Then there are the kind of guys who’s fiance’s don’t want them to go to a strip club but are okay with a night out on the town. In this scenario, doing shots with random women is acceptable( i.e. Coyote Ugly) and is a good middle of the road.

And then there is the rare couple who doesn’t care what the other does at their bachelor/bachelorette party. In this case, a trip to Vegas is in order.

Personally, I’d love to have both. Maybe go to a ball game with a night on the town as a night cap.

I’m sure some are sincere, but I still find it funny that some men pretend they don’t want drinks and strippers or, worse, chastise other men for participating.

This is a complete illustration of a lack of manliness. There are two definitions of manliness. One is the opposite of womanhood, the other is the opposite of childhood. In reality manhood is the opposite of childhood. Thanks to the decline of men’s culture, there are immature souls wandering about trying to pretend to be the “opposite of womanhood”, whilst clinging fervently to their childhood. A man getting married is most likely engaged, at which point the “exclusivity” of his relationship with his fiance is sealed. Sleazy bachelor parties with strippers are not an indicator of manliness, but rather an indicator of a lack thereof. My father never had (nor would have allowed) any kind of college-frat party “in (dis)honor” of his wedding, both my Grandfathers even lesser so. Hence when I got married I made damn well sure that my brother and all my best friends knew there would NOT be something like that before my wedding.

Pull up your panties boys, and stop hiding behind your mothers apron strings… sometimes in life you are faced with things you don’t want to do or don’t agree with. A true gentleman is true to his beliefs no matter what situation he is finds himself in. Don’t go and blow some dudes bachelor party because YOU are scared of vaginas.