, know their capabilities, and have enough experience with the development of youth, that I know how important it is to train youth on firearms if there is the possibility of them coming in contact with firearms. Many firearms related deaths are accidental, and regardless of how it compares with other statistics, it is a simple solution which should be implemented. Proper training, and assessment of maturity is required to gain a healthy respect towards firearms.
@ Todd #292
I think it is unfair to discriminate on age for this argument. As a 12 year old, when I was learning to fire a rifle, I had been taught a healthy respect for firearms. I understood at that young age, the folly of the Hollywood image of firearms, and I knew that safe storage, safe usage, and a high degree of maturity and awareness is required to handle a firearm. Handling a firearm should be a different state of mind. Always have a focus on the firearm. Always check a firearm when first picked up to see if it’s loaded. Always enable the safety when the firearm isn’t being fired. I know at least 30 other teenagers with me who learned the same marks of respect with firearms. Even today, 18 years later, I help deliver firearms safety training to youth aged 12-18. Every single one of them shares this respect. Maturity with firearms can be taught…
Jeez, Brett. You really ruffled some feathers with this one, didn’t you?
As a gun owner, a 23 year old young professional living by herself, and a hunter, I really must commend you for writing this article. Protecting your home and your loved ones is not only one of the capstones of manliness, but also of being a human being with common sense. Are you really going to just curl up in a ball in the corner and wait until the cops arrive 15 minutes too late while some nutjob slaughters your family? Of course not. If someone breaks into my house with an intent to hurt me or my family, I’m going to do everything in my power to stop that.
The childish reaction to an inanimate object is astounding. People kill people. Inanimate objects don’t.
That being said, while I’m glad that you mentioned in your article about firearm safety, I wish you would have detailed more about how important it is to not only take a firearm safety course (you may find one through the NRA here: http://www.nrainstructors.org/searchcourse.aspx if you live in the United States), but also to practice, practice, practice. If you have the time, I highly recommend twice per month at least.
Great article! Looking forward to more.
This is, in my mind, all that needs to be said:
http://www.billstclair.com/DoingFreedom/000623/df.0600.nca.gunstore.html
I posted before just stating that the article should have included more information on gun safety (since this article is for first-time gun owners), but after reading the comments, I have a new concern: rampant home invasion.
How many people have suffered a home invasion? I wasn’t aware that it happened so often, I figured it was a rare crime, hyped up by movies like Death Wish. Seriously, people, the “drugged-up home invader” that feels no pain is a myth created by the media. I know that PCP exists, and I have known people who used, but I’ve never heard of one of those people pulling a home invasion on a high. It’s usually when they DON’T have drugs that they are desperate enough to pull a B&E.
I do not believe that more than a handful of you have every had an encounter that might have warranted using a gun in self-defense. I have, but seeing as how I do not have a license to carry and now live in an apartment in the city, I do not have any firearms on me. If you carry yourself in a confident manner, people think twice about bothering you. I’m the “crazy white boy” in my neighborhood, I laugh in the face of muggers. I don’t carry anything of value on me in my neighborhood, and the few times I have been bothered, I just tell them that. The one time a guy (he had a friend, but the friend was too nervous) tried to put his hands on me, I just stepped back, laughed, and said “Really?” and he thought about it, then walked away. These people don’t want to commit these crimes, most of the time. If you act right, nothing will happen to you.
I actually had a man try to pull a home invasion on me, the one time I actually heard about this happening in real life, it happened to me. He was pretending to be a maintenance guy for our apartment building. He was surprised that I opened the door as he was trying use a “tap key” to get in. Keep in mind, I answered the door in gym shorts and a t-shirt, not holding any sort of intimidating weapon, let alone a firearm, and the guy just stammered his way through an apology and left.
MANLINESS is better defense than a firearm. Knowing how to act and where to be (or not) are the most important things in the world. As much as you people will hate to admit it, a phone call to the police has saved more lives than civilian gun owners. I’m sure that a great number of the gun owners here ARE very skilled and responsible, for that I commend you, but please do not make the mistake of thinking that every citizen owning a gun could ever take the place of our men in uniform.
Also, I don’t know why anyone would otherwise, but when you aim a firearm at a living thing, you are going to kill it. For some reason, many of you think that shooting someone is just about stopping them from doing whatever it is that caused you to shoot them in the first place, but it is about stopping them permanently. My grandfather was a Marine and a deputy during a turbulent time in his hometown, and he taught me to shoot. After handling firearms for years, they still made him uneasy. He told me that a man should never feel comfortable holding a gun, he should always be alert, because comfortable men make mistakes. He taught me that a gun should never be drawn if you did not intend to KILL someone. If you try to aim to merely disarm or impede someone, the chance of missing and possibly injuring bystanders increases.
Oh, by the way, for all of the people debating the best caliber balance for stopping power and recoil, try the 10mm.
Most of the studies done have shown its remarkable stopping power for the recoil (hardly an increase from the 9mm).
It’s a little exotic, you might have to look harder or pay a little more, but it may be worth it for your wife/girlfriend/etc.
I liked the article, informative but not too extensive or confusing. I got similar advice when I decided to make my first home defense purchase. I prefer a 20 gauge coach gun, which is a side by side shotgun. It easily opens up and it only takes the two shells at a time. It also has a shorter barrel for indoor use. When you open it up you can see right down the barrels and know it is empty, also why I prefer revolvers over semi-automatic weapons. When I was younger my personal home defense was a cast iron skillet. I am older now and those skillets are rather heavy to swing. Being older I also wouldn’t want some young drug addict who broke into my house to be that close to me. If you choose to let someone else defend you by all means get a phone. As a boy I was taught gun safety and a very health respect for firearms and it is still with me today. Part of the problem with guns today is that too many Parents and Grandparents don’t teach their children about guns (because of political correctness and hysteria), they hide them away and when the kids happen upon them unprepared for the danger they pose, accidents happen.
As a child my Grandfather taught me about guns and their dangers and he never locked his up. They were within reach but because of the safety and respect he taught for firearms my brothers and I never touched his guns without his permission and supervision. When we turned of age to hunt we all received guns, but they were kept at my Grandfather’s house and we didn’t touch our own guns without his permission and supervision.
I would always (and have) advised people to take a gun safety course before you purchase and use a gun. I would also advise anyone thinking about buying a gun to find someone who has the types you were interested in and ask if they would take you shooting. Make sure you are comfortable with that type of gun before you purchase. If you do not like guns or are uncomfortable with them, might I suggest a cast iron skillet or baseball bat (as a Just in case) until the Police can get to you. Even with a gun I would call the cops first if I am able. I will be most happy if I can live my life without ever having to shoot someone.
Honestly, as a gun owner (yes, I have a handgun license) and woman, I cannot believe the nonsense I’m reading here. What a bunch of babies! What, may I ask, are those men who can’t embrace gun ownership, or even talk about the possibility intelligently, doing on this site? Go back home to mama, boys, you don’t belong here.
Interesting comments. It seems that American culture and values are equal to doggy doo to many of the posters. We, as Americans, are berated for not respecting other people’s cultures, yet here is an international readership doing the same to Americans.
I am a gun owner, a veteran and a father of 6. Zero kills for my guns. Yet I’ve lost five friends to drunk drivers. I would think drinking is legal in most of the world? How many die from alcohol and it’s effects, yet it’s believed owning a gun will destroy civilization?
People were killing each other for thousands of years with rocks and pointed sticks, guns are not the issue at all. If a villian breaks into my house and threatens my family, I am fully capable of killing said villian with a hammer or my bare hands, my Winchester just makes it easier.
Hmm, this is an interesting discussion. The gun blog is a bit unsettling but I’m not really against gun ownership. The problem is that you can know when *you* are ready but theres no way to tell when other people are responsible enough. That’s the issue. As many have said, there are plenty of cases when people have had horrible things happen because their kids got hold of their firearms. (example: http://www.destructoid.com/boy-accidentally-shoots-brother-dead-over-videogame-fight-135647.phtml )
I don’t think firearms are good for home defense at all. The Majority of break-ins are thefts not murders (I don’t have any statistical backing but I think its fair to assume). So any use of a firearm is likely to make things worse because use of a firearm is not considered self defense in most cases as it is not “reasonable action” (Coming from my legal studies).
As a hobby, or a sport I think guns are great. Even gun maintenance can be very theraputic, its like working on my car. I don’t think the tone of the article was overly “gun happy” and the emphasis on gun safety and responsibility is definately there, although some more info would actually be very interesting i.e gun storage as suggested above.
I think this is a very good post. I appreciate it and believe that we should all have the right to own guns and defend ourselves.
Ben
The whole anti-gun movement seems to be part of a larger trend to encourage people not to do things themselves in an effective manner but to rely upon a government entity which does a low quality job, slowly and inefficiently.
I’m somewhat surprised at some of these comments, but probably shouldn’t be. It’s manly to stand by and watch while your wife and kids are victimized? And always keep in mind–when seconds count, the police are only minutes away.
I just found this website today and this was the first blog post that I have read on this site, and I’ve been thinking all day about how to respond to these comments. I would have to write a book to explain my viewpoint on guns, their uses, and safety. I collect guns and own several, but I try not to think of them as weapons for defense but instead I appreciate them more for their ascetic value, quality and craftsmanship. I don’t think that a gun is necessary for home defense.
Some people above say that a gun is built to kill and for nothing else and they imply that anyone who owns a gun intends to shoot someone in time. What if someone has a collection of exotic swords they may be weapons but you wouldn’t suspect them of wanting to use them to hurt someone. In my life guns are collectibles, heirlooms, sporting goods, and investments. I understand how dangerous they are but try not to think of them as weapons. I am painfully aware of how they can be misused in the wrong hands.
I don’t really like the way the author of this blog post suggest that you should grab your gun when you “hear something go bump in the night” I feel that people who do this are people who are liable to shoot someone by mistake. But I also think it’s a bit of an excessive how offended and unsettled some people were just because this was an article about guns. However I am not going to put those people down for their opinions because like the freedom to bare arms I also believe in the freedom of speech.
Personally I am less afraid of a person who owns a dozen or more guns and keeps them in an oak gun cabinet, and more cautious of people who own just one gun and keep it loaded on their bedside table saying it’s for “defense”.
I just found this website today and this was the first blog post that I have read on this site, and I’ve been thinking all day about how to respond to these comments. I would have to write a book to explain my viewpoint on guns, their uses, and safety. I collect guns and own several, but I try not to think of them as weapons for defense but instead I appreciate them more for their ascetic value, quality and craftsmanship. I don’t think that a gun is necessary for home defense.
Some people above say that a gun is built to kill and for nothing else and they imply that anyone who owns a gun intends to shoot someone in time. What if someone has a collection of exotic swords they may be weapons but you wouldn’t suspect them of wanting to use them to hurt someone. In my life guns are collectibles, heirlooms, sporting goods, and investments. I understand how dangerous they are but try not to think of them as weapons. I am painfully aware of how they can be misused in the wrong hands.
I don’t really like the way the author of this blog post suggest that you should grab your gun when you “hear something go bump in the night” I feel that people who do this are people who are liable to shoot someone by mistake. But I also think it’s a bit of an excessive how offended and unsettled some people were just because this was an article about guns. However I am not going to put those people down for their opinions because like the freedom to bare arms I also believe in the freedom of speech.
Personally I am less afraid of a person who owns a dozen or more guns and keeps them in an oak gun cabinet, and more cautious of people who own just one gun and keep it loaded on their bedside table saying it’s for “defense”.
Wow. I expected there to be some dissenting comments, but I didn’t expect so many to be so bitchy. Very dissappointing, men. If you don’t like guns and don’t want to own on, fine. Thats your right. I just wish you would respect my right to own one or two or ten or however many I want since my Constitution allows me that.
I don’t drink and I don’t support drinking. But when an article gets posted about alcohol, I don’t start whining and telling everyone how awful alcohol is and how many lives it destroys (even though drunk driving alone kills far more than guns do every year) and threaten that I don’t like this site anymore. I open up a can of man and move on. I wish some people would do the same.
And if you think the telephone is the best defense for you and your family, good luck with that. I hope you never get attacked in your home. If you ever do, the cops will most likely get there just in time for the clean up. Assuming the call got through, I would have to wait 15 minutes for the sheriff’s deputy to drive out to my place from town to get help. A lot can happen in 15 minutes. I think I’ll just be ready to protect myself, my family, and my property instead because thats my right.
The name of this site is “The Art of Manliness” If you don’t like manly things like guns or self defence then maybe you should collect your Barbi dolls and go to another site.
Regarding the article:
Semi-automatic shotguns make the exact same sound, when you pull the charging handle, as a pump shotgun makes when you rack the slide. The pump shotguns are going to be more reliable, and perform well with a broader variety of ammunition.
You still have to aim a shotgun. At ranges inside your home (i.e., under 5 meters/15 feet), shot spread is pretty much neglible. The vast majority of shot will hit in a single mass. And you may wish to consider the FBI standard shotgun: a 20ga loaded with #4 buckshot, vs. the usual police shotgun, the 12ga loaded with 00 buckshot. Recoil is significantly reduced. A children’s model 20ga is probably easier to handle than a full sized weapon. US laws require all shoulder weapons be at least 26″ in overall length, in addition to the barrel length laws — minimum 18″ for shotguns, 16″ for rifles.
Revolvers are not going to have reloading issues in combat, as even a good auto can when paired with bad ammunition. In that regard, they are more reliable. However, they typically are less durable, and will break down more often. Accuracy with handguns requires regular practice.
If you are going to get a semi-automatic handgun with a safety, practice moving the safety into “fire” when you pick up the gun. You avoid firing by not putting your finger on the trigger until you have your sights lined up on a target — a vitally important safety rule for ANY firearm.
Regarding the commentary:
Using a gun for self defense rests upon a presupposition: that if it is either you or the other guy who is going to die, it is right, proper, and just for you to slay your attacker. If you do not think this is so, you ought not to own a gun for defense.
However, this also suggests that you do not believe that protecting the lives of others, or yourself, is important enough to do yourself, but something you ought to leave to others. Never mind that response times for those you are relying upon to protect you and yours varies from 15 minutes and 48 hours, which is often plenty for an unopposed assailant to murder a number of people.
Part of proper gun storage is teaching other members of the household how to safely handle a gun. You need to teach them the following four rules:
1. Every gun is always loaded. You never assume that it is not. Teach them to presume that any gun they find is loaded and should be treated as such.
2. Never point a gun at something, if you do not want to see any holes in it. Point it at a floor or ceiling or a sturdy wall (and most interior walls, especially in modern construction, do NOT count).
3. Never put your finger inside the trigger guard or on the trigger unless your sights are lined up on a target you intend to shoot.
4. Never fire at ANY unidentified target, or towards an uncertain backstop.
Gun defenses: see http://www.pulpless.com/gunclock/index.html Granted, this is for the US.
Overpenetration is a worthwhile consideration. This is one reason to favor a revolver — they will reliably fire frangible ammunition. It is also a good reason to pick a set spot to gather your family when you’re facing an intruder. Ideally, they will be behind the gun(s), and a narrow entryway in front of it.
“I bet Teddy Roosevelt had guns, and I bet he could outshoot Chuck Norris with them!”
I’ve watched enoug of “Walker, Texas Ranger” to be certain that Chuck Norris has almost no knowledge of gun use whatsoever.
If you are unwilling to use an illegal weapon, improvise with something that is legal — a hammer, a hatchet, a chair, a stick, a pen, a kitchen knife, a cricket bat, a shovel, whatever. That’s what most “martial arts” weapons are — a kama is a harvesting sickle, a sai is a pitchfork, nunchuku are a tool for knocking rice off of the stalks, and a tonfa is a handle for turning a millstone, and a bo is a walking stick.
Nonlethal weaponry has one very serious limitation: it does not frighten an attacker who is ready to make it either your life or his.
@ Punditus Maximus: I’m pretty sure the studies you are citing (if you can name them) are gravely flawed. Consider reading John Lott: http://www.lib.uchicago.edu/~llou/guns.html
As to the .45 ACP Glock: the grip is REALLY large. I have large hands and could barely hold it straight and still reach the trigger. The .45 GAP has a grip the same size as the Glock 17 (9mm Para), which I could easily handle.
@Logan in San Francisco (#105): You are fortunate, that your attacker was sufficiently rational to flee a threat. That is the preferred outcome, of course. But make up your mind that if the next B&E is not deterred, that you will shoot him. Otherwise, you take the risk of arming him with your gun.
@Charles from Alberta (#107): In very restrictive US jurisdictions (e.g. Washington DC, New York City) approximately 1/3 of confiscated, illegal handguns are made by unlicensened machine shops. If you have CNC lathes, you have the capacity for local manufacture.
@Jack, #152: Substitute PCP or crystal meth for LSD, and it’s entirely valid.
@Charles, #153: “Before leaving the factory do a ballistic test, store the information. Note the serial number of each weapon.” The problem is that what allows the police to tell bullets fired from one weapon from those fired from another of the same model is a series of random scratches in the barrel. Those scratches are acquired through use and cleaning, and won’t be there when the weapon is new.
@N, #176: It’s worth noting that the main reason women getting injured when raped and women resisting rape correlate so much is because women tend to start violent resistance right after the rapist starts beating them.
@Pieter, #187: “How are you going to explain all those bits of brain and shards of skull in your livingroom to the police (or your kids, for that matter).” I’ll discuss it with my lawyer, not the police. I would much rather be tried by twelve than carried — in a pine box — by six. And I’ll tell the kids, “I wish he’d run away, but he didn’t. Would you rather it was him who was dead, or me?”
“How is your wife going to react when a rapist comes up, she tried to shoot him, but the jerk just grabbed the gun out of her hand?” I’m a lucky man, my wife is a hellcat. And, thanks to her law enforcement training, she knows gun retention techniques.
“How are you going to react when your kid just found your guns and tried to show off at school and wastes his best friend?” My kids know better than to show off with a gun, point it at anyone they haven’t decided to shoot, presume that it’s unloaded, put their finger on the trigger when they’re not aiming it at somebody they’re ready to shoot, or shoot at an unidentified target.
“How are you going to react when the burglar you just shot turns out to be your 16 year old daughter who sneaked out to go on date?” I never ever shoot or even AIM at an unidentified target.
Now, if you can’t handle those things, by all means don’t get a gun. But please don’t suggest that because *you* cannot handle them, I and/or my wife cannot either.
@Todd, #253: As of 1:00 AM EDT, 4 August 2009, there have been 1,428,926 defensive gun uses in the US -=>THIS YEAR<=-. Lethal gun accidents: 278. Gun homicides (which would include all people slain by guns, regardless of police, civilian, or criminal shooter): 7,535. Gun suicides (which are generally replaced by base-jumping suicides when guns are made unavailable): 9,944.
Source: http://www.pulpless.com/gunclock/index.html
@Punditus Maximus #251: Fascism (a society where everything comes from and depends upon the national government) IS coming to America. Barack Obama is bringing it. I am not cheering.
@Fingersoup: Re #1, over 95% of negligent discharges result from placing finger on trigger/inside triggerguard before deciding to fire. Until you have decided to fire, trigger finger belongs on the frame. A gun you cannot use is, well, useless.
Re #2, teach your kids to handle guns safely. Trigger locks will not stop them. The rest of what you have to say looks quite rational.
@David #260: You are absolutely right, in that an unarmed society is ripe for exploitation. Gun restrictions largely tell criminal elements, "Go here for helpless unarmed victims in an unlimited supply!"
@Eurofag, #284: why do you think that police are so much better able to learn how to safely handle a weapon than everybody else? Is it because of the inherent nobility of the profession?
While having a gun makes gunfire in the home more likely (you can't shoot a gun that isn't there), it also reduces the likelihood of violent crime, overall.
@Bill, #300. The rule for not shooting at unidentified targets or in the direction of uncertain backstops applies even when you are awakened by by a potential intruder. But having the gun handy means you can use it if the sound turns out to be a threat, and you can not use it if it turns out to not be.
The best weapon is a phone? Are you serious? Let me guess you live next door to a police station? One of my earliest memories is of my father shooting one of two men who entered our home with a crowbar and a revolver. I was only 7 but I remember very well. My mom called the police while her, my sister and I hid in the closet up stairs in my parent’s bedroom. They entered and my father shot one with a hunting type Remington 1100 that we still have today and they both fled, but were apprehended at the hospital. The police did arrive about 5 minutes later. Would you like 5 minutes with those men with nothing to protect yourself or your wife or your children. I’ll let you hope, pray and make calls all day long, but I’ll control my own life and not let another hold it in their hands.
I disagree. The people that are more likely to get shot at are the people not able to defend themselves. Think about it… If you were a robber and you were picking your next target would you choose the man with a 12 gauge next to his bed? Or the man with no gun. Another point is that if you shoot a man in purely self defense and can prove it there is no reason for you to have to go to jail. About the semis. My first gun was a semi and i loved it. The only switches i needed to know about was the magazine release and the switch that releases the slide. On mine when you griped the gun all the safeties were released. As for the shot gun I’d put that last. If the assailant is in your room it is much easier to reach to the night stand release the slide and pull the trigger. If you have a shot gun you’d have to reach over get into a comfortable shooting position cock it and then pull the trigger, plus you need two hands to operate a shotgun. NOTE the shotgun is an excellent home defense weapon IF it is stored in your office or some where where you’d have a warning and a minute or two to get ready. If i wrote the blog i would put the semi first (ease of use) revolver second (not enough rounds/load) and the shotgun last (not versatile enough).
Oh btw the Glock 21 is an EXTREMELY RELIABLE. Just look up G21 Torture test. A man buried his for 2 years dug it up washed it w/ some water and w/out lubricant bore cleaning or anything it shot 500 rds w/ something like 3-5 miss fires so your wrong about the reliablity
And I’ll wager that all you in favor of no guns are left wingers right?? If we take guns away from the people no one will get hurt. Am I wrong??? Well think about this how do the murderers, and all around creeps who kill people get guns anyway? Its probably no legally so take the guns away from the honest Americans the ones who just get them to defend themselves don’t have guns. And the guy out to get them gets his from the black market. The honest American is going to die. Where as if he got a CHLhe proably wouldn’t cause the insane kill isn’t gonna be after him hes carrying a 9mm
o yeah i was disagreeing w/ Tom and Pieter the ones at the top
Jimmy, Insecure men are those that feel scared/threatened by a gun.
A man must know how to handle firearms safely and a man must be capable of defending his family. PERIOD. You lack that ability, you’re not much of a man.
Your inability to calm down portraits you more like an hysterical women, rather than a man. Seems you have a metrosexual idea of a man, this is certainly not the place, according to what I’ve read so far.
Drew, nearly impossible means it’s not impossible. You don’t like guns, that’s your problem. Be a “man” about it and understand many other men, (such as the nice people in this blog) think differently, thank God.
Tom, you don’t like the blog, again be a man and just leave instead of crying about it.
Ben… leave, no one will miss you.
People from the AOM: Congratualtions!
Clearly you stand for what you claim, the rare ideal of a true man that certainly isn’t afraid of tools or weapons, or even taking a life in the gravest of situations. Soldiers and Police officers do that, so do fathers and husbands: Men. Real men.
Don’t let the cry babies that were just looking for a trendy manish style affect you the least.
A man stands for what he believes in, if these so called men feel hysterical about guns, it’s their own insecurities and nothing more.
I hope AOM never tries to change to adapt to that type of… men.
Keep up the good work!
Fernando “FerFAL” Aguirre
For a manly website, I must say, there sure are a lot of hysterical gun fearing sissies.
Fernando “FerFAL” Aguirre
I’m sure this guy felt REAL manly!
http://edition.cnn.com/2009/US/08/04/pennsylvania.gym.shooting/index.html
OK, so you think bringing a gun into your house is manly? If you think a gun can help you defend you’re family, you’re delusional:
* A properly and safely stored gun will not help you, when you need it the most (it should be locked away, separate from the ammunition).
If you keep your gun loaded and not locked away when not in use, I have just one thing to say:
* Your family needs protection against you.
* You are trying to defend your family at the expense of your family.
This is just another lesson in how medieval the American culture is, when it comes to protection. It’s like those pathetic kids bringing knives to school, it’s just for protection, right? Why how manly!
There are an abundance of non-lethal protective gear, an alternative not even mentioned in this article.
Thanks for the great post! Every real man knows how to defend himself and his family, and knowing how to use a gun is essential in the world we live in. I’d love to see mre posts like this!
To those Brits who think it’s “Oh, so backwards” to own a gun: We Americans love our freedoms and have spent much blood to protect them, going so far as to use our “evil” guns to save your country and continent.
I don’t truly expect anyone to read this, but…
I live in what has been recently called the second safest city in these fine United States. My average Police response time: ~10 minutes.
In ten minutes, I and my family could easily become victims of an intruder. I couldn’t care less if I lived in a perfect city, with no crime whatsoever; it is, quite frankly, the epitome of irresponsibility, not to mention the antithesis of manliness, to fail to take seriously the safety of myself and, more importantly my family. To me, that means taking the most effective measures, legal or otherwise, to ensure no one I am responsible for is injured in any way, under any circumstances, in my home. Call me a psycho, a loose cannon, or whatever else you will, but my family is my priority. I love peace as well as any man, but I am proud keep guns, among them a 12 gauge, and if an intruder enters my house, I will not compromise my family’s safety for anything. I wholeheartedly support training in firearms; I also support law enforcement (as well as the right to refuse to keep arms), but I wouldn’t trust my family’s safety to anyone else, even if they have a badge. A police officer has no emotional stake in my family’s safety. I do.
@Gallett: If bringing a 12 gauge into your house is your idea of putting your family first, you are psychotic. If you really did put your family first, you’d probably move to a safer country, where gun toting intruders are not so common, people living there are not so freaking paranoid, and your children would live in a firearms free (thus safer) environment.
@Bauer: How free are you really if you need a gun to protect yourself in your own house? The Americans might have used their guns to protect Europe, but the Europeans are the ones who’ve truly learned to appreciate the freedom that was given to them thru this.
Hi,
England is full of cowards. I moved here years ago and am shocked by the absolute lack of courage among most men here. They will go out and get drunk and beat each other up, but to actually be a man, is to own the responsibility of not being a jerk and hide behind alcohol.
In the UK if you hurt the person who is attacking you in your home-you get arrested!
I think this post is great. America is filling up with wussies from what this blog represents.
Tim
I want to make another point. Being in Europe where the govt does everything for you, the idea of personal responsibility is being bred out of people. In the the UK, homeless people are put up in B&B. The great majority of these people are drug addicts and alcoholics. Talk about removing personal responsibility.
This is what Obama brings to the USA-removal of personal responsibility.
Tim
Remember guys (especially you folks in England, where crime is rather high now) that by the time the police get to you, the crime is ALREADY IN PROGRESS, and YOU must defend yourself against the criminal/criminals who are threatening you and yours with harm… Since the criminal is very unlikely to allow you access to a phone during the crime, you must rely on luck/fate to know the crime is in progress BEFORE you are attacked (hearing the bad guy rustling about downstairs, etc.)…
Fortunately, here in the US, we’re allowed access to firearms… A firearm, used responsibly, has stopped more crime/assaults than all the phone calls in history… Used irresponsibly, a firearm can cause great damage… I feel a deep swell of pity for those who live in countries where their own Government feels they aren’t responsible enough to protect themselves… That means that when the going gets tough, you’ll be looking for someone else to help you… Help that may or may not come…
And if you’re wondering about my background, I am an active-duty law-enforcement officer… And I realize full well, that despite our best intentions, police CAN’T be EVERYWHERE AT ONCE!! (And for those who think “Well, hire more cops”, remember, when there’s a cop on every corner, you live in a police state) Some of the responsibility for protecting YOU must be borne by YOU… In your home, a legal firearm is a very good deterrent to crime…
I am appalled to see this kind of article on Art of Manliness. Guns are horrible things. I own 5 guns, and they all randomly kills dozens of people at a time. Guns clearly kill people. “The best weapon for home defense is a phone. If bad people try to get in: call the cops.” I totally agree with this, (in all actuality, I am laughing hysterically at your logic) because when someone is breaking into my house, I think that they’d be kind enough to wait until the cops get there about thirty minutes later before they attempt anything. If someone ever breaks in at night, I think I’ll leave my Kimber .45 on my nightstand and plead with them to allow me to call the cops and not do hurt me since the cops are coming.
And to say that if you have a gun you are more likely to be shot is the largest pile off bull that I have ever heard in my life. If you have a gun and know how to use it, how do you figure you have more of a chance of getting shot? If you don’t have a gun, you can’t fight back. Where the heck is the logic? I am 19 years old and cannot begin to understand how full-grown “men” think like this. If someone breaks into my house, I am going to protect my family and paint my walls with the intruders brains. >GASPS<
How dare you write an article such as this? (sarcasm intended).
I would like to add that guns do not make a man manly, but guns are manly. I believe that males that are scared of guns are not men, but pansies, for lack of a better (harsher) word. All real men should own guns. Disagree with me, please. I’d love to hear what you “pansies” have to say.
Askilladden wrote the following: If bringing a 12 gauge into your house is your idea of putting your family first, you are psychotic. If you really did put your family first, you’d probably move to a safer country, where gun toting intruders are not so common, people living there are not so freaking paranoid, and your children would live in a firearms free (thus safer) environment.
Please, tell me where this firearms free (thus safer) environment exists. I’d love to move there so that it would no longer be firearms free. Wait, there is no such thing as “firearms free.” CRIMINALS WILL GET A HOLD OF GUNS
I can’t believe all of the emasculated and confused half-men in this thread denouncing the right of households to forcibly defend their lives and property. It’s a sad day when the first responses to a thread on a blog entitled “The Art of Manliness” are from people aghast at the obvious suggestion that the responsibility for one’s safety lies with the individual. Having lived all over the world in countries both advanced and backwards, I can’t help but recognize this as a troubling omen for the future of liberty.
I was told once by a man whos opinion i hold in high regard something about decisions, namely those involving life and death. Usually these decisions have options, to be summed up in a very general way they tend to be either, stay and fight or run away. When considering these options, any man with a family I would hope would decide to stay and fight. All that being said, the advice given to me by this man was very simple and plain.
“It is always better to be judged by twelve, than carried by six.”
First off, I didn’t read all the comments, I only got through the first couple of dozen. That said, I didn’t see the one critical element in this discussion, pertaining to the US, of course. Our constitution, 2nd amendment, gives us the responsibility to not only own, but carry, a weapon. I quote: “A well regulated militia, being necessary to the security of a free state, the right of the people to keep and bear arms, shall not be infringed. ”
Please note that the right of the people to keep and bear arms is inherent in the security of a free state. For those of you who live in other countries, I would offer that here in the US things are a little different. We don’t rely on the largess of a ruler for our freedom and security, we are tasked with that by our founding fathers. We, the people, are the well regulated militia, we, the people, are charged with the security of our state. That has been, and will continue to be, God willing, one of the responsibilities that men are charged with, the protection of themselves, their family, and their state. Our duty, gentlemen, is clear. If some of you choose not to carry, I can respect that, you are simply relying on the rest of us to protect you. I am comfortable with that. Talk to your local police, they will tell you that they are there for **backup**, not as a first line of defense. In the dark of the night, I don’t expect them to sit in my bedroom and protect me and my family, that is MY job.
Bottom line, if you choose not to own a firearm, if you choose to rely on others for your protection and the protection and security of your state, please don’t interfere with those of us who take that responsibility seriously. Please.
A long time ago I read a story about 3 kinds of people. There were the wolves, who prey on society, the sheep who are the prey, (that includes women, children, the elderly, the infirm, and those who choose not to protect themselves), and the sheep dogs. We sheep dogs, voluntarily, keep the wolves at bay. We put ourselves at risk to keep the sheep safe. Rather than berate us, I would simply ask that anyone who is NOT a sheep dog, just let us alone. Granted, the wolves want to pull our teeth for that will make preying on the sheep easier. Please don’t let them, don’t support your local wolf. And besides the wolves, always remember, “Politicians prefer unarmed peasants.”
Respectfully,
Doc
Well said, Doc.
First, the story to which he refers is “On Wolves, Sheep and Sheepdogs,” by LTC (Ret.) David Grossman. He’s a psychologist. Here’s a link:
http://mwkworks.com/onsheepwolvesandsheepdogs.html
There is a saying that “When seconds count the police are only minutes away.” If getting rid of guns were a path to a safe society, then Europe should be really, really safe. But that isn’t the case. Indeed, completely apart from this conversation, I am of the opinion that Europe is entering a period of substantially increased violence. While the people who are bringing the violence to Europe will have no problem obtaining firearms, their victims will not be able to defend themselves. This is not new. It has been growing in Europe over the past couple decades. And in the U.S. the more restrictions that have been placed on firearms and firearms ownership, the more violent our society has become. Counterintuitive? Only if you don’t understand human nature.
The United States is not such a violent place. No doubt you in Europe are regaled by the stories, but remember that the U.S. is one of the largest single countries in the world, and had the most free press. What’s more, that press, by and large anti-gun, has a self-interest in inflating the stories. On top of having an agenda, that being making people afraid of guns, they practice “yellow journalism” to sell more papers. There certainly are more firearms in the U.S. than just about any other place in the world. But if they were made illegal, then the only people who would be unarmed would be the law-abiding citizen.
There are some basic differences between Western (meaning U.S.) and Eastern (meaning in this case European) theories of social order. The U.S. theory of governance, which springs from the Western social order is based on the idea that each individual has a God-given right to “Life, Liberty and Property.” It sounds almost like the line in the U.S. Declaration of Independence, doesn’t it? In fact, the term “pursuit of happiness” was intended as an expansion, or further explanation, of the right to property, and not a new concept.
The concept of the individual having a right to being secure in his property is possibly the most critical element that has led to the progress and prosperity achieved in the United States. A person has an inherent right to keep and protect that which he owns. An inherent principle in that right is the right to defend that which is yours. And that is the source of the Second Amendment.
My first responsibility to my family is to protect them. I’ll do so with whatever means available. My family is safer, and my property is more secure, because I can defend them. Am I paranoid? No. Am I safer than if I didn’t have the ability to defend myself? Yes.
Guns dangerous? Not really. It’s the people. Accidental shootings do occur, but far more people are hurt and killed in vehicle accidents, pool drownings, accidental poisonings, and many other things. Just as I have learned to drive safely, and swim, and read, I have learned to handle firearms safely.
Is a telephone an adequate substitute? No. See paragraph two above. Police dispatch recordings are rife with callers waiting for the police to arrive while somebody breaks in and assaults/rapes/kills the caller.
Is a firearm a cure-all? Hardly. But it is an important tool, and in trained hands, an effective one.
I am an x-cop 8 years service in a small town. The phone call to the police is not going to save you it takes time for any pd to get to the address if it is the right address
and a lot of bad things can happen in the 8 or 10 min’s it takes for the cops to get to a crime!! Most police departments only come into play after the fact!!
So you have to be your owne hero!
Well, well… Anyone who refuses to own a gun, to be responsible to use it safely, or rely on other men for their protection deserves what they get. The police have no obligation to protect you. Go ahead call the cops. They will come to discover either the evil men dead, wounded or fled, OR the homeowner robbed, injured or dead. Their job is to investigate the crime. How many people all over the world do not have such great a responsibility or right to defend themselves? The sheer amount of guns in U.S. homes correlated with the number of accidental shootings, illustrate that it is much safe to own a gun than to go to the doctor!!! There is nothing more manly than to hunt for your own supper or protect the ones you love.
Proper gun usage always takes into account what is behind the target. There are no lethal rounds that do not over penetrate AND stop the threat to your life. One must always think about what is on the other side. for exhaustive real world research on this, I submit the “box of truth” website. http://www.theboxotruth.com Here is not only real affects of various rounds on real world objects, but also proper and safe gun handling.
I would submit the addition of a rifle to the choice for home defense. With proper training and usage, nothing will stop the threat of your life like a good .308. Remember, you do not shoot to kill, that is for the movies and jail cells. You shoot to STOP THE THREAT TO YOUR LIFE!!! Thank you for your time.
Great article i cant believe what im reading on this website from all these so called men that would rather have a phone and call the police than to own a gun and be responsible with it like a real man that understands how to operate the gun efficiantly and safely a gun is not for someone trying to compensate for anything what is more manly than a gun are we really becomeing a nation of pansies for all the men that run this site make it a requirement to even look at this glorious site that you must own a gun come on guys let em klank be some real men
I found the artical to be well writen and honest. The thought that anyone would call the police and run to personal safety baffels me. Police are historians, don’t beleive me, have you watched the current TV shows or read the papers or watched the news. The police arive at the scene after the worst has happened and then try to find guilty party. Unless you have a means of defending yourself you are a potentially easy target. Personally I would give my life defending my family, and I will do so with any means at my disposal.
Truth is yes guns can be manly. But this website has been about being a good man a good father etc. When your kids finds your gun and accidentaly shoots himself or some other person. There is a problem. You want to be manly? You want to protect your family? Get a knife and know how to use it. If your kid finds it, maybe he’ll cut himself. Minimal injury as opposed to a gun. Now if you know what your doing with that same knife and somebody attacks your family, if your man enough you’ll win. If your a real man you don’t need something as easy as a gun to fight your battles.
Benjamin, what you are advocating is very, very dangerous. There’s a saying that I hear occasionally, and I have dealt personally with cases where it was absolutely true : “Don’t bring a knife to a gun fight.”
Cutting edge weapons are, indeed, very dangerous. Never make light of them. But if you attack with a knife a person armed with a gun, the odds are that the gun will be drawn and probably pointing at you before you start. You’ll lose the race.
And being proficient with cutting edge weapons requires a LOT of training and practice. As important as it is to be trained and then practice with firearms, it takes far more effort to become and stay proficient with cutting edge weapons.
The concern about your children finding and firing a firearm is vastly overblown. With proper care on your part, it won’t happen. If you also properly train your children, the risk shrinks even further. It is true that a lot of teenagers and young adults are killed by firearms, but accidental shootings are relatively rare. Most such shootings are gang-related. That’s tragic enough. But they aren’t accidents.
In short – if you bring a knife to a gunfight, unless you are incredibly lucky, you die.
I liked the article. You need to make your own decision about owning a gun or not. I have owned guns for 25 years and have never had to defend my home, but if I had to I would. The pump shotgun is my personal choice.
I would like to add that there is one other bonus of the shotgun. If loaded with birdshot, like #6 or #8, it can be very effective at close range, but the smaller shot loses energy much faster when going through walls than a pistol round, which makes it less likely to injure family or neighbors in the next room or next house.
Well the sheer number of readers who were shocked and awed about an article about guns illustrates the massive wussification of the male species. I thought the article was accurate and responsibly written, what with the chapter on Safety (and the picture is hilarious).
For those who ask, “why have a gun in the home at all?” Here is an answer:
When you wake up at 3AM to the sound of glass breaking downstairs in your home that happens to be 10, 15, or 20 minutes away from the nearest police officer, and, even after you shout, the footsteps continue to get louder closer (in other words, you know they’re not just there for your jewelry or the plasma TV), your question will, to your horror, be answered.
To the men with the Mossberg 500, there is nothing like a conspicuous “chik-chik” of a pump action to ensure that those footsteps quickly fade in the direction from whence they came.
I was raised with firearms as a part of daily life, I was taught from an early age that they are not a toy. Now I am full grown and have my own family. Long story short, I have alwayse had access to a gun and I have never had one discharge unless I wanted it to, am I the exception? No, I just had a great involved father who taught me how to be a man, and not a dumbass. If a kid finds a gun in the house and god forbid shoots some one then I blame the parents for not doing their part as well as the kid. Its not society’s Fault!
A gun is an inanimate object it is not capable of thought or action. So to say that they are bad is like saying your toaster is bad because it could burn or electrocute someone. It is the person not the tool or piece of equipment. There are many uses for guns. Self defense is only one and it is one of the best. You look at crime world wide and guns are the least of our problems. Look at the genocide in Africa. Over 100,000 people were murdered or maimed, guess what was used Machetes and Farm Tools. Not Guns. So lets form a coalition to ban all farming and the tools used to do it. People have a right to defend them self in every situation without exception. They should be allowed to use whatever they see fit to do so. Don’t forget the person being attacked is the victim. Not the person attacking. The criminal is the one committing the heinous act the the person who is defending themselves or another.
It’s truly incredible the range or emotional reactions this stirred up. I read this article a long time ago and never thought twice about it… except for maybe some of the info on the guns… I guess the culture here in the United States is so supportive of guns that it never occurred to me that international readers would be so upset by it.
Nevertheless the ability to effectively protect one’s family is a decidedly manly trait and owning and being able to properly and effectively use a firearm is the best way to do that, hands down.
No one ever needs a gun, until they do. In a very large country like the US, with porous borders and more people and sheer size than a police force can effectively patrol, where violent crime is not an everyday or common occurrence-but it still happens- I thank God that I have the right to own a firearm to protect my family. It happens in the greater metro area where I live- violent home invasions where innocent people are often harmed and assaulted either sexually or physicallly. For no reason other than that some gang members or career criminals decide to go out and get some thrills and feel powerful. What kind of Man are you that you do not love your family or value your own life enough to defend them or your own life? How could you live with yourself if you won the lottery that day and your house was picked, and YOU were too cowardly to be prepared for an event that happens, a LOT in the US. Appalling? Yes. But shame on you when you could have been prepared and were not. Police will respond of course, and assuming the nice murdering scum allow you to make your call they will do their best to get there in a timely fashion. Sure, but that’s more than enough time to lose everything you care about in this world. Can’t believe this? Can’t put yourself in my shoes? Count yourself lucky but do NOT deign to condescend or look down your nose , we do what we have to do, because we are free Men in America, and we are by need self reliant. Other points above are completely relevant as well, and deserve respectful consideration.
@Askilladden:
you really cannot imagine anyone being able to safely handle a gun, can you? Trust me, the gun safety / handling / combat training that police get is not really all that extraordinary, and only a complete elitist would presume that only the very finest of men could learn such things. You can find all the rules you need for safe gun handling (there are only 4) in my earlier post, #304.
@Benjamin, #333:
It’s actually *easy* to teach children to be safe around guns. In fact, keeping children ignorant of safety rules leaves them likely to point and shoot, should they find a gun, instead of leaving them alone. This is one of the things the NRA does pretty well. You can find all the rules you need for safe gun handling (there are only 4) in my earlier post, #304.
Jimmy . . . you’ve said your piece about guns. I understand what you’re saying and totally disagree. First of all no “Manly Man” would go by the name Jimmy, he would go by Jim or James. Secondly, he would say his piece and then let everyone make his own decision. Thirdly, you’re not going to convince anyone who doesn’t already share your viewpoint . . . so let it go. We understand you’re afraid of weapons and the use of them. I for one am tired of your ramblings.
I think their are many sound people here. And a lot of “unsound” people here. Askilladden you are one of the unsound people here. Seriously a phone? If your worried about kids blowing their head off teach them not to. They’re a lot smarter than you think they are. Discipline used in moderate portions does the job. What good is a phone gonna do? Yeah call the cops wait five minutes for them to get there while the robber is taking everything you love. Just a question… are you a left winger? Anyway if (god forbid) someone does break into your home what are you going to do?
seriously Askilladden gun safety is not as complicated as it sounds…
This article has revealed a deeper truth about being a man that I think most readers have missed. As has been stated by many, being able to defend one’s family is a basic criterion of being a man and hence the article on the best firearm for performing that task.
What all the those who fear guns are actually trying to say is that they fear the possibility of taking a life. A firearm is a tool. An effective tool for killing at distance both for food and personal defense and requires only the most basic of instruction to become deadly in the hands of most (hence armies of the world abandoned the bow). At the core, a firearm requires little more than pointing the weapon in the right direction and pulling the trigger in order to harm or kill. It ultimately makes killing easier for everyone.
A knife in the hands of someone skilled in the art of knife combat can kill someone faster and more efficient than someone with a firearm. Most people who are shot do not die instantly. The victim bleeds to death slowly. A well-placed slash from a knife can drain a person of their blood in seconds.
This brings me to the fear of killing and the anti-gun people. They don’t fear the tool. They fear the great potential for killing the tool represents. Becoming proficient with a knife takes time and practice. A couple hours at a gun range can potentially turn someone into a capable life-taker.
I do agree with the anti-gun people who state owning a firearm doesn’t make you more manly. A firearm has nothing to do with manliness. It’s the ability and more importantly the mental capacity to be prepared to end another person’s life in order to protect your own life and that of your family.
Let me just say that if anyone were to attempt to harm my family or myself I would do everything in my power to protect them or myself with any and all means at my disposal. A Sig 226 with a full magazine would be a great tool in such circumstances but given the opportunity a pencil through the eye socket has great “stopping” power too.
“I don’t start fights, I just finish them.”-Anonymous
To everyone saying that people only push the 2nd Amendment for their own ends, consider this:
If you told me right now that I could have all gun legislation in the US permanently repealed right now, in exchange for me never being able to own, shoot, or even touch a gun again, I wouldn’t hesitate for a moment to say yes.
Penis jokes, redneck jokes, and “you just don’t want to lose your toys” arguments are insulting and childish, and no real man would ever be so base as to use them. I’m not a redneck and I don’t have a small penis…I’m a Patriot that believes so strongly and fundementally in freedom, that gun-rights is an issue I would gladly lay down my life for.
Having guns available to people is just a bad idea. Thats how mass killing sprees happen. A kid at school gets constantly bullied, he goes home and gets his dads gun… Don’t say its a matter of where you keep your gun. I’m pretty sure a teenage boy would be able to get his dads gun. Making it easy for a criminal is definitely not a good idea. It pretty much promotes crime. Would you honestly want to kill a man because he broke in to your house, instead of just calling the police. (THATS WHAT THEY ARE THERE FOR!) to arrest this person. Is it really manly to shoot a man, think of his family, their son/brother/dad is dead, just because he made one bad decision. I just don’t see the logic.
There is nothing wrong with protecting your family. Every man has the ultimate responsibility to protect his family from anyone and anything. Also, a real man will be responsible for it and for who touches it.
Having a gun only makes you less of a man.
I have taken this blog off my RSS reader.
Every single person who posted complaints on this article should be thrown in jail. Not only does AoM have the right to post about anything they choose, this is a great choice for all mankind. Shame on any man weak and spineless enough to be too afraid to defend their loved ones. Go find a blog titled the Art of Feminine Behavior, because this blog is too good for you.
Wow, you sissies need to STFU. This site is called the Art of Manliness. If you dont own a gun I don’t consider you a man, and i would love to spit in your face.
You god-damned armchair constitutional lawyers talking about “the militia” and what you think it means. I dont want to be the gun loving cliche here, but go read Jefferson’s writing and tell me what the militia means. It’s not guns that are unconstitutional, it is our modern military and police.
And whoever said a phone is the best home defense weapon, you sir are a total moron. I have the guns to protect me FROM the police.
To our English friends-please explain why you all passed the Magna Carta?
Florida state conducted study with a finding that firearms were used to defend property and person 2.5 million times a year on average from an assailant. Thats One person every 13 seconds. There are reams of information available for individuals to look at, none the least is a study that was released by Harvard.
http://www.law.harvard.edu/students/orgs/jlpp/Vol30_No2_KatesMauseronline.pdf
To summarize it, gun control has never increased an individuals safety, and in certain instances, such as in the UK, has lead to an increase in the violent crime rate. Nor does loosening gun laws necessarily make the crime rate go down, though this has happened in the US.
Lastly, I gun doesn’t make a person more manly, nor does not having a gun make them less of a man. However, irrational fear of a tool does make an individual less manly, and real men will take whatever reasonable measures are available to them to protect their property, their life, and the lives of their loved ones.
Mossberg 12 ga. each morning goes back into gun safe. I have my CHL and carry a gun on my all day. Switch between Colt 1911 .45 acp or S&W modle 60. as back up I have a Kel Tec in my pocket.
Ruger mini 14 was over look. It shot the same round as the AR 15. But it does not look like an evil black rifle.
Mossberg is loaded first two rd. #5 shot, last three 00 Buck.
If you can drive a car you can lean to shot and gun. Once you start shooting you might be surprise how much fun it can be.
This is my first time reading anything on this site. Every one of you who is complaining about this article is displaying the exact opposite of manliness….stop bitching like a bunch of WOMEN…if you don’t like the article, oh well better luck next time. It is every man’s god given right to own a firearm if he wants. All I am reading is Wah Wah Wah you are be insensitive towards our feelings here in England….take off the skirt put on a pair of pants and move onto the next article…
The internationals (those from the UK) who have decided to leave this site are, IMHO, only doing what is natural for them – leaving a place men frequent. The purpose of the American 2nd Amendment is to preserve the right of a free people to destroy, by force of arms, their own Government should that Government become despotic. Since the UK is a soft-police state now and that condition has been accepted by the citizens of that sorry nation- those “internationals” are by definition not “men.’ They are serfs.
I will understand that these internationals will be offended by this opinion. Hard cheese. I have no obligation whatsoever to respect either your feelings or your country. I know that crime is London outstrips crime in many large cities in America and is vastly more common than large cities in the US where there are concealed carry laws and the almost unrestricted ownership of arms.
To make one final thing clear – I do not assert this position in some juvenile “my penis is larger than yours” contest. On the contrary, I view this with a very cold, calculating political eye. All through history those that rule have weapons, those that serve do not. The coolie looks up from his rice paddy as the Warlord goes by with his armed retainers. This has not changed regardless of the internet, space suits or instant coffee. Free men have the choice to own arms, slaves do not.
This was an excellent blog post. With unemployment reaching 20% and being in the middle of a worldwide recession; robberies, thefts, and vandalism will only get worse. The vast majority of gun owners DO NOT buy them to shoot other human beings. They use them to hunt, target shoot, and for personal protection. Some of you people need to wake up. It’s not about being “manly”. It’s about exercising our right as an AMERICAN CITIZEN.
“To disarm the people… was the best and most effectual way to enslave them.”
– George Mason, June 14, 1788
I have carried a gun for over 20 years! And have only pulled it once! A guy tried to run me and another car off the road one Saturday morning. He blocked both lanes at the next red light and got out of his truck with a baseball bat and started toward me! Just the sight of me chambering a round in my Ruger P-85 sent him running back to his truck and the last I every saw of the the guy was him burning rubber to get away! So me having that gun saved somebody’s life that day!
I tend to think the founding fathers knew what they were doing all those years ago!
The reason we in the U.S.A. have the right to keep and bear arms is because King George attempted to confiscate the firearms of Americans in order to keep them subjucated to the tyranny of his monarchy. We have this right today not only to allow us law abiding citizens to defend ourselves against criminals, but to allow the American people to respond if a tyrannical goverment attempts to impose its will again. True liberty and freedom requires eternal vigilance from all threats and is the responsibility of every citizen. We choose not to be sheep.
In my first visit to this site, I have stumbled upon this topic.
WOW, there are an awful lot of people here who need to re-evaluate their concept of manlyness. for those of you who feel that a phone is your best weapon for home defense I think theres a good article in REDBOOK you may enjoy!
I for one, enjoyed the article and the information in it.
I suppose I should cut some of you sissy’s some slack. As good of a website as this may be. Some of you guy’s didn’t exactly choose to have fathers who lacked the necessary skill set to pass manlyness on to their young. You really can’t help it if your a second or third generation pansy. If you would like to someday become men, there are several men in the post who may be willing to mentor you. If, their not too busy cleaning their guns, smoking cigars, drinking scotch, or training their own boys what it means to be a man.
When I was 19 I needed a cop REALLY REALLY BAD, so guess what, I dialed 911 and in a matter of 12 hours yes that was 12 hours they finially arived. And suprizingly the crime was over, yep bad guy gone and so was everything he wanted. Now before you start making excuses for those supermen we call cops, I was in a well populated city, I did call 911 twenty three times in those 12 hours, and I wasn’t in a dangerous part of town. That was the last time I had faith in 911. Would a gun have stopped this from happening? Who knows, but if my life is in danger, or someone else breaks in to my property I will still call 911 and let them know to send an ambulance at their leasure. Thank you Samuel Colt and my basic human rights.
I gotta stick up a little for some of the people in the UK. I recently stayed in Oxfordshire and on the border of Wales and England near Pant. Many of the people there (esp. in the country side) absolutely can’t stand their government’s control and many that I talked to love guns. I actually received trap/skeet lessons from a family friend and I asked him if he had given up his handguns when they were banned. He looked at me said it was terrible and gave me a little look. There are thousands of handguns still in the UK illegally and many of those want exactly what we have here in the US.
Don’t hate on the Brits/Europeans/Asians…. Every country is infected with this weak gun-control type of people. Some more than others. Just look at the man we call President here in the U.S.. Look at some of the gun control bills in IL and Congress he has voted for. factcheck.org.
The best is a single shot 12 or 16 gage scatter gun loaded with bird shot. More pellets mean more hits and if you can’t hit someone on t he first shot, you shouldn’t have a gun anyway. Most of the time if you shot someone more than twice, you go to jail.
Wow. A lot of FAIL in the comments, on what was a decent piece of writing.
I understand that there are a lot of readers “Over the pond” so to speak… so those of you in the UK, I ask you this. Why are glass beer mugs, and knives now being considered for ban? If you are simply incompetent enough to need the government to be the vanguards of your own personal safety… then you have a bigger problem than a blog about firearms.
To all the firearm haters, I propose a simple question; Police response times being what they are – which is slower than “right now” – what measures are in place to safeguard yourself or your family from the danger and harm that can be done in the first few minutes of an armed home invasion?
When an evil bastard is intent on killing and raping your wife, or even one of your children… a gun in the hand available for use NOW, is much better than a phone. All the phone will do is summon the clean up crew so they can file some reports, and possibly prosecute a suspect. Doesn’t stop the act dead in it’s tracks.
So, you stick with your phone. I’ll also use the phone… but I tend to rely on a firearm most of the time since a cop is too heavy to carry around with me.
@ Greg 347: Wow… Teach your kid not to touch the gun. If you can’t do that simple task you absolutely fail as a parent.
“I have three baseball bats that I turned myself……………………
Common sense rule #1-Never bring a bat to a gunfight.
I should preface this message by saying that I love your site. It is my homepage and I also get your emails. Often times I am awake when they arrive (I suffer from insomnia) and read them as soon as my blackberry stops ringing. I was slightly offened that you would include an article that encourages home defence with a firearm. I firmly believe that a real man does not require a gun to defend himself or his loved ones. That being said I do own several, but they are not what I grab when things go bump in the night. My personal choice is a 35 pound axe. I can put that axe anywhere I chose within a 50 radius of my arm. An axe does not present the same threat to my loved ones that a gun does. My younger brother does not ask me where I keep it. When he brings his friends over they do not ask me about it. It will not fire while I am cleaning it. To me it is in everyway superior to my spanish 20 gauge side by side 12 gauge shotgun (though I do love it).
Good, now that is out of the way.
Thank you for website. Sincerely, your site is an oasis on the internet. I tell everyone that I know about it and remind them to “man up”. I am surprised however by a lack of Cary Grant here. To me he is perhaps the greatest gentleman to have ever lived. I look forward to reading many more wonderful articles from the both of you. Again, thank you.
Allan Carswell
I have just read the comment I posted I posted and would like to apologize the the spelling and grammatical errors. @ David – In my time I have stopped two women from being raped. The first was with my fists. The second was with a spear gun that I use to hunt sharks. They both lived to see what the inside of a jail cell looks like. I have not killed a man, and never will. I use my guns at the club and nowhere else.
I just stumbled upon this website by accident. I love how anti-gun people here whine about an article about guns. I expect that from the same people who read about “manliness” from magazines. Bwahahahaha. You’re all such fools.
I agree wholeheartedly with the gentleman who spoke about responsibilities. There are those who are prepared to take action to defend themselves and their family and their neighbours, and there are those who prefer to be ruled by better men. Good luck calling 911 and pray they get there in time. When seconds count police are at best only minutes away.
If only the dead could speak, I’m sure we would hear a lot more calls for self defense options..We’ve tried it the other way. Disarmamant only disarms the citizen while the criminal remains unimpeeded.
Spot on article, we have a 12 guage shotgun in our home. My dad (i’m 17) keeps it under lock and key and only him and i know the combination and where the storage box even is. I’ve been taught only to take it out in emergencies (aka someone smashing our window in to get inside the house and climbing right in) and never to touch it otherwise.
I regularly venture to the firing range to practice and just to shoot. With the recent break ins (our neighborhood isn’t the best) I admit whole heartedly that knowing a useful tool of protection is in the house, when words and police are useless, is a comforting fact.
Really, if you come into the living room and flick the lights on to see a burly masked man raiding its contents you would be scared. But if you had a cocked shotgun in your hand, I doubt he would try to pick a fight with you or a family member.
A simple “Get the hell out of house” with the tool in hand would scare most individuals off. I will do anything to protect my little sisters and parents, morally rght or wrong.
Well said Blacklist 11, Maybe these European girls need to stop commenting and set back and take notes. Obviously they know nothing about being men. My 12 year old couldn’t stomach reading their posts.
Dont come to America. We are all armed and ready to fight. I personally own a SigSauer 229 .40, a Smith & Wesson .45 rovolver, several shotguns, several rifles, and am looking for more.
Allan Carswell, your view of an axe, especially a 35 lb one, as an effective home defense weapon is terribly ill-advised. You and it could easily be defeated with little effort. Even if you threw it, the probability of it actually doing any damage to a bad guy is very, very small. If you don’t throw it, then it will be a simple matter for the bad guy to “get inside” it. Then what will you do for a second attempt?
I know what I’m talking about — I participated in axe-throwing contests in college. I own several, and I’m pretty good with them — for what they’re intended.
This tells me that you have no training, and have not studied the issue of personal defense at all. You have just thought about what you would do. You have not practiced.
I highly recommend that you take a home defense course from a competent firearms instructor in your area. Along with the shooting, a good instructor will teach you some “situational awareness.” And THAT is more important than the weapon you choose, if any, to save your life. You may not become comfortable with the idea of using firearms to defend yourself or your loved ones, though miracles do occur. But you will come to realize how foolish it would be to confront an intruder with a 35 lb, axe. It (the class I mean, not the axe) could save your life.
By the way, this 35 lb axe business is more than a little suspect. Few axe heads weigh over five pounds. Fire axes may reach 10 lbs. There are special wood-splitting axes that weigh a little more than that, but swinging around something like that would present more danger to the swinger than to the swingee.
Someone in one of the earlier comments said something to the effect that, “your best home defense is to call the police.” Are you figgin’ kidding me!?! _IF_ you have time to call the cops and sit on the phone with them while the bad guys do their worst, do you know how much damage the dirtbag(s) can do to you, your loved ones, and your property in the time it takes the cops to get there?
I don’t know about you, but I want to be able to defend my family and my home from people who mean harm instead of helplessly sitting by and waiting for the cops to arrive. Sitting by and waiting for the cops to arrive doesn’t seem too “manly” to me. I frankly find it hard to believe that a man anywhere (UK or elsewhere) would find that to be “manly.”
I personally have had two local sheriffs tell me that they do their best, but they can’t be everywhere and they recommended I get a permit to carry a concealed weapon.
I have no idea about local conditions in the UK or elsewhere, but I do know my local area and this post is spot-on. Keep ‘em coming! I love your site!
This is entirely fitting in a site about manliness.
It is true that the culture of personal responsibility has been largely eradicated in other countries, but that fact needn’t impede its practice in the U.S. and the other few remaining countries which remain sane in this area of public life.
Gentlemen, one owns (and is trained in the use of) a firearm for the same reason that one knows CPR; the same reason that one has a stash of emergency cash; the same reason that one obtains a Red Cross “water rescue” certification. It’s the same reason you know how to swim, the same reason you know how to operate a fire extinguisher, the same reason why there’s a First Aid kit in your house.
To wit: S*** happens, and, who you gonna call? And if it’s an emergency which needs to be handled immediately and your local 911 response-time is 5-to-8 minutes, what are you going to do in the meantime?
A responsible adult knows he should be standing there with more than his, ahem, gun, in his hand.
In short: If you are a protector — and as a man, probably gifted with upper-body strength superior to the ladies in your life, you should accept that such a gift does come with certain responsibilities — then you are responsible for being able to execute the duties of a protector.
You probably cannot develop the full range of skills of a police officer, any more than learning to use a fire extinguisher means you’re qualified to be a professional firefighter. But that is not the point. The point is: Be as prepared as you practically can manage to be, without being paranoid. Practice safety. Adopt a sober-minded attitude about your responsibility as protector. And if, God forbid, there comes a day you have to make all that practice count for real, you may just be able to prevent harm to yourself and your loved ones.
In the meantime, you’ll have adopted a far healthier attitude about your role in society — about the responsibilities that adulthood brings — than you otherwise would have had, and that’s no bad thing.
Incidentally, I plan on training my daughters in firearms use when they’re old enough. They’re going to be responsible citizens, and they may not have a male protector, professional cop or otherwise, around when they need them most. In my experience women approach this topic with healthier expectations than men: They understand they’re learning to use a fire-extinguisher for a very particular kind of fire; they get past ego concerns quickly and get down to business. This, too, is a sign of responsible adulthood.
Call the Police….Wow. People never cease to amaze me, but it definitely shows a difference in culture between the U.S. and Europe. Wait, I’ve heard the same thing said here in the U.S. I live 30 minutes from anywhere and we have three Deputies on duty most of the time in a large rural county. I know that I can’t wait on them, I won’t wait on them and they would be surprised if I wait on them.
Now, as for children harming themselves with a firearm, it’s not an issue if children are educated on the use of a firearm. I am a 4-H shooting coach and I will tell you that with proper education, a child can handle a firearm as well as any adult. At the state shoot this summer, there were over 500 clay target shooters (could be doubled when all shooting sports are counted) aged 8 to 18, male and female. Out of 500 plus shooters, not a single accident occurred. Last year, there were 600 plus shooters…no accidents. I do apologize for not having exact attendance numbers. These children are safer than some adults I have hunted and shot with. How these young men and ladies differ from other youths of this age bracket is that they know the effects of firearms. They know it’s not a video game or a movie and whatever they shoot is destroyed, it ain’t coming back. They have real life experience and they respect their firearms.
I don’t understand why these Euros are freaking out. Holland and Holland is based in London, Blaser is in Germany as well as Heckler and Koch. There are many custom makers throughout Europe. My gosh, they act like there aren’t any civilian firearms in Europe. There must be, I have been invited to bird hunt in England and I have considered a Red Stag hunt in Germany as well as a Partridge hunt in Spain.
Anyways, I will protect my family and I will protect my 2nd amendment.
If you can’t figure out how to use an automatic pistol, you don’t know enough about firearms to safely or effectively use one.
In fact, if you’re going to this website to figure out what gun to buy: don’t buy one. Go get shooting classes, and really learn the in’s and out’s of shooting. This includes the operation, legalities, and fact that the chances of you getting hurt or dying during an incident go up when you bring your own gun into the situation. Or that you typically get one shot off within a 16 ft. radius of your target before the average person can close the distance and potentially disarm you.
Get the training, and then you should be able to pick out a gun all by yourself like a big boy. By then, hopefully, you won’t be some dumb yahoo with a gun presenting a threat to everyone; you’ll be someone who can make informed firearm decisions and carry them out effectively.
Good post.
I use a rifle with weapon light and red dot. 5.56 is safer in doors than both shotgun and pistol.
Check box of truth.
What you Americans need to understand about us ‘other cultures’ not wanting guns in our homes, and being willing to wait for the cops: people breaking in to homes (in our countries anyway), are not there to harm us, they’re there to STEAL. You rattle on about protecting your loved ones from harm, but can you say you’d NOT shoot the intruder if they were merely removing your television? The chance someone is in your home with the intention to injure, kill, rape, or kidnap someone is next to nil, therefore rendering the gun not necessary by that logic alone. So it sounds like you’re protecting your property – putting it before the life of the intruder, in which case I’d argue life (even that of a criminal) is more precious than property.
Further, intruders are likely not armed. If someone broke into my home, the ABSOLUTE LAST thing I would want to do is potentially kill them by firing a gun at them. I couldn’t live with myself knowing I’d taken a life defending my TV.
Yes – it’s a huge cultural difference. Guns evoke disgust in many of us, and the American way of needing guns since the intruders carry them, pity.
Correction to 2nd paragraph- ^^ intruders not likely armed and willing to use their weapon, in my country (no doubt all intruders carry guns in the US)
I just stumbled across this site and I think it’s awesome! I’m not surprised at the tremendous backlash that this harmless article has unleashed. The era of personal responsibility is gone. Most of the arguments have already been made but I wanted to address a few loose ends.
@Bamn: I would bet that the vast majority of those who own guns for self defense would NOT fire on an intruder to save property and I doubt that anyone is advocating it. The issue is protecting the LIFE and SAFETY of yourself and your LOVED ONES, not your TV. Case in point: My household plan in case of a break in involves hunkering down in my bedroom behind a locked door, my wife on her cell-phone (not land line) dialing 911 and myself with a rifle in .223 trained at the door. Everything on the other side of that door is fair game. If the thief can make it out of the house before the police arrive, it’s his and I won’t stand in his way. Now, if he makes it through the bedroom door, despite my warning that I’m armed, the barking of a pair of hundred pound dogs and the blaring alarm of my security system, and I’ve identified him as an imminent threat, I will open fire. That is MY threshold.
@ those who say there is no way to safely store a firearm and still have it available for protection, thus rendering it useless: There is only one sure way I know of to keep a firearm both secure from those who should not have access and accessible when needed at once – carry it on your person. In my state I’m not allowed to carry a firearm outside of my home or property, so when I get home the holster comes on just like putting my seatbelt on when I get into my car. All my other guns are locked up (I have no children yet, but it’s a good habit to get into). At night, two guns are loaded and kept in my bedroom – a 1911 handgun in .45ACP (if I have to venture outside of my bedroom for any reason) and a Saiga AK rifle in .223. In the morning both guns are returned to the safe when I leave the house. Simple, really.
Wow. this is funny. If you don’t like guns then don’t read the post. Duh! And as for me, I’m a well educated 21 year old with a family and more guns than most men twice my age. I have a concealed weapons permit that allows me to carry a gun anywhere other than schools and government buildings. I’m not paranoid or a crazy, i just think it’s an awesome thing I can exercise freely in my country. If the crap ever goes down and some psycho is shooting innocent people at a mall cause daddy didnt hug him enough, you’ll wish and pray there was a responsible armed citizen close by to stop him. I’m not a fanatic or a weirdo, I just love jesus, my family, my country, and my freedoms. If anyone ever comes in my home to threaten that, he’ll leave in a body bag. An armed society is a polite society. Oh yeah, and when a guy breaks into your home and puts a gun to your wife or kids head, use your phone, that’ll stop him. Yeah, that’ll do it. Like I said before, Wow. I like the site! Pretty good post.
I can’t believe some of the responses to this article.
“A phone is your best self-defense option; just call the cops.”
Are you kidding me? Do you really believe that a criminal will wait until the cops show up before they break in? What are you going to do for the 5-10 minutes it takes for the police to arrive?
If you don’t want a firearm, don’t buy one. Criticizing those who choose to protect their families serves no purpose, and just makes you look bad.
“ryan September 17, 2009 at 2:07 pm
Good post.
I use a rifle with weapon light and red dot. 5.56 is safer in doors than both shotgun and pistol.
Check box of truth.”
I think you are vastly mistaken sir, a 5.56 will go through several cinder blocks. The range of most 5.56 caliber rifles is well over 500 yards, so it is very bad for home defense.
If you had bothered to check out the links provided, you would see that #1 buckshot cuts down a lot on the worry of over penetration, If you really are worried, use birdshot and you can be assured you wont be hitting anything outside your house.
I’d like to interject my own opinions on this post. As a police officer and something of a shooting enthusiast, I feel I can share a bit of insight on this subject. From the National Firearms Act to the Assault Weapons Ban, from Australia to Great Brittain, many gun control laws have been enacted to “protect the innocent people from the big bad gun toating criminals” and none of them have been successful. These laws are obeyed by law abiding citizens and ignored by criminals. What people tend to forget is that criminals are criminals because they tend to disobey laws. I’ve been a police officer in what would be considered a farely large metropoliton police department. I’ve worked numerous home invasions, some of which have ended in fatalities, others that have resulted in parents and children being beaten and assaulted in front of their families. I have some pretty strong feelings regarding the 2nd amendment and I do believe that it was enacted at least on some part to allow citizens from defending themselves against the possibilities of a tyranical government. All those “gun nut” cliche’s aside, there are bad people in this world that would love more than anything to kick in your door and find you unarmed and defenseless so that they can rape your wife and/or daughter and drain all your bodily fluids. If you think it doesn’t happen, you’re dead wrong and you could end up dead one of these days because of it. I, and many other police officers, believe that the old saying “An armed society is a polite society” is true. You’re never going to create a law that stops all bad people from doing bad things but if you disarm the law abiding citizens, you’re making it a lot easier for the bad guys.
On the subject of the actuall article that sparked all this debate, I have to say that for the most part, I agree totally. Although I believe that any gun is better than no gun, there are definately some choices that could prove more effective than others.
Beginning with the pump action shotgun, I 100% agree and the two choices given would be my first two choices (especially the Remington 870).
As for the question of which is better a revolver or a semi auto, I both agree and disagree. If you are the type of person who is going to buy it, load it, hide it and never practice or train, a revolver is absolutely the best choice. As for those of you who would be willing to take the time to learn to use your new tool, I believe a semi-auto would be your best choice. There are reasons for why I feel this way.First of all, most of the violent crimes I’ve been witness too or that I have worked on the police department have been commited by groups of two or three and sometimes more bad guys. Revolvers generally have a limited capacity of either 5 or 6 shots depending on the caliber, make and model of the gun. Modern high capacity semi-auto handguns such as my own Glock 22C (fires a .40 S&W) can have capacities as high as 15 to 17 rounds and many others can carry between 7 and 10 rounds. These numbers include the magazine in the gun and a round in the chamber. This doesn’t include extra magazines that can carry additional rounds and can be reloaded much more quickly than a revolver. You may be thinking well my dad’s old S&W .38 held 6 rounds and that’s three a piece for 2 bad guys but……. what if you miss? Many, many gunfights have been documented by the FBI between law enforcement officers and bad guys over the years and among them, there have been a tremendous number of gunfights where nobody was ever even hit. I’m in no way saying that the best shooters in the world are law enforcement officers, however that being said, cops train and practice with their weapons regularly. Most officers will fire more rounds thru their issued duty weapon that the average citizen will fire in their entire life. People don’t necessarily shoot so well in real life or death situations. Most of the time they point the gun and jerk the trigger until they hear the hammer fall on an empty cylinder or their slide locks to the rear. If you are going to miss, even 1/3 of the time, you had better be ready to reload or have enough capacity to make up for your misses.
My next reason for being an advocate of semi-auto handguns is more from a personal perspective than anything. My fiance’, who I am proud to say has a significant amount of trigger time under her belt, recently told me she’d like to have a revolver. I believe her reasoning was “because they’re sexy.” We did some looking and found a hammerless Smith .38 Spec in a nice looking glossy nickle finish with pink grips. She was very excited to take it out and shoot it. She couldn’t hit the broad side of a barn with it. She was let down and we may very well have wasted money on it. This phenomenon is something I’ve seen before, it seems that quite a few people, even people who shoot regularly seem to have difficulty shooting a revolver as accurately as they do a semi- auto. Most semi autos have lighter, shorter trigger pulls and I believe this is probably the cause of the difficulty she experienced. Now, this being said, many people have a completely opposite experience.
My third and final reason is also taken from personal experience. I understand the perspective the article above was written in but I have one major problems with revolvers. Glock doesn’t make a revolver. The reliability of Glock handguns has been mentioned but I’m going to give my own personal example. My issed duty weapon is a Glock 22C. It is a full size, compensated .40 S&W semi auto handgun. It has a capacity of 15 + 1 rounds. It has glow in the dark night sights. I have personally put several thousand rounds thru it of varying quality under conditions varying from hot and sunny to snowy, rainy and cold and have yet to have a failure. It is the most simple to operate, durable and functional weapon I’ve ever owned or had issued to me (I was also a soldier in the US Army). I trust it with my life and the lives of my family members.
I’ll end with this. Please, for the sake of your friends, family members and anyone else within range, if you are going to obtain a firearm for home defense purposes, sport, or other reasons, get training. Any reputable gun store or sporting goods store can direct you to a range or training facility where you can obtain training on how to use your weapon, it’s capabilities and it’s limitations. Learn to use your weapon and be comfortable with it.
Gentlemen, there is no other issue that looms larger in America than our 2nd Amendment Rights. Not even the 1st Amendment. I believe there is not one of you who would disagree. From the comments I’m reading everyone of you has a real passion on this subject. This is not about the type of weapons we use for sport or defense,.It’s about the deception of an oligarchy who will legislate the confiscation ( to seize by authority ) your guns, all your guns! I know some will say ” When they pry em’ from my cold dead fingers”. And I will agree with that as well. But, again it’s the evil deception that we need to look into. While we have a President, and leaders of Executive, Judicial branches of govt. that has sworn to uphold the Constittution againist ALL enemies, Foreign & Domestic, many will not hold to that oath. In Nazi germany, there was a saying, ” All people going to their death, will be deceived until the end”. Read the speech by Alexander Solzhenitsyn, ” A World Split Apart ” given at a 1978 Harvard commencement, It’s genius. He also said, ” To destroy a people, you must first sever their roots”. If the radical marxist have their way they would shred the constittution by hand in your face. I fear that if it got to that point in history, that would be the worse case senario. But i’m an optimist. I believe that the spirit of Freedom that ran through the blood of our revolutionary forefathers, also, is the same fighting spirit that many true Americans have today. But, we have neglected our responsibility to safeguard our liberties. Read the firey speech by a virginia militiamen in 1775 , at the end of his speech he say’s ” Is life so dear, or peace so sweet, as to be purchased at the price of chains and slavery? Forbid it, Almighty God! I know not what course others may take; but as for me, give me liberty or give me death!” Imagine that kind of talk on the naystream media, he would be run out the back door head first. Gentlemen, stand up! with gun in hand if you must, and tell your elected official’s, Your mad as hell, and your not going to take it anymore. contact the media in your town and let em’ know how you feel. You have that God given right. Do it before they come knocking on your door. God save America.
Simple facts: 1. You will either be attacked one day, or you won’t be. 2. If that day comes, you will either be armed and ready, or you won’t be. 3. If you are attacked and are armed, you will more likely survive the attack; if you are attacked and are unarmed, you will suffer property loss, injury or death. 4. If you are never attacked, your preparation is irrelevant. Now, you carry home owner/fire/flood/auto/health insurance, something you pay for year after year, in case disaster strikes. Buying and carrying a gun costs you ONCE and you are covered forever. Preparation for potential misfortune is the reason for insurance. That’s also what a gun is. How do they differ?
I’ve read the majority of the comments on this thread (as well as the article itself). What residents of the USA generally don’t understand is that in Europe and the UK, particularly in the urban areas, police response time is much shorter than in the USA. Conversely, most residents of those areas have no conception of the distances (and hence time) involved in North America.
Calling 911 is not a bad or unmanly thing; it is a useful tool. Think backup. In the case of someone breaking in, calling 911 is the second thing I would do after grabbing my self-defence weapon. I know they can trace the call, and the sounds of a shout/struggle/shots will trigger a pretty immediate response (how long that will take to arrive is the unknown variable, and why one should have a self defence weapon to hand, be it a firearm, a fire extinguisher, knife, or spatha.)
From the reseach I have done, there are basically three types of miscreants you will encounter: those who thought the house was empty, those who think that while it is occupied they can lift what they came for and get away without disturbing you, and those who don’t care if you are home (or perhaps prefer that you are). The first are likely to panic and generally rabbit. The second are less likely to panic, but are more likely to strike out so that they can get away. The third are the desperate and the socipathic, and they are the reason to have a weapon and to have practiced/ rehearsed with it. The first two are usually solos, the third a duo or more (but not always).
So — get a weapon, practice with it, and have a plan for using it. That’s manly!
Recommended reading: any of Massad F. Ayoob’s books on firearms and self defence.
There is a lot of national chauvinism going on in these comments, and I’m only happy to add to it! I’m a supporter of decreasing those restrictions here on firearms that were increased due to some unfortunate shootings, so I’m not anti-gun per se.
However one big difference I can see is fear. I’ve seen commentators call Englishmen cowards, ponies to their police state, irresponsible etcetera. All of this delightful nonsense for not maintaining a small armoury with which to repel boarders. However, I know of none of my compatriots in England who actively worry about psychopathic homicidal “bad guys” staging a “home invasion” (in 22 years I’ve had a bike stolen, last year).
So is it actually differences in environment, in the UK are criminals less likely to stage an assault on property ’strapped’, or perhaps it is because we are all cowardly and would rather fly the white flag than take the ‘ultimate responsibility’? (I confess to hearing those words as if the speaker was impolitely committing autofellatio)
Now reply that my lack of fear is ultimately hubris in whatever shape, and the only wise choice, as made by the good feller above, is to strap a firearm to your waist the second you get home (and keep vigilant patrol)!
Now I’ll go smoke my pipe and worry about football.
Good day Gentlemen,
I live in Fresno, CA…lot of illegal immigrants, and home invasions are seemingly a semi-regular occurrence here and in some of the smaller outlying towns. Not that all home invasions are caused by minorities, mind you, but statistically speaking…well, we’ll save that for another thread.
My experience of Englishmen (and women) has not been that you are cowardly, but rather more…civilized, perhaps… and as such, you may not have some of the problems we have here in the States.
That being said, I’m not sure I necessarily advocate keeping a small “armoury” in one’s home, but at least one firearm (or some other sort of self-defense weapon if you just don’t like guns) is a necessity for those of us interested in protecting ourselves and our families. Do we have the right as Americans to bear arms? Hell yes, and don’t any of you forget that.
Now, my good sir, tell me more about this “autofellatio” business…
@Jack Oct 1st: Thanks, Short Sweet and To the Point.
If anyone is still following or reads this far this late in the game:
https://www.frontsight.com/free-gun.asp
Awesome training, realistic attitudes, good semi-auto gun that you’ll be able to shoot (and shoot well).
When you go home after you’ll have a whole new respect for the weapon and your skills with it.
To the article: Great post and thank you!
You’re a good sport Jeremy. If I lived in the U.S. I’m pretty sure I’d have “invested” in one of those Smith and Wesson model 29s by now!
“The .40 S&W was created by the FBI to allow for additional stopping power over the 9mm.” i would like to point out that this is a false statment the 40 smith&wesson was created by smith&wesson throught a gov. contract to replace the 10mm because it was found to have to much penetration where the 40 s&w is in the same brass as the 10mm but has been cut down in legth
“Further, intruders are likely not armed. If someone broke into my home, the ABSOLUTE LAST thing I would want to do is potentially kill them by firing a gun at them.”
I had a neighbor with simaler logic about ten years ago a man high on crystal meth broke into his house the only person home at the time was my neghbors sister the intruder raped and stabbed to death a 14 year old girl now if that isnt a good enogh reason for you to have a gun in the house with all members of the family trained on how to use it i dont know what is so to the anti gun british fagget that seems to think using a gun on some one who breaks into your house is rong go fuck your self
Stepping up to the plate and being a man is merely a matter of doing all that is necessary to protect your wife and children in and outside your home, besides providing for their daily care.
A firearm is simply a necessary tool to help even the odds at the very least, and hopefully, tip them in your favor in this wicked world when the need arises.
Years ago when I tried to convince a friend to buy a gun, he told me he just didn’t want to bring a gun into his home. Irrational fear of guns on the part of honest citizens will keep them out of their hands, but not criminal hands. If you are afraid of bringing own gun into your home, imagine how fearful you’ll be when a criminal brings his into your home. At that point, wishful thinking will do you no good. Wake up, and wise up!
Those alarm commercials that show a break-in, and the breathless victim running and reaching for a phone to hear the consoling voice of the alarm rep make me sick. Alarms do not always scare the criminal away. They know they have at least 2 or 3 minutes with you before help arrives, and maybe even 15 or 20. A lot of disagreeable things can be done to you and your loved ones in that time.
Fear of guns is based on either a lack of knowledge of them, or a distrust of oneself. The first can be easily rectified. The solution is called education. The second reason may require a pastor or psychiatrist.
Crime does not just occur in high-crime areas, it can happen anywhere at any time. Prudence and wisdom call for all to be prepared.
Phil Evans
OK LOOK, i dont know who founded this sissy “art of manliness” website, but sorry your balls are so small. Anyways a phone isnt a home defense weapon, 10 minutes wasted when the intruder is in your house ready to blow your head off or rip your guts out and your families for 300 dollars! Thats when you grab your 12 gauge, and blow that fu**ers head off, then use your phone to call the police you moron! Jesus Christ! Oh yeah FU** YOU ASSCORE, YOU SACK OF SHIT, REDNECK, GUN TOTING ASSHOLE!!!! GO TO HELL AND GUESS WHAT< SPIT IN MY FACE AND I WILL RIP YOUR FACE OFF!!!!!
The best gun is the one that you are comfortable with in regards to ALL aspects of usage thereof. That includes physical handling abilities and safe storage (got kids?!), ability to actually hit what you want to hit under stress, the psychological ability to actually pull the trigger on a human being and enough knowledge of legal issues surrounding your self-defense laws and legal ramifications of using a weapon.
If you are not completely confident in every single aspect listed above, you should decide against ownership/carrying until you have acquired more training.
Real interesting to see all these strong opinions on gun ownership – maybe I should start an ‘artofgirliness’ blog to see which kind of gun us girls should be packing. Gotta be a better deterrent than a rape alarm.
I could only read so many posts and I had to quit. I have a 10 year old boy who can hit golf balls at 25 yards 10 for 10. I have a 6 year old girl who just graduated from bb guns to rifles. Next year the boy will graduate to shooting trap with semi automatic scoped rifles. There is only one place to learn to shoot a gun and that is on the range. Preferably being instructed by someone who really knows what they are doing. It is like any other sport. The more you practice and compete the better you will be. The better you are the more likely you will be able to survive a violent confrontation. There are some additional skills that will be needed if that is your goal, there are many shooting instructors who can help you out. Check out Gunsite, Chuck Taylor’s ASAA, Gabriel Suarez, Fistfire, Massad Ayoob, to name a few. There are many others be sure to check them out and spend your money wisely. The firearms community is a friendly group who will welcome you and help you with training, and guess what, you’ll actually find yourself in the company of some real men.
One word, all right,maybe two…..taurus judge,………….410 buck shot
Hi,
I loved your site! Just wanted to mention a book I read, called “The Collapse of 2013″ by Hartland. Very, very patriotic and pro second amendment. I think you would enjoy it.
Michelle Chanlon
ps, I have a Ruger Mk11 and shoot CCI Stingers. Is that good for home protection? I am a range qualified shooter.
I disagree with the shotgun as a good home defense weapon. Especially the premise that the sound of a shotty being racked will scare criminals away! That’s just nonsense. For a really extensive discussion on what’s best for home use check out this link: http://lightfighter.net/eve/forums/a/tpc/f/5436084761/m/290101534?r=290101534#290101534.
I don’t understand why there are so few moderate opinions about gun control.
First of all, all Europeans aren’t pussies and all Americans aren’t trigger-happy lunatics who are “programmed to kill.” Aren’t we adults? Are you all crazy or something?
Second of all, both sides argue “Well where do we draw the line?” I am always just shocked at how stupid this question is. The line is drawn already. Can you read? Do you live here and are aware of the laws? It’s drawn, and if either side had any sense they’d realize it’s a pretty reasonable compromise. We can have semi-auto guns as long as they fit certain, pretty loose criteria. No full-autos unless they are made before 1986 and the government is pretty sure you’re not crazy. We can have pistols and it’s up to the state to decide if we can walk around with them in our backpacks all day. The gun control debate more often sounds like a bunch of middle schoolers calling each other names.
Your statistics and hypothetical situations need to be taken with a grain of salt. What happens if you kid gets curious and finds a gun? I dunno, how old are they? Have you explained gun safety to them? Is your family generally pretty high intelligence and capable of learning things like “Hey, this is a gun, here’s what it does. Don’t touch it, okay?” I don’t mean that sarcastically. Some kids are just dumb, and won’t understand that kind of thing. If they are, you need to look at owning a firearm as a function of the likelihood of your kid finding it versus the likelihood of being attacked, and go from there. There isn’t a right answer for everyone. Everyone is entitled to their opinion, I just wish having an opinion in America didn’t mean sticking to your opinion and blindly dumping every other well-thought-out and intellectual piece of information out the window, or negating it with situational evidence (“having a gun is a bad idea because this many of this bad thing happens every this often” or “having a gun is a good idea because this many people defend this many people this many times every year”). Guns, politics, everything nowadays seems to stem from a complete failure on someone’s part to think for themselves. For me, myself, it makes sense to own a gun. That doesn’t mean it makes sense for everyone else, just like if my neighbor had legitimate reasons for not owning a gun, it doesn’t immediately mean that I should go out and sell mine. FFS, detach your balls from your opinions for once, there is very seldom one right and one wrong answer in a situation.
Don’t listen to people like Angel O, they are those types like to indulge in survivalist armed to the teeth fantasies. The shotgun has proven itself to be a great home defense weapon since the 1800’s.
Take away the guns, and only the criminals will have them. Did you ever think about that??? Ya know I guess I could use my phone for self defense but personally my throwing arm is a little weak and i think my 12 ga with the 3 1/2 inch BB shell sitting in the chamber is much more accurate, and could probably do more damage.
My choice of home defense, AK47 with bayonet, although shotguns are very effective, some may not want to fire a shotgun indoors, as they are a spread shot and will hit surrounding valuables, whereas a rifle such as an AK47 will only hit the area aimed at and not damage surrounding objects, you have more control of what is hit. An AK47 with 30 rd. magazine clip will destroy any intruder, also, if you run out off ammo or if the guns jam (AKs never jam) you always have the bayonet at the end of your gun to jab into the intruder.
Either a handgun or a shotgun will do the job if you know how to use it, but just make sure you have some lighting system with it. There’s been a lot of accidents from a family member arriving home unexpectedly.
have some problems with the two top picks: shotgun and revolver. I am not a gun expert and am not really interested in guns except for protection. I bought a shotgun a couple of years ago for home protection, and then in about one hour realized it was useless. Why? Because of safety issues. I have kids and other people running around my house all the time, so it dawned on me that I would have to keep the gun and ammo in separate places or lock them up, or both. If an intruder came in, by the time I could get the gun loaded and ready to fire, we’d all be dead meat. Same with a revolver. A local gunshop owner recommended a semi-automatic, because you can keep a loaded clip in a nearbye lock box, slip it into the pistal handle, and you’re ready. I’d like to hear some comments and thoughts on the safety/ease of use issue. This is just practical stuff, but maybe I’m missing something.
Anonymous – if you need 30 rounds to stop an intruder, work on your aim or move out of downtown Baghdad. Also, an AK round has amazing penetrating power. We don’t want to shoot through walls and kill someone else do we? The right gun is dependent on each person’s situation. Do you live alone or with kids? Are you in a house in the country, suburbs or in an apartment? Do you have time/money to commit to learning to shoot well and remaining proficient? Do you have the knowledge to teach your household about gun safety? Trained professionals have a hard time hitting a target less than 10 feet away in stressful situations – are you willing to practice a lot? Do you know the laws of where you live? Are you willing to kill a human being? You may only wound, but there is no difference in the justification for killing and wounding. “If you’re not justified to kill, then you’re not justified to wound.”
The right choice for you will take a great deal of research and soul searching. You can’t trust the opinions of posters to these forums – you never know the level of experience and knowledge of the poster.
I disagree with the shotgun, or any gun that is too long to be carried on the person. A gun at home does you no good. What if you come home and the intruder is pointing your shotgun at you! Buy a Glock, .38 Snub, Kel Tec or whatever you feel comfortable carrying an shooting. Then get a carry permit and always have it on you. A gun at home does you no good. If you think you will lock it up in a safe to keep the intruder from getting it, then you will not be able to retrieve it in time either. Get a carry gun, get training, and carry it!
I agree that your choice of self defense is all depending on your situation and needs. For my needs, an AK47 serves me fine, where as others may want something different. It all depends on the person and his/her needs. That is the best response to someone looking for the best home defense item.
What a bunch of pansies. Some of you need more than a web site to increase your manliness.
The best gun for HD is the AR15.
Glad I live in a free country, and have a set.
There are so many limp wristed punks commenting here it makes me want to vomit. Considering how many kill crazy muslims are populating different areas of the planet now you’d better get familiar with guns and how to use them. You can all wish that guns were never invented (and gun powder) all you want but that’s not practical. The reality is that one section of this world is gearing up to kill all the other non-believing sections of the world and take it’s resources. Sharia law is getting alot of press in the UK lately. Get ready to hand over your country.
If you equate owning a gun to manliness your a wuss from the get go. Otherwise my daughter and wife would be swinging some big testicles. Now if your equating the ability to defend yourself and loved ones by any means necessary, manliness abounds. Pardon my brashness here but I’m not in the mood to pussyfoot around…to the ones who think a cell phone is a defensive tactic….your idiots. An old saying goes well here. “When seconds count, the cops will be there in minutes.” If your wife or child are being assualted who do you want there…..someone with a cellphone or someone with a gun? If you say cellphone I say your hung like a hampster. Human history and nature has a strong element of violence. Nothing is going to change that….ever. The only viable option is equal or greater violence. When done for purely self-defensive reasons it is a morally acceptable. For me it is unacceptable to allow myself to be a target without the means to counter a threat. It’s a violent and dangerous world we live in gentleman. I’m sure there are those among you who feel my viewpoint is severe. Too bad. This is how I see it. If your willing to die on your knees, have at it. I’m responding to a threat.
Protecting your family is your duty as a man and a father. Recently, in my home state, a mans family was raped and murdered in front of him. Sure, the odds of this happening to anyone is astronomical, but it does happen.
I would rather have a gun and not need one then need a gun and not have one. I am a responsible adult and my kids wont be able to get anywhere near my firearms.
ErSwnn, right on. I agree with you. Guns that keep the world free (if they are in the right hands, such as hands of civilians). So that citizens may be able to defend themselves from tyranical governments.
ABSOLUTELY LOVED THIS ARTICLE!!! I have about 10 guns and plan on getting more. GREAT JOB AOM!! keep it up!!
I agree that calling the police is the best solution before shooting the guy breaking into your place but in large cities, like Los Angeles, there is often a delay in the response from the LAPD, Culver City PD, Santa Monica PD, LA Sheriffs, whoever answers the call.
It is not out of their own apathy but they are overburdened as police force. Policing cities that are dense and spread out is difficult. Within the 10-15 minutes it may take police to respond you may be called upon to protect yourself. I will concede that owning a gun is treating a symptom of an overtaxed police system but until then I’d like to have ways to protect myself until the police do arrive.
A few criticisms of the article: Starting with a discussion of the OK Corral was in bad taste. It only furthers the stereotype of gun owners as cowboys who have itchy trigger fingers. I think that most people would hope they would never have to use their firearms for their intended purpose: shooting an intruder.
Where was the discussion of gun safety and security? There are ways to own a gun safely in a household with children. There are gun safety courses that impart the ability to use a gun correctly and safely while instilling a sense of respect for what you hold in your hands.
Where was the discussion of the legal liability involved with shooting someone? In California, for example, you don’t have free reign to shoot any and every intruder who enters your home. In fact, you open yourself up to legal liability if you do manage to shoot someone. Does there need to be a 50-state discussion of home security jurisprudence? No.
The article is great at introducing which firearms may be the most useful for home security but it neglects to include a discussion of the responsibilities of owning a gun and that is the most important part of owning a gun.
Jon,
As the author of this article I feel compelled to respond to your comment.
The responsibilities of owning a gun fall under a broad umbrella called “personal responsibility.” You may not be familiar with this term as many educators, bureaucrats and general proponents of the nanny-state have tried to eliminate it from modern society.
When a chef writes an article about the tools you should buy to cut foods in the kitchen, he/she won’t go into much detail explaining how to prevent from injuring oneself or preventing children from accessing and injuring themselves with the products. That would fall under a slightly different umbrella called “common sense” which is also shrinking in modern society.
A brief review of these topics and an understanding of the shrinking modern attention span should shed light on why I didn’t open such a large can of worms in an article such as this.
A comprehensive review of each state’s legal history with regard to self defense is a good idea for another article. I doubt this is the right website to host it, but there are many others that would welcome such an article.
Thanks for the response, glad you enjoyed the article.
-Jon
Oddly enough our (United States) Founders actually wanted the citizenry to own firearms primarily so we could defend ourselves from our own government if it became too overbearing.
Criminal defense and defense against invaders is well and good, but the sentinel effect it has on our political leaders is what the Founders really wanted. You can read the writings of Jefferson, George Washington, John Adams, George Mason, Patrick Henry, and others and see that this is so.
It’s not about actively killing people. You foreigners need to understand that in America our primary military is not our Army, Navy, or Air Force. It is the armed People, the vaunted militia of the Second Amendment. According to the Founders, the citizen-soldiers of our nation are to outnumber and out gun our standing military so that it may never be used as a club to subject us to the whims of tyrants.
We’re unique. A new breed of nation. The Japanese left us alone at the beginning of World War II because of our militia. They feared to invade the American mainland because they our citizen soldiery was the most formidable military we have. That enabled us to spend our resources saving Europe from Nazi domination.
One might not be too wildly speculating if he said that we would not have been able to expend those resources without our citizen soldiery, and that consequently we would not have been able to enter the European theater.
I shan’t give up my firearms. I enjoy them and use them to ensure the safety of myself, my family, my State, my country, and their respective rights. I also appreciate this article and hope that this blog will continue to recognize firearms as manly (They are! As has been stated, many firearms are so powerful the majority of the fairer sex finds them difficult to handle.) and publish more articles on them.
guns are amazing bit of technology and for all you gun haters out there, ask your Grandpa how he feels about guns, I’m sure he’ll tell you that he and his gun were very intimate buring WWII, Korea, Nam etc. First of all humans have had a general disdain for other unlike them since the dawn of time. We were killing each other off brutally well before the invention of guns. Guns are not the problem, the stagnant nature of human social and civic development is the problem. Guns have many uses, gathering food (if you need to), winning battles against NAZI’s and COMMIES, enforcing laws and last but not least, protecting your family from people who hold no regard for human life. When some one breaks into your home and they have a gun to your head and your wife is laying in bed next to you with a bullet in her chest, I’m sure you’ll hate yourself for being such a liberal jackass. Not to mention when youre on a city bus and some jihadist jumps screaming “for Allah,” (no disrespect to peaceful and kind muslims everywhere) I bet you’ll wish you had a bullet to put between his eyes. I would gladly end the life of some scum bag in order to save my own life and the lives of many other innocents, thank you guns. I love and applaud guns, and hope they keep making them safer for good guys and harder to use for bad guys. Thanks for the article and by the way, I love my remmington. And for all international people who can’t own guns for whatever reason, too bad for you, this is an AMERICAN publication so either shut your mouth and deal with it, or move to America and revel in the joy of the 2nd amendment. Actually anyone who doesn’t like guns should just go learn ballet and stay the hell out of america.
Maybe if you lived on a ranch or a remote area… Using an AK as a home defense weapon even when your next door neighbor is 100 feet away is a very bad idea.
“Anonymous December 30, 2009 at 1:09 am
I agree that your choice of self defense is all depending on your situation and needs. For my needs, an AK47 serves me fine, where as others may want something different. It all depends on the person and his/her needs. That is the best response to someone looking for the best home defense item.”
Yes. A handgun in the hands of a properly trained individual is a lot better than a rape-alarm. Training is the key word. Every person has the right to defend themselves and their loved ones from harm, regardless of whether that method is a knife, pepper spray, or firearm. Unfortunately, sometimes pepper spray or a knife will not work against an assailant who is bigger and stronger than you.
I really would like to know how would those posting comments condemning the use or ownership of firearms defend themselves or their loved ones? …by calling the police who are minutes away? Would you allow yourself or a loved one to be assaulted or killed for your belief that firearms should only be in the possession of the police or military?
Hayley November 1, 2009 at 10:04 am
Real interesting to see all these strong opinions on gun ownership – maybe I should start an ‘artofgirliness’ blog to see which kind of gun us girls should be packing. Gotta be a better deterrent than a rape alarm.
For home defense, a lady should learn to use a short barreled shotgun of the highest gauge she can comfortably handle. 20 gauge is about the smallest you want to use, however. Smaller than that and you’re not going to pack enough punch. Pump action or semi-automatic loaded with .00 or .000 buckshot will give you enough firepower to take down a few men if you place your shots well.
For defense of the person in public, I would recommend a revolver chambered in .38 caliber +P or .357 magnum if you can become comfortable with the power and recoil. Alternatively, an automatic handgun chambered in 9mm +P is also powerful enough to kill someone and the recoil is very manageable. In any handgun you should load jacketed hollow-point +P rounds (JHP +P) for defense. They travel faster and expand more than full metal jacket (FMJ) rounds.
Your analysis is correct! A firearm is much more deterring than a rape alarm. The report of a gunshot does two things. One, it raises the stakes for your would-be aggressor. Rape with the chance of escape or mere incarceration is one thing. Rape with a high chance of being gunned down and bleeding to death in the street is an entirely different prospect. Two, gunfire is more effective at getting attention than a rape alarm.
It’s Ruger, I guess.
I stumbled upon this article completely by accident and I am amazed at the various responses. I want to start by pointing out that in the us nearly 59million people live in a rural area. If someone breaks into your home it isn’t a few minutes until the deputy shows up it could be as much as 10, 15, 20 minutes or even longer.
Anyone familiar with the true crime novel “In Cold Blood” by Truman Capote knows that 10 minutes is more than enough time for home intruders to murder your entire family.
In a much earlier response someone quoted Ghandi as saying that nothing was worth killing for… Apparently Ghandi never had to sit and watch as his wife/ daughter was raped and then murdered by a home invader.
The saddest thing is that most of the gun deaths that occur in the U.S. occur in urban areas and are gang related. As an advocate of responsible legal gun ownership I wish to point out that cities in states which permit concealed carry of a gun have overall lower gun crime numbers than those states which do not permit concealed carry and even more specifically cities which have outright bans on handgun ownership. When a criminal is faced with the fact that any potential victim might be armed they are more likely to think twice about committing a crime than a criminal in a city which has banned handguns.
Guns are not glorious, they are not manly, they are not toys.
What they are is a deterrent, a very convincing and very powerful deterrent.
If you live somewhere where the police can respond within a minute or two then by all means call them and wait. I, however, will never stand by and watch as a home invader rapes my child and murders my family.
I empathize deeply with those who are anti-gun, however, firearm deaths are overwhelmingly the result of criminals battling other criminals. I live in a major city where people are caught in the crossfire of gang battles nearly every day. My city has a long-standing ban on handguns. Handguns are overwhelmingly the type of firearm used in homicides in the city. Our mayor is staunchly anti handgun but has also said that there should be a shotgun in every umbrella stand. A shotgun in the hands of a responsible and properly trained homeowner is an amazing deterrent. Very few criminals will stay to fight upon hearing the sound of a 12-gauge cartridge being chambered. it’s as simple as that.
Until all guns are taken out of the hands of all criminals in the US I will always be a gun owner. Thomas Jefferson himself once said that the beauty of the second amendment is that it will not be necessary until someone attempts to take it away. Lastly and in my eyes most importantly, the Constitution of the United States of America REQUIRES the population to overthrow our government in the instance that it has become tyrannical, by force if necessary. The second amendment was added to the constitution to ensure that Americans would never again succumb to tyrannical rule. Imagine a government, which knows full well that the majority or it’s citizens are gun owners, attempting martial law or despotic rule. When guns are outlawed, only outlaws will have guns.
Are you kidding me? This article got an extremely undue reception. The proliferation of legal firearms reduces crime and fatality, that it a statistically proven fact. A robber or other intruder will be very deterred from entering or breaking into a home if he knows that homeowners in the area can and do own firearms, why do think crime rates in places with less gun control are so low and higher in other places, as for Europe where I imagine a lot of you live, firearms can still be obtained with relative ease illegally so you disarm the people who need to defend themselves and don’t effect those who would use the firearms maliciously. This is a great post.
I’m surprised to see so many “men” here are against guns. Every man must have a gun. You’re supposed to be a protector, you’re supposed to stand up and in times of crisis, be it a simple home invasion or defending civil liberties, if the need arises.
Bad guys don’t care about laws, they can get guns with no problem. By not arming yourself, you become a silly victim, that puts in jeopardy yourself and those who are around you by not being able to repel serious threats.
There was a story that I remember reading about not too long ago. A few armed robbers broke into a backdoor of a house (and it was not a rural area, it was downtown). There was a man and his girlfriend at that place. The man was unarmed and didn’t have any guns at his house. The men simply walked in, pointed a gun at him, tied him up and started raping his girlfriend. Then took valuables and left.
Now, what kind of man allows this to happen? A girlie one. If he had a shotgun, a simple slide lock sound would most likely send these burglars running for dear life, no need to even fire.
If you want to see what’s really going on in the world, read some crime reports, find a website that shows crime in your local neighborhood (google crime maps or something). Watch some videos of stabbings, assaults, robberies. After tasting a bit of reality and looking past your little sheltered bubble, you may realize that you’re not as safe as you think you are. And if shit hits the fan and you’re bare handed… then outcome can be just about anything.
Damn, this turned into a heated discussion in a hurry. Clearly it is a pretty touchy subject. My take is pretty much in line with the international view: I see little need to own a firearm. If somebody comes into your home planning to kill you, then having a gun probably won’t help too much considering they probably have one too and have used it before against a person. In short, they won’t hesitate to shoot you and you will hesitate to shoot them, aka you die. Personally, I would not fire at another person unless there was a gun aimed at me, and by then it’s too late, and having a gun at that point makes the situation about as dangerous as possible.
Plus, the vast majority of home invasions are by people who don’t want to hurt you, they just want your stuff. While this is wrong and illegal, it is not a crime punishable by death, and you have no right to execute them for their crime. Talk your way out of the situation, don’t open fire.
How about an article about how to talk yourself out of a dangerous situation instead of how to properly arm yourself to kill another human? It’s a lot more manly to diffuse a dangerous situation than to escalate it to its most violent conclusion in my honest opinion.
First let me say that I love the site, the style, the info etc….GREAT JOB and keep up the GREAT WORK! Secondly, If I do not like (or am surprised) by some content, I can turn it off or click on something else. If I am scarred for life by the content I would probably choose not to visit again. For “christsake” people, deal with it and move on, if you like it STAY, if you do not like the content GO, it is ultimately your CHOICE.
On firearms information specifically……I’m surprised there are not MORE firearms related articles on this FINE website! What is more manly than providing food for your family that YOU have hunted, prepared, and put on the table? Firearms are not just used to kill people.
Thanks again for a GREAT and INFORMATIVE site. LOVE IT, LOVE IT, LOVE IT!
lol at all these comments about picking up a phone and calling the cops, and having a gun will get u shot quicker. u guys have fun when someone breaks in and is popping ur families heads off one by one while u wait for the cops to get there
OK, i have read many of you say if a intruder sees you have a gun he will shoot you. why do you have a gun and just stand there. you have a gun for a reason. use it if someone is going to hurt you or your family. you dont buy a gun to look at it. self defence means useing the firearm to protect your family and yourself. And storing it in you house, lock it up. if it has a combo lock and you are the only on with the combo and never keep the ammo with the gun. simple. And your kids should know to not touch things that arent theres. well i guess im the only one that teachs there kid to listen to their parents. im done talking to you people.
Anyone who wants to blame guns for violence might as well blame marilyn manson for the columbine shootings. Maybe you have heard this redundant ’bout, “Guns don’t kill people, people kill people” And all of you opposing this guy’s blog (which I found on google searching for a good gun for home defense) about guns… go back to listening to your techno music and wearing your banana yellow shorts, riding your scooter. I know plenty of people from your countries (where you can’t get these weapons) who will throwdown and accept the world we live in. Feast or be eaten.
Great post, the anti-gun commenters simply don’t know what they’re talking about. If someone breaks into your house, and you call the police, it could be 20-30 minutes before they arrive, you could very well be dead or your loved ones raped in that time.
I am by no means a gun expert, but I think the maneuverability of the shotgun should have been addressed. A handgun is easier to draw and maneuver around a house. If you’re moving around a corner with a shotgun, it’s easier for the assailant to grab the barrel. But great article, don’t let the anti’s get you down.
@ John
In ideal circumstances (which not everyone has) you’d be able to gather everyone you need to defend in one room, with the gun aimed at the door, so maneuverability doesn’t come into it.
I think the article as a whole is too harsh on semi-automatic firearms, since they are more than reliable enough to defend the home, if properly lubricated. Of course, every pistol owner should practice clearing a jam until they have it down pat. Semi-automatic carbines are also viable, since they actually penetrate less than buckshot through walls, but also expand well and have a higher magazine capacity.
I’d also point out that treating the sound of racking the shotgun slide as an added bonus is foolish in the extreme, since it not only potentially tells your intruder where you are, but also that you have a gun. Further, if you keep your shotgun with a shell in the chamber (you should) you’ve just extracted a shell for no real benefit.
I totally agree with this article!
Along with my CCW License, I carry the Glock 23 which I believe to be one of the best self-defensive pistols. It is .40 cal and inbetween the 9mm and the 45 cal. The 40 actually has more velocity than the 45, meaning it will get there faster and actually apply more shock to your attacker. The 45 can make a nice hole, but if you do not get it to the correct location of the body, that person will still be able to continue to shoot back.
The second amendment gives us Americans the RIGHT to protect ourselves and if you read it yourself, you will see the number ONE reason is to protect yourself from our government. Without the American citizen armed, the governing elitists will have full control over you as they have and continue to implement.
Buy a gun, get licensed and trained and if you have kids, train them also as that will likely stop any accidents from occurring within the home. Their curiosity will be put to rest.
Be a Man… Take a stand for your rights… Get and stay armed!
It is a proven fact that when the criminals know you have a gun, they will much less likely to try anything with you.
Facts:
1) When seconds count, the police will be minutes away.
2) More guns = fewer crimes.
3) The best criminal is a dead criminal.
4) The Second Amendment is still intact – at least for now.
I was raised to believe “it is better to have one (a gun) and not need it than to need one and not have it”. I have no issue with the laws/viewpoints found in other countries, but here in the US, if you don’t have one, you may well be found wanting! This country is saturated with illegal weapons. It is by far easier in my state to buy one on the street that to buy one in a gun shop. It’s unfortunate, but true… if we make guns a crime, only criminals will have guns.
I can’t comprehend how people in other countries can be so ignorant and completely hypocritical. In the U.K. there are more stabbing deaths per capita than any country in the world. Do they ban knives? No! Anyone who says the undertones of this article are disturbing need to understand the context in which it is written. The article is assuming that you have made the responsible decision and are going to protect your family or yourself with the use of firearms. You see in this country we established something called a Constitution after we kicked your ass in the Revolutionary War. Read the Second Amendment bonehead, then read the rest of the amendments and realize how sensible they actually are. Accidents happen, but that doesn’t outway our need to carry firearms.
This is not a political opinion, anyone who says the risk of self-injury is greater than the risk of getting killed by a robber needs to stop reading bullshit erroneous statistics that only take into account demographics catered to the study. Either that or invite a burglar into your house for tea and crumpets and sea if he doesn’t shoot your ass? or in your case stab you with a giant machete. Focus on reality people, burglars don’t want to be caught so what do they do they cover up the evidence. All you foreigner morons should be banned from this discussion as you have no fucking clue what your talking about. Go read general laws from any state about gun control and you’ll understand that you can’t just buy a gun at your corner drug store with your cigarettes. These laws govern storage, handling, registration, licensing, which guns are allowed to be owned. How much ammo can be carried in the gun. And by the way most states except for a few require a license to purchase carry and possess. Before you say stupid shit get a clue first.
By the way if you get a handgun get a glock best one out there.
Great article with some very level-headed advice. I was shocked to read some of the anti-gun comments in this blog. So shocked that I stopped reading for a moment to thank God I live in a free country and not the socialistic detention camp that some European countries have become.
As far as accidental deaths from firearms, last year I saw a reckless driver overturn their SUV and completely smash flat a compact car with 4 occupants, killing them all. The highway is the most dangerous place you can be, with driving the leading cause of unnatural death. As a matter of fact, almost everyone personally knows someone who has been killed or seriously injured in a car accident, yet few people personally know someone who has been killed with a firearm. Yet no one is screaming for the banning of cars or stricter controls on driving. (By the way, an average of 250,000 children are injured every year in the United States from car accidents, with 2,000 of them being fatal injuries. Where’s the outcry and foaming-at-the-mouth screaming that firearms always get?)
I skimmed over the article, and from the parts I read, I thought it was a fine article. All these responses about it being disapointing and terrorable and blah blah blah, what? Really? Where I live, very few people DONT own a firearm. It’s part of my culture, and most of my friends as well, we all grew up hunting and handling firearms together. I dont know about laws on firearm ownership in other countries, but just having a firearm in my bed room gives me a sense of security.
Wow guys, being a man isn’t all about learning to shave and tying a proper tie. As a man you have the responsibility to protect your family from any threat that may come, whether it’s a natural disaster, disease, or an intruder in your home. Someone who has just invaded your home is a sociopath and not going to be open to reason or discussion. And making a phone call to the police, when an intruder is in your house, is too little too late. You need to think about that. Even when the police arrive, they will more than likely surround your house and try to convince the intruder to come out. The scene of the police bursting in at the last minute and making a “rescue shot” that saves your family is a Hollywood myth. Fortunately I live in a state that allows me to own a gun and legally allows me to use it to defend my home. If you are not allowed the same rights, I’m sorry … but you still have a responsibility to defend your home and family with whatever means you have. Self-defense is one of those unpleasant facts of life that you have to be prepared to deal with. A man who isn’t prepared to take every measure to protect his home and family isn’t fulfilling his role.
Ok. Everyone complaining about guns and how dangerous they are…. CALM DOWN!!!! If you did indeed read the article you would have read that GUN SAFETY is a vital part of the article. It explains basic use and reliability of guns. Yes guns are weapons and should have a safe to be put in. People get too sensitive. If you ban guns you know who will still have them? Criminals… Drugs are banned. who has them sells them hmmmmm criminals. So before you get on your high horse about how dangerous guns use a little c.s. and calm down. Guns are great and great for defense heaven forbid you ever have to use one, but the peace of mind is important.
Are yal serious…… There is nothing wrong with owning a gun and if you think a phone is the best home defence, well I hope the bad guy that breaks in to your house and does what ever he does laughes at you. That’s pretty much what will happen, it will take the police at least 3+ mins to get there if there is one in the area. That is alot of time for alot of things to happen, I’m not saying go buy a gun. Everyone is has the right to voice their own, and own a gun if they qualify. Never bring a phone to a gun fight.
WOW. isn’t this America, we have the right to bare arms. Just because some of you mambsy pamsbys have never seen a gun doesn’t mean people shouldn’t have the right to own one. I served in the Marines for four years, I did what I did so you ass holes could have the rights that you deserve. Get a life and a set of balls.
I personally don’t see how anyone with a family wouldn’t have a gun in their home. I’m sorry, I don’t care who you are but if you come in my house to mess with any of my family, you’re not going to leave. A man’s main job is protection of his family. If you don’t think it’s necessary to protect your wife, girlfriend, parents, children or whoever it may be at any cost… then you’re not a man. Period.
I am a career criminal who started out breaking into cars during my teenage years to support my drug addiction. Then I moved on to burgurlizing homes since there were higher value items in the homes than there were in the vehicles. I was a little hesitant to break into homes at first. Not because the resident will call the police, but in fear of the occupant being there and doing something to me. The police will take a while, but a really big guy or a gun owner would stop me instantly. With the police I have a chance to do my dirty work and get away. Then I realized that I was in California and the gun laws were very strict. The probability of the resident being huge or owning a gun was slim. Committing crimes in California was easy. I guess that is why there is so much crime there. Unfortunately, long after committing the actual crimes the police found me and I served time on different occasions. I eventually received two strikes, so I moved from California to Alaska to prevent a third strike and a life sentence. Cautiously I only break into cars now. Alaska has a right to carry law and most citizens use their rights there. Committing crimes in Alaska is tough; I guess that is why their crime rate is a lot lower than that of states with strict gun laws. Weird isn’t it?
I found this to be a fairly informative article, with a great deal of sound advice. I do have some qualms with it though.
Of these qualms, perhaps my biggest qualm is the exclusion of defensive carbines. There are several long guns available in both rifle and pistol calibers that make excellent defensive firearms in the home. Of course, one must consider the bulk of the weapon and the caliber when electing to make use of a defensive carbine (as well as the terrain and environment surrounding one’s home). In addition to my Sig P220R (.45ACP) and my Smith & Wesson M&P9 (9×19mm Parabellum) I have an AR15 for home defense. The AR is a reasonably compact weapon, and the 5.56mm round is actually far less likely to over-penetrate an assailant or multiple walls in a home due to its high velocity and frangible design than 9mm. There is a reason that SWAT teams have transitioned away from the 9mm MP-5 and taken up the M-4, and it isn’t simply due to armed criminals in body armor. Additionally, it is difficult to argue with having 30 rounds of potent ammunition on tap if, God forbid, one encounters multiple home invaders.
Which brings me to my next point. While a revolver is certainly an excellent choice for home defense (I have one myself), it is very limited in ammunition capacity, and reloading can be a rather involved process should it be required under fire. If you choose to use a revolver, it would be wise have loaded speed-loaders ready.
The biggest advantage of a semi-automatic pistol is the ammunition capacity. Most have at least 8 rounds on tap (like the P220 or M1911A1 and clones), and some may have up to 20 rounds available in one magazine (like variants of the Sig Sauer P226 and CZ 75). This is advantageous if you are facing multiple attackers, or if your foe is particularly tenacious. Further, reloading a semi-auto is generally easier than a revolver; drop the spent magazine and insert a new mag, and tug the slide back to release it and chamber a new round. A skilled pistol shooter can accomplish this in 2 or 3 seconds.
Additionally, some, like me are licensed to carry a concealed pistol when out in public. That adds an additional consideration to one’s firearms purchase, namely “will I be able to conceal and carry this firearm with me for long periods of time”. This adds further considerations like size, shape, weight, capacity, caliber, sights, and reliability to the equation and is a subject worthy of an article of its own.
Many posts ago Nick talked about the comments referencing Nazis as being stupid. Well Nick, before the blitz England was begging for guns to be used to fight off the planned Nazi invasion, as they had not nearly enough guns available to accomplish this task. Americans being good hearted towards our English cousins sent thousands of guns (many of them privately owned) over the pond to help the effort.
The fact that they ended up not being used against Nazi infantry is only due (to paint with a broad brush) to the incompetence of Herman Goering and the very manly use of Hurricanes and Spitfires armed with,,,,,, you guessed it, machine guns!
Being a firearms instructor, a career police officer, former SWAT guy, former military, a hunter and outdoors man, I have an interest an quite a bit of training with firearms. I find some of the technical information in the article subjective or inaccurate, but the article is mostly well written, and I welcomed seeing it in a non-gun venue.
As to the various Hoplophobic comments directed towards this article, you gentlemen need some therapy to deal with the irrational fears you harbor towards an inanimate object.
Particularly amusing are the comments from folks with no gun knowledge, from a non-gun culture, towards what may or may not happen in a self defense situation involving guns.
As a career street cop I can strongly echo the comments about realistic response times and what one can expect from the police, and their inability to defend folks from criminal assault.
Comments such as “Plus, the vast majority of home invasions are by people who don’t want to hurt you, they just want your stuff. While this is wrong and illegal, it is not a crime punishable by death, and you have no right to execute them for their crime. Talk your way out of the situation, don’t open fire” are so completely off base as to make me wonder what planet the poster lives on.
I’ll give you a clue Greg, most home invasions involve extreme violence and physical assault of the victims, often involve sexual assault, and you are in the hands of very high end criminals as to whether you live or die.
No thanks. Kick my door in=get shot. Col. Jeff Cooper was very correct is stating “The proper response to an armed robbery is a shot armed robber”.
It is in fact a manly trait to provide both for the common defense and for the defense of one’s self and family, using the best tolls for this job just makes sense.
One of the advantages of being a street cop is the amount of personal experience that validates or invalidates the information and/or BS being put out via various studies, etc.
The whole “you are more likely to be shot if you own a gun” and similar BS is so far from the truth it falls in to “The Big Lie” category.
If an armed intruder breaks into your home and you call 911 the police will come and take pictures of you and your families bodies. People who trade freedom for security get neither. Yeah, thanks, but I’ll keep my shotgun and 9mm semiauto safely available.
I enjoyed the article and the concise technical references and found the information useful in directing my additional purchases for home defense…in addition to my 9mm.
What amazed me was the degree of whinning about the article and the references to manhood. Japan postponed invasion plans of the US west coast during WWII due to the known numbers of citizens with guns. My father once stopped a naked man trying to break in to a neighbors home (lone wife and two young daughters) with a single shot of my 22 cal. over his head. This was in a really nice upscale neighborhood. Arrested and charged he was later released with just probation. Let your imagination complete this scene had it not been for an armed neighbor willing to get involved. Note too, more children die in pools than by guns. Don’t think for a moment that a phone call to 911 is going to save you if a criminal so desires to invade your home. Stop thinking that the government has the ability to always protect you; that is your obligation. Like the Boy Scouts’ motto: Be prepared. For when you need a gun is no time to be wishing you had one. And last, it is really stupid to show up to a gunfight with just a knife. Gun control is safely securing one’s gun when not in use and being able to hit your target when desired.
Only read down through the first couple of posts when I came across Tom’s post. Tom, you do realize this is a website called “Art of Manliness”, right?!?!? If you’re not interested in defense and/or protection, your probably more comfortable checking out, or starting, the art of wussiness website. Some times men need to be prepared to do the things that women won’t. If you align yourself more to the beliefs and actions of a woman, you have that right. In which case, your probably a democrat, and as such, should revert to the initial suggestion and start the art of wussiness website.
Jason
what a bunch of pansies talking about ” if someone breaks into your house, just try to call the cops”. Hate to tell you, but if someone steps foot inside my house at night, your getting two in the chest and two in the head. Also, I would really hate to live somewhere where “you go straight to jail” if you shoot someone regardless of the circumstances. Where I’m from, you get a pat on the back and the sheriff buys you a beer on Friday night. Just so you know, I’m a lawyer by trade.
Wow, over 6 months worth of comments both pro and con. Personally, I liked the original article and the comments it has generated. What most people fail to realise is that different cultures have different beliefs about the availability of, and use of lethal force. Presently, I live in Texas and the gun laws are extremely biased towards the owner/protector and not the criminal. If a criminal breaks into your house–you have every right to shoot him. Don’t get me wrong, I do not feel the need to willfully kill somebody trying to steal my DVD player, but if me or my family’s lives are threatened, I like the current law here. I do however understand the international view and the rigid gun laws there. I lived and worked in Europe (as part of the US military) for over a decade. I belonged to several Rod & Gun clubs and competed in numerous shooting events all over (Britian, Belgium, France, and Germany). I was allowed to keep my guns, ammo, powder, etc at my residence (rules are alot different now). While in Europe, the entire criminal culture is different than in the United States. I never felt the need to have a firearm for protection there. I felt safe being alone in the biggest cities at every hour, day or night, walking or driving, and in my house. Police response there is professional beyond reproach and almost immediate. Bystanders are almost everywhere and they do the right thing and get involved by calling the police, answering questions, and filling out reports–and sometimes physically attempting to stop the criminal. The culture is very different than from a big city in the US. Here, in Dallas, I hear on the news at least once a week about someone getting murdered, hundreds of robberies/thefts–and those are only the “most noteable and news worthy”, there are many more. In Europe, I never once heard of a handgun related murder in 10 years–I was in some big cities also, Frankfurt, GE, Kaiserslautern, etc. The criminal element is completely different as well. There are very few violent criminals there. Most of the crimes I heard of or experienced were minor robberies/thefts–most of which were commited by illegal immigrants. Mostly, its smashed car windows and stolen stereos there–none of the “gun-in-your-face” hand me your wallet, occupied home robbery, or car-jackings we have here. I have read on here some people berating our overseas friends for their beliefs in not needing guns. I believe the old saying “When in Rome, Do as the Romans do”, should apply. Over there, few criminals have guns–and even fewer of them would actually use them in the commission of a crime. Here, on the other hand, is a completely different story. We have some of the most hardened and violent types of criminals armed with guns they are not afraid to use to get what they want. To these criminals, you are an obstacle in the way of their goal and they will use that gun as a tool to remove you.
Some people have different beliefs in the use of lethal force; that it is unethical or immoral. I have often thought about this myself, even after I spent a career bearing arms in military action. Personally, I would rather have a gun, be highly trained in its use, and use my own morals to actually pull the trigger. I have had four seperate incidents (non-military) where I had had a gun directed at me by a criminal. On three of those, I did not have a gun. Those were some of the worst moments of my entire life. I had nightmares for weeks after the events had occured. I had total feelings of depravity, submission, guilt, and symptoms of PTSD. Believe me, I harbored no thoughts that would make you feel like a man. I would keep running over and over in my head what I could have done, what I should have done, why was I even there, etc. Most people will never know or understand the fear a gun in your face brings.
The one time I had a gun pulled on me and I was armed, I felt so empowered (this was before I had ever been in combat). In the nation’s capitol I was lost and refueling my car when I was approached by five rough looking characters I beleived to be gang-bangers. I immediately quit refueling and got in the car. As they approached, I could see once of them appeared to be hiding pistol under his shirt. My first thought was to drive away, but in my haste to get in the car, my keys were in my pocket and I couldn’t get my hand in my pocket with the bolstered sports car seats. I reached under my seat and grabed my 45 auto, flipped the safety off, had it trained on the one with the gun before he was ever consciously aware I had a gun. Even as he began to pull his out from his shirt, he never really looked at me, he kept looking all around and at his buddies. Time seemed to slow down, and I was mentally prepared to kill him, finger on the trigger, trigger slack taken up, and told myself to pull the trigger before his arm came horizontal in my direction. He was 6″ outside my rolled down window when he began to pull the gun. With my left arm I grabbed his forearm and held it (with his gun pointing down) against the side of my car. In my right hand I still had the 45 trained on him–and that is when he noticed my 45. He tried to pull back and my right elbow went against the car horn and startled him enough to drop his gun and run back behind the island pumps with his buddies. I got my keys out and sped away. I often think about this incident and how lucky I was. My assailant was not very experienced. This could have turned out completely different. What if I did not have a gun? What if they were more expienced? Would they have only stolen my money, my car? Would they have caused me bodily harm? If this happened to me today, I know the outcome would have been different. The second I could confirm the individual acosting me had a gun, I would have pulled the trigger and double-tapped him and began scanning the others for possible threats. Today, I would not hesitate against an armed assailant as I did back then. Now, if the guy broke into my house, even though the law says I can shoot him, I would only do so if he posed a credible threat to me or my family. If he was armed–without thought I would double-tap two centermass. If he was unarmed and just “caught”, and trying to run away, I would probably (having the advantage) just let him go and notify the police. Even though I have the right to kill them, my morals tell me I shouldn’t if they do not pose a direct threat and are only trying to get away. I like Texas law the way it is though–it is my choice to use lethal force.
I am sure some of the foreign readers might have a little culture shock by my actions and my desire for self protection. Here, I believe it is a necessary evil. Our police do not respond in a timely manner–they will not show up at all for vehicle accidents under $10K ,w/o injury, minor break-ins, vehicle robberies, etc–they take the report over the phone and tell you to claim it on your insurance. Criminals here actually believe they will never get caught–and become more and more daring in crimes with witnesses and hightened violence. There is a large part of the population that has a loss of faith in the police and legal system, they do not want to get involved and fear retaliation by the criminals. Bystanders and witnesses disappear–claim they didn’t see anything and let the crooks get away. Here, guns are easy to get–it is actually easier (and cheaper) to buy one on the blackmarket than to get one legally. Times have changed; it used to be that a criminal wouldn’t shoot and kill you if they got away with what they wanted–that is not true anymore. I especially like the earlier post from the career criminal that moved from California (where they have tough gun laws), to Alaska (where everybody has a gun)–he changed his robbery tactics from home invasion (where the good stuff was), to breaking into cars, because he feared getting shot and killed.
I would rather have a gun and and be prepared both mentally and physically to use it and hope I never need it, rather than need it and not be prepared. I am an Optimist at heart–I hope it never happens. But, I am a Pecimist by action–I plan for the worst.
Good, thought provoking article, Kudos to the author and all of the bloggers.
I Can’t believe the comments by these emasculated European and Canadian men above me. One of the most important aspects of manliness is self-reliance. Any man who cares about his family should own a firearm. Especially if you live in an area where the police might not be able to respond quickly.
I read this article as a former owner of a .38 special S&W. I gave the weapon away b/c of a girlfriend’s concerns. Now several years later I am a husband and father. I want to be able to protect my family during the time an intruder attempts to infiltrate my domicile and when the police arrive. Normal respose time in my area is about 9 minutes; enough time to cause serious damage to my family even if they are only bringing along a few friends, never the less a weapon. My only qualm with this blog was that one important aspect was ignored, ease and safety of accesibility. Of course a shotgun is ideal. You can fire a shotgun down a hallway and create enough cover to move your family to safety but where do you store it?
I am appreciative of this article b/c I will once again purchase a .38 instead of a .9 that I was tempted to buy. I am comfortable with a simple jam of a semi but my wife isn’t. I can easily keep a revolver in a safe under my bed that is easily accesible and easily fired. I am also a safety freak which is why I use a safe that uses a fingerprint scan for entry. It is not only safer for the kids but it is quicker when needed, especially in the dark. Thanks for the thoughts.
Well written and useful description.
Hi this is the first time that I have ever thought about commenting on a blog. I must say that the only thing that that might help our European friends understand the situations that we fellow Americans are talking about is to watch the British film Clockwork Orange. The portion of the movie that I am referring to is Breaking and entering. Now I will not go into detail about what happens If you have seen the movie you understand why. If you put yourself in the husbands shoes and could stop that from happining to you wife just by having training and owning a firearm would you still rather not have one? I can only think about one thing to do with a firearm in that scenario. I have been trained by both civilian and military. Not to be confused with someone who has bought a firearm off of a whim or someone inspired by the movies. These things do happen.
Great article Brett. I suppose it’s not for everyone. The way things are today, in practically any country, the “bad” guys are much more prepared to take what you cherish than you are to prevent it from happening. My wife and I are looking at purchasing a handgun and shotgun for home defense. We are going to take classes provided at the local range, and familiarize ourselves greatly with both weapons before safely securing them in our home. We have worked hard to create the family and environment we have, and I’ll be damned if someone with no regard for property or life is going to come into our home to try and take that away. Yes, a phone is a very useful tool when defending your home. I want to be able to call the police to come get the dead idiot off my floor.
Are you kidding me people??? Use your second amendment right or loose it!!!
I think it’s funny how when it comes to firearms we always reference statistics about accidental deaths as a reason to keep them out of peoples hands. Our approach as a culture in the U.S. tends to focus on regulation it seems from my perspective. How privileged we are to live in a society where we don’t have to worry as much about crime like you might find of the streets of Afghanistan right now. At the same time though we as a culture shouldn’t alienate our own population by limiting our rights simply because the need is diminished. While completely different issues compare our approach to an issue like teen pregnancy compared to gun control. To address the issue of teen pregnancy we push education in our schools and other public forums. To address the issue of accidental weapons fatalities we push regulation. Could deaths be prevented by taking all the guns out of peoples hands? sure. Is that something that we should do to our population? probably not. Education is a powerful tool that we don’t push with firearms because it give the appearance that education is promotion to own a weapon. I think we need to re-examine the way upon which we address issues in America. We need to stop preventing people from making choices with new laws, rather we should punish the unjust actions with harsher penalties. Am I concerned that If I own a gun it will accidently go off and kill someone? heck no, thats why I keep it locked and unloaded. Am I worried about the guys in the city next to me who have illegal weapons? yes! and no regulations are going to keep guns out of their hands, yet when they are arrested for it they are out in a few weeks.
For those looking for a useful tip when it comes to home defense. If your going to use a shotgun DON’T use 00 buckshot. Buckshot can go through multiple walls and that might injure a family member elsewhere in the house. Birdshot is just as lethal and can only really penetrate through 1 wall. I doubt your intruders will be wearing any body armor!
Well, I landed here while considering the possibility of a gun purchase for home defense. I may or may not actually buy one, but I at least learned something useful here. What would have been my first choice, a semi-auto, would have been the worst and most complicated choice for me to make. Useful to know, whether I decide to buy, or not.
Well… I guess I will give my “Latino gentleman” view concerning fire arms. I grew up in a Latin American country where the sole idea of having a gun was considered BRUTAL and almost CRIMINAL. Not to mention that obtaining the permit to have a gun was nearly impossible. Well, what was (and is) quite interesting is that the BAD GUYS (usually FAR LEFT extremist such as MRTA, Shinning Path, Las FARC, etc) always seem to have guns and of course being the cowards they are… well, they tried not to face the regular military… see, the military HAS GUNS … they always attacked the civilians who they KNEW HAD NO GUNS, like my grandmother and uncles. One night, a column of 20 “heroic guerrilleros,” product of the wonderful ideas spread by Che Guevara, Castro, Marx, Mao, and so on, went into my grandmother’s finca (farm), raped one of my aunts, executed two of the workers, robbed them of all of their provisions for the winter, and slaughtered ALL of their animals for meat… this, after being harassed for hours by these “heroes de la revolucion popular.”
So, what is your point Antonio??? Well, I always wondered if the story would have been different IF my uncles and their workers would have been armed? They knew that this guerrilla party was coming eventually… but they just sat there… scared, powerless, unable to do anything to defend themselves… They knew that if they escaped, that they would be hunted down, like others were… so they just waited for their turn to be abused.
Because of this environment of violence I had the BLESSING to be sent by my parents to the US, and was able to become an American, learn about the 2nd amendment of the American Constitution, an became to the realization that it WAS OK for me to use a tool (in this case a gun), train with it (just as you would with a soccer ball, or a drill), and defend my life, my beautiful wife’s, and my neighbors’ if need be. Since that moment of AWAKENING and CLARITY, I have promised myself that I will not be my uncles, and that I will use the RIGHTS that my “paternal” country allows in order NOT to be a defenseless victim.
In my experience in the “1st world” (15 years) I have encountered that people born in “rich countries” believe that violence like the one I described above WILL NEVER happen “here.” People believe that EVIL is a monopoly of the poor countries in the Tropics, Africa, or the Middle East. Think again friend, think again! CIVILIZATION IS UNNATURAL. It is a man made environment that is as fragile as the citizens willing to defend it.
By the way, I own a Mossberg 500. It is a very, very nice gun. I train with it often. If you are planning on buying a home defense gun, BUY THIS ONE! Pistols, revolvers, and rifles are for people that train often AND who ALSO have a cool head under stress. A shot gun allows you to not be an outstanding marksman and still hit your target even if you got out of bed, it is dark, and you are afraid (which is normal). This is in NO WAY excuse to avoid constant training with your weapon, proper upkeep, and preparing before hand for a home invasion. I advice that you get the 181/2 inch barrel. It is simply fantastic for close quarters, allowing you to clear corners with relative comfort. Also, install a weapon light on your gun, preferably one with a remote switch. In a home invasion you could have only a few minutes to be weapons ready. It is very nice, I say this from experience, to have your flashlight and gun ready to go without wasting precious time. This is of course the opinion of a civilian who knows some about guns, but who takes his RGHT to bear arms seriously.
I hope not to have “stirred the pot” with this comment. However, I feel gentleman understand that this matters require bluntness and sincerity. I just wanted to bring a little bit of the CRUDE REALITY of my experience to the conversation, considering that we are talking about our lives and property.
Many blessings to all…
A very interesting article with very interesting comments. Just a few thoughts.
First, I do not currently own a gun, but I am researching and considering whether or not I would like to get one for home defense/recreational shooting. However, my father owns guns and told me a few things that I thought were interesting:
1. Regarding safety of family/children with guns: We were taught (as children) that dad owned guns and they were dangerous. They were locked up so the only time we saw them was when he took them out, and even then we were afraid to touch them (Because we were taught to respect them). Similarly he locked away his pistols…
2. Regarding practicality with them being locked away: my father said he PRACTICED regularly (although he said not as much now that the kids are older) retrieving his revolver (his rifles and shotguns were locked away in the basement) from a lockbox he had (he didn’t tell me where, but suspect his bedroom) and loading it. He said he was able to do this in about 30 seconds. I think like any weapon (I’m a martial artist who practices with blunt and edged weapons too), you need to practice it to be proficient with it.
3. Regarding using guns for home defense: He shared that he never wanted to be in a situation where an intruder had a gun and he didn’t. He said he never worried about stuff being stolen, but he did worry about someone who meant to do harm to us and my mother. He gave me two pieces of advice if I decided to get a gun: 1) Train to use the gun proficiently – including basic gun safety and competitions (and gun storage and retrieval) 2) Be prepared to kill someone. Owning a gun is a serious deal and it’s not a toy.
My conclusions: Before talking to my father, I too was one who said I’d never own a gun. However, after having my house (in a nice neighborhood) broken into and reflecting my role as the protector of my family, I am reconsidering my stance. However, I’ve been doing my homework and talking to gun-owning friends as well as my father and will make an informed and well-researched decision. If I do decide to own one, I plan on practicing and becoming quite proficient with it as well as communicating about gun safety to my wife and children when the time comes.
Anyways I did appreciate this article, and I would like to see some articles on gun safety for those of us who can legally own guns.
To all who disagree with owning a firearm hear me out, this man has obviously said YOU HAVE TO LEARN HOW TO USE IT, USE CAUTION. imagine a man comes in your house or meets you on the street with a gun, he is going to kill you and rob you if you don’t do something, but he is at distance so you can’t physically get the gun away before he shoots you, this happened to my father in law who has a carry permit, he pulled the gun and the dude ran, no one was hurt, it’s not about killing someone it’s about scaring them into submission, defending yourself, if they are caught off gaurd and have a gun in THEIR face they will probably leave. You can say it will never happen to me, but how many people has it happened to that say the same.
What if that man comes into your house with a gun, you freeze because you have no way to defend yourself, he backs you into a corner with the gun pointed at your face while he rapes your wife, you’ll wish you had a gun, yeah its a bit harsh, but how many people do you think it happens to?
I am not saying buy a gun to kill someone, buy it and handle it with caution, take it to a range, get familiar with it, and if you have to pull it hope you don’t have to use it, if you do use it, do it because your life or your family is in danger. I have guns that I take to the range because fireing a gun while smoking a cigar and drinking an IBC root beer is my favorite way to relax, it is a great streass relief, if you haven’t tried it do it, you’ll love it, but i do have one by the bed just incase someone wants to come into my house with the intention to kill and or steal. the moral is keep it safe, don’t buy just to kill, they can be relaxing and fun.
Being in the Air Force and living in Virginia, i find it a comfort to have a gun in my place of residence. No, i have never had a need to use it outside of a range…Yes, i feel that my wife, son, and myself are all safer knowing it is on the premises. Guns are a handy tool when it comes to defending yourself. in the first couple posts someone mentioned a phone is a better weapon than a gun, but what if your phone is not within reach? what if an intruder has malicious intent? i have ever right to defend myself in absence of the police. being that i am getting ready to deploy i plan on training my wife how to use my handgun before i leave. i also plan on getting a conceal and carry permit when i return from the desert. once again not to feel more powerful or manly because i carry a weapon, but to protect myself and my family in the case that someone decides to threaten me. very good article!!
I read that many people beleive that having a gun makes you more vulnerable to being shot. Or that criminals should just be allowed to take you belongings while you cower in the closet. It’s disturbing to me. I also can not beleive that you would be charged with anything for shooting a armed intruder that came into your house, especially if you have a family. In fact technically you dont even have to be in danger, you just have to have a reasonable belief at the time that you or your family is in immediate danger.
One thing is for sure you should not pull a gun on an intruder unless you are an experienced and accurate shooter. Second if your not willing to pull the trigger using a gun will get you shot! Third, you should always call the police, but police are a reactive force. Which means that most of the time the crime has already been commited by the time they get there. In the right hands a gun can be your savior, in the wrong hands it will get you killed. The judgement is up to the individual.
thanks for the words of Robert, Nick Pacific, Duucfho and others..If you’re manly, you protect you and yours. Men use the right tool for the right job! The police (by their own words!) are not there to prevent crime but to clean up afterwards…Mike PS I’ve been on the receiving end of a home invasion, thankfully my (armed) roommate was awake!
I just wanted to throw in my two cents. This article is talking about self defense. In saying self defense it does not mean that you are shooting to kill. No one ever said that when you shoot a firearm you have to shoot the intruder in the face or directly to the chest. Self defense could be plainly shooting the intruder in the arm or leg. It is up to the person using the weapon whether to shoot to kill, or to scare.
@ Morgan – You said, “I’m personally of the opinion sure there are other and better ways and means to protect your family, ”
Morgan, please share what you think the other and better ways are.
Just my two cents:
I searched “Home Defense” and this site came up. I’m a woman that lives alone half the time (my husband is a firefighter and is gone for 24 hr shifts). We bought our first-ever gun last night: a 12 gauge shotgun. After reading this article, my next purchase will be a revolver.
Up until a couple of days ago, I “hated” guns. I was afraid of them and thought having one in the house would increase the chances of one of us accidentally getting killed. But the other night, my husband was gone and the dogs started going crazy at the front door–barking, growling, scratching–very uncharacteristic of them, and it scared the daylights out of me. All I had was a bat to defend myself, and my only exits would put me running through the hub of the house in clear view of all hallways, windows, and doorways. What if someone broke in? I would have to get VERY close to get a swing in and I’d have to pray I landed it well enough to incapacitate the person.
BUT: What if I missed? What if they grabbed it out of my hands? What if there was another person behind that one with a gun? Quite frankly, my “hatred” toward guns was eclipsed by my fear of home invasion/rape/death.
We came up with a plan if the situation ever arises. Grab my cell phone, run to where the gun is, rack it, and dial 911 while I sit and wait. Like you said, if the sound of chambering a round isn’t enough to scare the person off, I know I at least have a chance at whatever they’re bringing to the table.
I still don’t “like” guns, nor do I feel more American for having one. But I can finally sleep a little better at night knowing I’m giving myself a fighting chance.
You guys have got to be kidding me.
Why own a gun ?
Wake up !
To protect you and yours from critters like
rabid animals, snakes, criminal human types,
government gone bad and invasions…like
“why did japan NOT attack the USA in WW2 .
Remember, when seconds count, the police are just minutes away.
Congrats on this article and keep up the good work !
As a 17 year old male in the midwest, I’m fairly familiar with firearms. Hunting is a very common rite of passage in this part of the world, and the overwhelming seriousness and weight that goes along with the term ‘firearms’ is suitable enough for me to feel safe when around someone with a firearm. Proper responsibility is practiced, and more often than not. We can’t make everyone in this country abide by the laws, but taking weapons out of the hands of civilians entirely only means criminals have an upper hand. Most murders committed in this country with firearms are not with legally purchased weapons anyway, so why assume that LAW has anything to do with the reality of the situation? I find it ironic that there are readers from Europe chastising American’s for their acceptance of firearms in society, especially when Europe is home to countries that (fairly recently) refused freedom to countries simply seeking freedom through peaceful protest (read up on Ghandhi boys). The CRUSADES originated in what is now the UK, and the US is being shamed for owning firearms for protection? A part of the world most notorious for bringing death and destruction into humanity has no business labeling a free country for practicing it’s own rights. Just because we didn’t use blades to end people’s lives painfully and slowly doesn’t mean we’re barbaric. Oh…wait…
I think Tom (Tom July 23, 2009 at 4:27 am Why have a gun in your home at all?) needs to man up a quite bit more. This website is, after all, the Art of Manliness, not the art of being a wuss. Why have a gut at all? To protect your home and your family. That being said, My go-to home defender is a Mossberg 500 12-GA. Bad guys beware.
To the UK readers who spoke out against guns: if you and your family are confronted by a single armed man, or two unarmed men, good luck. Real men are ready to protect their family. Maybe your lady will step up to the plate since you obviously have zero balls and zero sense.
What the hell are you guys talking about, their is nothing wrong with owning a gun, it has nothing to do with being “manly” either. Why do you think women carry guns in their purses? For protection dumb ass. Criminials illegally carry guns all the time, putting you in harms way, what is so damn wrong about legally getting a weapon yourself to protect yourself, family, property, etc.
everyone should own a gun, especially with such a high crime rate, and anyone who says otherways is a unintelligent baffoon. We live in an unsafe world, get realistic!
and that one fact: “Everyday, 8 children and teens in the U.S. die of gun violence” that some idiot commented is probably the dumbest and most inaccurate fact i have ever heard.