Comments on: The Brad Pitt Rule

By: Rick j

Rick j — Fri, 13 Aug 2010 19:18:51 +0000

And don’t buy into the notion that you aren’t as good as Brad Pitt; you asked her out, and he hasn’t. A woman who has that in her head isn’t worth your time.

Things to keep in mind:
Women, like men, want what they can’t or don’t have. They also want what the other girl has. If she sees you out having fun with another woman, especially one she knows, all of a sudden she becomes more interested.
Having a good time without her is the best cure for rejection, so move on!

By: DallasChick

DallasChick — Sun, 01 Aug 2010 21:02:50 +0000

I think the problem with “dating” is that there even are “rules” that the other sex is totally oblivious to them and that change as times/fads change…so most singles don’t even really know what the rules are…lol. If we could get around all the “rules” and just take a risk to ask a person out (also, should it really matter who asks who?) without being vague (i.e. we should hang out, we should do drinks sometime, etc.) and just being direct. For me, I may even say yes to a guy that I may not be that into, if he has enough guts to ask. Is this leading him on? I don’t think so…I give him the benefit of the doubt and hopefully we are both adult enough to have a good time no matter if sparks don’t fly…or perhaps you even decide you like him/her enough to be good friends that you could get/give dating advice to/from – and maybe even debunk some of these ridiculous rules! I’ve never met anyone who had too many friends. Am I just old-fashioned?

By: MSL

MSL — Sun, 25 Jul 2010 20:14:52 +0000

You should ask her out once and forget about it. If she’s not interested, there are approximately three billion other women out there that have the exact same things to offer that she does.

By: Tito Boy

Tito Boy — Fri, 02 Jul 2010 14:22:26 +0000

Today’s men are wussies, and most of them are my friends, the trouble is, how do I wake ‘em up?

By: David

David — Sat, 05 Jun 2010 05:42:17 +0000

Let me see if I understand your advice.

“If at first you don’t succeed, quit trying and move on.”

Who among us calls that manly?

How many times have you heard of stories where a girl finally agreed to go out with someone who persisted in asking until he convinced her she was worth his time because he was that interested? Isn’t it usually from older married couples?

Don’t be a stalker, but don’t take no so easily. Just because a woman didn’t jump at the chance to go out with you doesn’t mean she’s not worth trying to win. It may mean she’s even more worthwhile. Wait a few days, then try sending a dozen roses and a signed card that simply reads “Are you sure?”