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	<title>Comments on: 30 Days to a Better Man Day 13: Declutter Your Life</title>
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		<title>By: West LA</title>
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		<dc:creator>West LA</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 03:35:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;You can always --&quot;  is often a false statement.  

It makes people feel good to say it, but then THEY don&#039;t pay the penalty 
if you act on their advice and then regret it.  
YOU pay for their bad guidance, not them.

Many good books are out of print, not owned by your local public library system, 
and not found for sale (used or new) online (or they are surprisingly expensive).

Many good movies (which were put onto VHS tapes) have never been put onto DVD.

Many fine music recordings (vinyl records, or cassettes) 
have never been put onto CD.

Getting rid of something is usually an irreversible decision.
Keeping it is a decision which you are free to reverse at any time.
Those fond of saying &quot;You can always -- &quot; might try to remember this fact:
You can always decide to get rid of it later.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;You can always &#8211;&#8221;  is often a false statement.  </p>
<p>It makes people feel good to say it, but then THEY don&#8217;t pay the penalty<br />
if you act on their advice and then regret it.<br />
YOU pay for their bad guidance, not them.</p>
<p>Many good books are out of print, not owned by your local public library system,<br />
and not found for sale (used or new) online (or they are surprisingly expensive).</p>
<p>Many good movies (which were put onto VHS tapes) have never been put onto DVD.</p>
<p>Many fine music recordings (vinyl records, or cassettes)<br />
have never been put onto CD.</p>
<p>Getting rid of something is usually an irreversible decision.<br />
Keeping it is a decision which you are free to reverse at any time.<br />
Those fond of saying &#8220;You can always &#8212; &#8221; might try to remember this fact:<br />
You can always decide to get rid of it later.</p>
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		<title>By: Pirates! Man Your Women! &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Meet my Clutter Demon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Pirates! Man Your Women! &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Meet my Clutter Demon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2009 21:07:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] old books or t-shirts every once and in awhile all it means to be a minimalist?&#160; Hardly. While decluttering your life is a great place to start, minimalism is about changing one’s whole approach to life [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] old books or t-shirts every once and in awhile all it means to be a minimalist?&#160; Hardly. While decluttering your life is a great place to start, minimalism is about changing one’s whole approach to life [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Be a Better Man in 30 Days &#124; The Art of Manliness</title>
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		<dc:creator>Be a Better Man in 30 Days &#124; The Art of Manliness</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 20:31:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Day 13: Declutter Your Life [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Andy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Andy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Jun 2009 20:52:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Another good way to get rid of books you don&#039;t want is to give them to various friends as gifts.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Another good way to get rid of books you don&#8217;t want is to give them to various friends as gifts.</p>
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		<title>By: Tuesday Share: June 16, 2009, Edition &#171; Di Mortui Sunt</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tuesday Share: June 16, 2009, Edition &#171; Di Mortui Sunt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Jun 2009 19:07:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] week they covered memorizing things, giving yourself a testicular exam, creating a bucket list, decluttering, writing a letter to your father, making a meal, and creating a budget.  I&#8217;m pretty manly [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] week they covered memorizing things, giving yourself a testicular exam, creating a bucket list, decluttering, writing a letter to your father, making a meal, and creating a budget.  I&#8217;m pretty manly [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Adam Snider</title>
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		<dc:creator>Adam Snider</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Jun 2009 22:42:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I actually decluttered my life just a few weeks ago. Now, I just need to prevent it from re-entering my life.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I actually decluttered my life just a few weeks ago. Now, I just need to prevent it from re-entering my life.</p>
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		<title>By: Trent</title>
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		<dc:creator>Trent</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Jun 2009 06:15:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Books generate a surprisingly emotional response. There are some that you won&#039;t read again but want to keep so that your children can read them. There are some that have positive associations for us, even though we&#039;re not going to read them again. Deciding which books to toss is hard.

Clothes. I love clothes, and still have some nice socks that I bought 27 years ago (warm wool ones, so they don&#039;t get a lot of wear). I just wore, for the first time, a sweater I bought eight years ago, and discovered that I really like it. Last year I got rid of a pair of socks I&#039;d never worn that now, I really wish I had. Even so, my wife and I have identified a lot of clothes that we can give away, and once we get the donation list (for tax purposes) made, off they go!

Incidentally, the IRS rules for donated clothes allow you to claim &lt;i&gt;one-quarter of the retail value&lt;/i&gt;. You can claim higher for nearly-new clothes, but if you&#039;ve worn it a bit, best to stay safe.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Books generate a surprisingly emotional response. There are some that you won&#8217;t read again but want to keep so that your children can read them. There are some that have positive associations for us, even though we&#8217;re not going to read them again. Deciding which books to toss is hard.</p>
<p>Clothes. I love clothes, and still have some nice socks that I bought 27 years ago (warm wool ones, so they don&#8217;t get a lot of wear). I just wore, for the first time, a sweater I bought eight years ago, and discovered that I really like it. Last year I got rid of a pair of socks I&#8217;d never worn that now, I really wish I had. Even so, my wife and I have identified a lot of clothes that we can give away, and once we get the donation list (for tax purposes) made, off they go!</p>
<p>Incidentally, the IRS rules for donated clothes allow you to claim <i>one-quarter of the retail value</i>. You can claim higher for nearly-new clothes, but if you&#8217;ve worn it a bit, best to stay safe.</p>
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		<title>By: Simon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Simon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2009 07:45:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amen. This is exactly what I did when I got stuck in a rut in my life and needed to freshen up my mind and simplify my thoughts. It simply felt that as the natural thing to do. I eliminated well over 90% of the stuff I had. My ultimate goal is to being able to fit all my belongings in a suitcase or two. I am partially there thanks to the fact that I read mostly ebooks. Still working on the rest. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amen. This is exactly what I did when I got stuck in a rut in my life and needed to freshen up my mind and simplify my thoughts. It simply felt that as the natural thing to do. I eliminated well over 90% of the stuff I had. My ultimate goal is to being able to fit all my belongings in a suitcase or two. I am partially there thanks to the fact that I read mostly ebooks. Still working on the rest. <img src='http://artofmanliness.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Scott</title>
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		<dc:creator>Scott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2009 01:54:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent article. I&#039;ve been talking to my friends about this stuff for a long time, and the suggestions on book management are exactly what I have found. I&#039;ve had a number of great books on my shelf, but I have been forcing myself to answer whether I will ever read them again. Count of Monte Cristo? Excellent book. Am I ever going to read its 1400 pages again? I strongly doubt it. Sale.

Another thing, though, that might be good to keep in mind is having the balls to actually check stuff out from the library. Sure, I have my own copy of the Iliad and the Odyssey, nothing wrong with that. But if I&#039;m buying a barrage of books that I know for sure can be found at any library worth being called a library,  I shouldn&#039;t be spending my money at the bookstore. I&#039;ve actually heard one person say that he has a problem in which he cannot bring himself to read a book he does not own. Talk about wasteful and proud! I don&#039;t think that&#039;s very common, but it&#039;s definitely not manly to think yourself too good for the library. Libraries are full of excellent resources for improving one&#039;s mind, and almost all libraries are free. You can&#039;t go wrong with that.

Also, I&#039;ve been through the phase of feeling really intelligent by flashing a few big names on the shelf. However, having a book doesn&#039;t mean its lessons are in your head. Books are meant to challenge the mind, but your own mental  victories are more valuable to you in your behavior and understanding, and not as some sort of &quot;one-up&quot; mechanism to remind your visitors how intelligent you are. And just because someone hasn&#039;t read the books you have doesn&#039;t mean he&#039;s any less intelligent or worthy of respect.

Also, my parents and I just moved. They have a ridiculous amount of junk (though not nearly as much as some people I&#039;ve helped move). As little as I have, however, I desire to always challenge my possessions because we are all guilty at some point. I do what I can to weed the things that I don&#039;t truly need and put more into the things I truly do need  or the things that have true value in life (not going to lie - sometimes a good four-player video game is an excellent way to bring people together). And also, my parents were raised by classic parents who went through the depression as kids - they hold onto their crap. Some people unconsciously have this desire and it is not always wrong, but I am a firm believer that if you keep your career straightforward and waste not, you won&#039;t have to worry about falling upon hard times (though I&#039;m young, so maybe I shouldn&#039;t be talking). Besides, if you do fall upon hard times, less stuff is easier to move into a smaller place. Just some thoughts.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent article. I&#8217;ve been talking to my friends about this stuff for a long time, and the suggestions on book management are exactly what I have found. I&#8217;ve had a number of great books on my shelf, but I have been forcing myself to answer whether I will ever read them again. Count of Monte Cristo? Excellent book. Am I ever going to read its 1400 pages again? I strongly doubt it. Sale.</p>
<p>Another thing, though, that might be good to keep in mind is having the balls to actually check stuff out from the library. Sure, I have my own copy of the Iliad and the Odyssey, nothing wrong with that. But if I&#8217;m buying a barrage of books that I know for sure can be found at any library worth being called a library,  I shouldn&#8217;t be spending my money at the bookstore. I&#8217;ve actually heard one person say that he has a problem in which he cannot bring himself to read a book he does not own. Talk about wasteful and proud! I don&#8217;t think that&#8217;s very common, but it&#8217;s definitely not manly to think yourself too good for the library. Libraries are full of excellent resources for improving one&#8217;s mind, and almost all libraries are free. You can&#8217;t go wrong with that.</p>
<p>Also, I&#8217;ve been through the phase of feeling really intelligent by flashing a few big names on the shelf. However, having a book doesn&#8217;t mean its lessons are in your head. Books are meant to challenge the mind, but your own mental  victories are more valuable to you in your behavior and understanding, and not as some sort of &#8220;one-up&#8221; mechanism to remind your visitors how intelligent you are. And just because someone hasn&#8217;t read the books you have doesn&#8217;t mean he&#8217;s any less intelligent or worthy of respect.</p>
<p>Also, my parents and I just moved. They have a ridiculous amount of junk (though not nearly as much as some people I&#8217;ve helped move). As little as I have, however, I desire to always challenge my possessions because we are all guilty at some point. I do what I can to weed the things that I don&#8217;t truly need and put more into the things I truly do need  or the things that have true value in life (not going to lie &#8211; sometimes a good four-player video game is an excellent way to bring people together). And also, my parents were raised by classic parents who went through the depression as kids &#8211; they hold onto their crap. Some people unconsciously have this desire and it is not always wrong, but I am a firm believer that if you keep your career straightforward and waste not, you won&#8217;t have to worry about falling upon hard times (though I&#8217;m young, so maybe I shouldn&#8217;t be talking). Besides, if you do fall upon hard times, less stuff is easier to move into a smaller place. Just some thoughts.</p>
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		<title>By: Derek Archer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Derek Archer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2009 00:14:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Do we get like two weeks for this one? Cause 24 hours is not enough for (ahem, cough, cough) some guys out there!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do we get like two weeks for this one? Cause 24 hours is not enough for (ahem, cough, cough) some guys out there!</p>
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		<title>By: Valerio</title>
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		<dc:creator>Valerio</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2009 22:50:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent post! I&#039;ve been profusely doing that lately and my feeling of freedom and interpersonal relations satisfaction have increased 1000%, since I don&#039;t have many stuff to keep track of. Currently all my belongings fit in 2 sailor bags and a suitcase, and I&#039;m planning to reduce even more.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent post! I&#8217;ve been profusely doing that lately and my feeling of freedom and interpersonal relations satisfaction have increased 1000%, since I don&#8217;t have many stuff to keep track of. Currently all my belongings fit in 2 sailor bags and a suitcase, and I&#8217;m planning to reduce even more.</p>
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		<title>By: Ryan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ryan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2009 22:40:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great, and timely, article. My wife and I just moved into a new place and once again were confronted head on with just how much useless junk we own. We&#039;ve thrown out a lot and set aside some larger things we intend to sell. I really like the tips in the article though, especially about staying focused on one room at a time.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great, and timely, article. My wife and I just moved into a new place and once again were confronted head on with just how much useless junk we own. We&#8217;ve thrown out a lot and set aside some larger things we intend to sell. I really like the tips in the article though, especially about staying focused on one room at a time.</p>
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		<title>By: Weekly Link Round-Up: Week 2 of 30 Days to a Better Man &#124; The Art of Manliness</title>
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		<dc:creator>Weekly Link Round-Up: Week 2 of 30 Days to a Better Man &#124; The Art of Manliness</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2009 15:28:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Day 13: Declutter Your Home. It&#8217;s time to clear your mind by clearing our your environment. The more you simplify your life, the happier you&#8217;ll be. So take an opportunity this weekend to get rid of all the clutter that&#8217;s been piling up around you. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Day 13: Declutter Your Home. It&#8217;s time to clear your mind by clearing our your environment. The more you simplify your life, the happier you&#8217;ll be. So take an opportunity this weekend to get rid of all the clutter that&#8217;s been piling up around you. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Brett</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brett</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2009 15:10:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Jack-

As I said to Fraz, I&#039;m not advocating throwing out books willy nilly, and especially not throwing out books because they&#039;re old! My favorite books are old books! I&#039;m talking about selling off books that you don&#039;t like. For example, my wife&#039;s grandma often sends us random books like The Weight Watchers Cookbook or a book about good hygiene for boys from the 1970&#039;s. If you know you&#039;re never going to read that book and no one else is either, then why not sell it?</description>
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<p>As I said to Fraz, I&#8217;m not advocating throwing out books willy nilly, and especially not throwing out books because they&#8217;re old! My favorite books are old books! I&#8217;m talking about selling off books that you don&#8217;t like. For example, my wife&#8217;s grandma often sends us random books like The Weight Watchers Cookbook or a book about good hygiene for boys from the 1970&#8217;s. If you know you&#8217;re never going to read that book and no one else is either, then why not sell it?</p>
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		<title>By: Matt</title>
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		<dc:creator>Matt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2009 15:09:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Zen Habits has an excellent post on keeping you home clutter free.

http://zenhabits.net/2009/06/a-simple-guide-to-keeping-your-counters-clutter-free/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Zen Habits has an excellent post on keeping you home clutter free.</p>
<p><a href="http://zenhabits.net/2009/06/a-simple-guide-to-keeping-your-counters-clutter-free/" rel="nofollow">http://zenhabits.net/2009/06/a-simple-guide-to-keeping-your-counters-clutter-free/</a></p>
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